.. • • merry C tiD 3 disappointmen • "We're programmed to get ready for the big event, and all of a sudden it's here," explain counselor Henry Lewis Jr. "Then it's Dec. 26, and it's OYer .. . d all these emotions of happy times in the past return to depr us!' Christmas is like a fantasy, and the greatest sadness is taking down the Christmas tree," says Ted Smith, coordim or of the company's alcohol and drug abuse recovery program. "When e turn the calendar to January, it's a coming-down-off-the­ mountaintop experience." "We often don't have the spirit of Christmas in its proper perspective," Smith says. "Some­ here between the tinsel paper and the hustle and bustle, we miss the true meaning." Most people bring on stress during the holidays by trying to do too much shopping. cooking, celebrating, entertaining and housecleaning. says the counsel­ ing taff. They offer these suggestions for easing the physical and men­ tal strain that can cause the holiday blues: -Snap out of old routines and do omething kind for someone in need. Getting involved wi others is a sure way to get yo mind off your troubles. Offer to drive an elderly neighbor or spend time with someone who is alone. Central United ethodist Church Second & Sea ay (Downtown Muskegon) • one: 722-6545 Dr. Lynn De OSS ev, erry Hagan Church ._..:30 a.m ____ ,_ ..... 10:00 __ 9:OOLDl. 00 Zion Ch 01 God In Christ 188 uskego� Avenue • o : 722,(;765 Rev. G. Bennett SUPL Muskegon District 10 am ...••..•...• SUnday School 11:30 am ng Wo hlp 6 pm ..•..•••..•• Y.P.W.W. 7:30 pm ........• Ewring Wors P Noon Prayer Tuel & Fri • ·5 In and About Muskegon By MUSKEGON - Beulah Baptist Olurch combined choirs III Christmas carol­ iDg in various nursing homes and private homes to sing to the 'ck and shut-iDs on Dec, 17. It heartwarming and it brought joy to the shut-IDS. Rev. J. M. BI is pastor. Queen Esther Baptist Chruch will be instaJJjng their oficers for the years on Jan. 3 during morning service. Come celebrate Rev. D. Jo New Years EYe Service from 10:30 to 12 midmgbt. Rev. James Witcher is pas­ tor. Mt. Herman Zion -B ptis Church will have their Ne Year EYe's Service from 10 to midnigh . Rev. D vid McInt is pas- tor. r I I 'I - Be careful not to overspend your budget. Resist being pres­ sured to buy every item you see advertised as a bargain, and give presents you've made. Loo for inexpensive ways to celebrate, such as caroling with family friends or neighbo . ' -Approach the holiday realis­ tically by admitting and discuss- John Wesley A.M.E. will be iDg troublesome feelings. H your . having Christmas morning ser- family is experiencing the first vice t 7 a.m. and there will be . Christmas after the death of a a fellowship breakfast after loved one, eep in mind that . service. feeling sad is normal. Also un- They will hold their New derstand that family differences Year's eve service from 10:30 are not likely to be re olved to 12:30. during a short holiday gathering. Rev. Harry Spigner is pas- -Recognize your limits, and tor. don't try to do everything your­ self. Don't be afraid to delegate chores or to ask family members to help. Pace your shopping trips, and avoid locking yourself into rigid plans or schedules. -If you tend to drin too much, it's important to avoid al­ cohol altogether. Even if alcohol is not a problem for you,it's wise to limit your drinks. Alcohol can make you start dwelling on I depressing thoughts, even when you're hapov. - Take time out from the holiday hustle and bustle for relaxing activities. Read a chap­ ter in a favorite book or play a board game with family or friends. Also, your mental out- 100 and your physical condition will improve with regular exer­ cise. Despite the "blues" that can occur this time of year, Brown says he has seen "more holiday healing than holiday suffering." "Planning and preparing for Christmas can be a pleasant dis­ tr ction from our normal, daily stresses," he says. "It's a good time to rediscover those things that have always made Christmas meaningful to us." is or. and all isn't and bright Mr. J. C. Lenoir will be celebrating his 19th birthday on Dec. 25. He and his wife Louise live t 13131 Apple Dr., unica, Michigan. . Mr. Lenoir is retired from Lakey's Foundry. He and his wife are the parents of five children. By Mary Golliday I Beulah Baptist Church will I have their New Year's Eve I Service from 9:30 to midnight. Friendship Baptist Church will have an All-Night Service on New Year's EYe. There will be preaching and singing The Heavenly Echo and other groups of the city will be there. Rev. Richard Hague is pas­ tor. I I I I I I I wi. 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