DECE BER 21 - 27,1986 THE MICHIGAN ClnZEN
Dear Erik,
Dear Erik,
My hush nd and me were
invited to have dinner with hi
p rvi r. y husband is
being considered for a new
po ition ith hi company. e
felt the dinner ent really ell.
I aw re that his bo was
looking me up and down most
of the night. But my hu and
never noticed, but hen he left
the table hi bo . I had the
cute legs he en in a long
time. All I could y wa thank
you bee use I was a little em­
barra d. But he continued
and hen my hu and returned
he ld to him "I was ju
tellin your wife how nice she
looked". He then changed the
subject but for the rest of the
night I could feel him leering
at me. Whenever our eyes met
I could tell what he wanted.
I ayed at my hu and's 'de
for the re of the evening
feeling very uncomfort ble and
not knowing what I should do.
If my husband get this new
job in the company it will
mean having dinner more often
with his supervi r. I don't
know hat to do.
rs. K.,
Orlando, Florida
Dear . K.,
In ead of keepi
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� cup mara hino cherries
1/3 cup butter or margarine,
melted
2/3 cup firmly packed light
brown sugar
1-1/3 cups (about) B er' Angel
Flake coconut
1 package (2-layer size) yel­
low cake mix or pudding­
including-included c e
mix
3-� cup thawed Cool hip
hipped topping
Grea and flour sides only
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syrup' stir in coconut and
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pread evenly and t aside.
Prepare cake mix as direct­
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that hi bo '
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fortable. Your letter didn't
imply that your hur d euld
not t the job if you didn't
play the game. That fall und r
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the Ia ! If the bo 's
woman. I feel that I should say
mething to her about my
brother. I am not trying to tell
on him but at 18 I feel that he
is in over his head. Do you
think that I am wrong?
Loving Sister
Chicago Ill.
Dear Lovin S·
I don't thi that you
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that you ould ith i
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bout your 18 year old brothe
ould definitely not be wrong.
In encou that.
Have you your
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Invert onto c e rae s: remove
p n and finish cooling. Spre d
whipped topping between layers
and on sides, reserving 1 cup
to pipe around top edge, and
garni with additional cherries,
if desired. Chill. Refrigerate
any leftover cake.
OLDED CHRIST S
DE ERT
7 miniature marshmallo
10 maraschino cherrie
2 packages 4- rving size or
1 package - rvin size
Jell-O Brand Peach or Lime
Flavor Gelatin
I-� cups boilin water
1 cup vanilla ice cream
2 cups thawed 001 Whip
whipped topping
can oz. crushed pine-
apple in juice
Arrange marshmallo s and
cherries in 5-cup mold. Dis­
lve gelatin in boiling water.
dd ice cream by p onfuls,
irring until melted and
smooth. Blend in whipped
topping. Add pineapple with
juice. Gently poon gelatin mix­
ture over mar hmallo sand
cherries. Chill at lea t 2 hours.
Unmold and de orate with
whipped topping. 10
cups or 5 servings.
CHOCOL T OUSS PIE
l-� table poons ugar or fine
bread crumbs
packa e quare
B er semi-sweet choco­
late
* cup water
8 �gg parated
2/3 cup sugar
l-� teaspoons vanilla
1 teaspoon rum extract"
Dash of salt
·Or u * cup dar rum;
or use 2 table p on oran
liqueur and omit vanilla.
Sprinkle l-� tablespoon
sugar evenly on bottom and
side of well-buttered 9-inch pie
pan. Heat chocolate in ater
in saucepan over very 10 heat
stirring constantly until choco­
late is melted and mixture i
smooth. Beat e yolk ell.
Gradually beat in _/3 cup sugar
and continue beatin until yo
are thick and light in color.
Blend in chocolate mixture
vanilla and rum extract. Beat
egg hite and t until mix­
ture ill form stiff shiny pe
Fold carefully into hocolate
mixture, blend in ell.
Pour 4 cups of the mixture
into pie pan. B at 3 0
degree for 25 to 30 minute
or until puffed and - firm t
t uch. C I 15 minute : then
chill 1 hour. enter will fall.
formin shell. Mean hile hill
remaining ch col ate mixture.
Spoon onto hilled shell and
chill the pi t Ie t 3 h urs
longer or 0 ernight.
ote: For e in cutting.
dip knife in hot w ter.
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Dear Erik,
y young r brother i eing
an older woman. In fact I
think he is seeing a oman his
own e as well. I am sure that
he feel he is getting by just
fine as he is. I kno that I
should be minding my own
busine but I care for my
brother and I have alway
wanted only the be for him.
His friends think he i cool and
they want to become like him.
I feel that he i creating bad
image for them to follow. I
know that he doesn't really
care about either of the two
women that he i seeing. I
h ppen to know the older -