rik Wf;lShington Dear Erik, A coup e of year ago, my good friend from California called and said th he wanted to come to ew York for vi it and perhap 100 for some ork. Hi life in California w s going from bad to wor . Hi ife left him for another man and he was out of work. When he arrived my life chang­ ed bee use he was al ays depre d and ju sitting around feeling sorry for him- If and drinking. He tayed • t 0 month and I paid for everything. After he went back hom to hi ife, I paid for a two hundred telephone_ bill. All of this put me in a real strain becau I don't have a lot of money. Once he was home he called to say he was gouig to end me orne money for the bills th t he had run up during his stay, but he never did! or did he ever call until today. He said that he was so sorry and h d so many problem then. He wanted us to still be friends. He never mentioned the money that he owes me. What do you think that I should do. Ricky J., ew York, ew Yor "For the look of Excellence" • TUES. - PRJ. - 8 a.m. - 6 p.m. SAT. 8 a.m. - 4 p.m. CLOSED MON. lOR CITIZE S DAY TUES. 926-6388 271 E. EMPIRE BE TON HARBOR JUL V 6 - 12, 1986 THE CITIZEN 13 E Dear Ricky J., If you inte eel in maintainina the friendship and if you v ue it, th you mu be ho . h both younelf and him. Let him know ho you feel about bei left hold­ . all of e bill and h vin to p y them. The only way th t any friend ip can if e eryo i hon ith each other. Perhap you can 0 out some kind of payment or ju foraet it and then go on with your friendship. You ha e been a good friend and I am sure that he kno it. Sincere y in on * * Got a problem? Need an answer? Or do ou just want to talk? Then write to Erik Washington in care of this news­ paper or to: 'Dear Erik', Times Square Station, P.O. Box 755, New York, New York 10108- 0755* * * membe Home of the Blues Brooklyn Bar & Grill 379 Territorial, B.H.