THE MICHIGAN CITIZEN AUGUST 17-23,1986
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Erik
Was�ington
De Erik,
I know that hi may sound
stran e to you but I want to
tal about it. I have been eing
a married man. I kne th t he
w s married when I rust started
oin out with him but we fell
in love. I know that he is not
goin to le ve his wife and kids
for me and thats just fine with
me. I don't want to get married
anyway. But the problem is
I think that he is seeing another
womam. Thi really hurts me
because I care a lot about the
man and now he' cheating on
me. Thi i n't a game th t I
am pl ying with him becau
to 0 with m rried man
means that you give up a lot.
nd I am till giving up a lot.
He is seeing this other woman
no and I e le s and less of
him. I have no idea of what to
d to get him back in my life
ain.
Reba in
Philadelphia, Penn,
Dear Reb,
ash' on
Dear Erik,
For six months ] gave my
heart, body and soul to a man
that I wanted and loved very
much. He was everything to
me. He m de me feel so very
special all of the time. Even
when he wasn't with me I felt
g od knowing that he loved me.
But now we have a problem
in our relationship and its
with a former girlfriend of his.
Two years go they were almost
m rried but she changed her
mind and married his friend.
Her husband died in a car acci-
dent and e her at the
funeral. orne time later they
sa each other again and slowly
over the months they became
friend ain. I don't thin they
are romantically involve yet and
it may never h ppen but I am
afraid of her. She h s been on
my mind night and day. Don't
know what to do about her.
P.F.,
Chic 0, Ill.
You e borro ing trouble
d that not necessary. You
are fe ling insecure about your
rel tionship and perhap your­
If. There i nothing unusual
about two peopl becoming
friends ter the relationship
over. If th Y are becomin
friends don't try and
op it in tead you could
develop a friendly attitud
toward her. Every person in
relationship ould ha e out ide
intere and friends that don't
alway include your mate. You
ould let him know of your
feeling and learn to tru t hy_
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