AUGUST 3 - 9, 1986 THE CITIZEN
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Erik
Washington
De Erik,
I've b en eing guy no or
over a year. The girl he was
ing before me cau lot
of probl rn between u. She
i much younger than he is.
The real problem is, he keep
telling me that he loves .. me
but henever the other girl
calls and has a problem he
goes over there. He tells me
th t he e her as a sister
figure now inste d of a girl­
friend. e h alway 100 ed
up to him for dvice perhaps
bee u she is so much younger
than he i. Do you think that
he still likes her? Or is he ju
telling me this me to u an
excu . What do you sugge
for me to do.
Confu d,
Roanoke, Virginia
Dear Confused,
In order to m e your re­
don 0p 0 ,tru h to b
part of the foundation. Quite
often • peopl remain do and
become ood friends ter �
rom ti re tionship. If you
ill feelin unsure of the °
re tio then perh th
thr of you can mee d
. Sincerely,
E W ingt n
Dear Erik,
All this ee my younger
brother ha been my house
gue t. It's hi fir t time in
California. And of cour I
wanted him to have a good time
but I am not working t thi
time. It h been a strain having
him in my apartment. I told
him over the phone that my
funds were very low but he
would be more than welcome
to tay with me. Since he has
been here he has told me what
he felt my problem (or pro­
blems) are. He h told what
to do to get my If together!
He has criticize my apartment,
my clothes, my attitude and my
choice of friends. Although I'm
sure that he is having a won­
derful time, I on the other
hand, am just miserable. I
don't know what I can do
when he knows my situation.
V.K.,
1.os Angeles, Calif.
Dear V.K.,
In ite of your brothe
000 intention you owe it to
yo If to I t him kno ho
you feel. In other ord ex­
pre yourself. Whatever career
choice you h e made 8re yours
d you alo mu live ith it.
A your brother mu do ith
hi choice � ot everyone want
the same thin in life (th
God) but your career choice
d/or life choice ould be
re ected in your home. T
with your brother and don't
angry.
I ay,
E W • gton
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