Dear Erik, There is oman in my buildin that I thin . the be looking woman in Benton Har­ bor. She ha to b everything that man could hope for. I h ve ju moved into the build­ ing and I have not met her yet. I have even a the manager of my apartment building to make an introduction. But he said that I would be wasting my good time bee u the lady has th reputation of being cold and aloof and it h s been said that she doesn't date Black men. Right away I was turned off. But I stiII find myself attr t d to her and I don't know hat to do bout it. T.E., F r Ion time now I have nt d to write you but me ho I ju never did. I have t a problem and I haven t found d y to deal with it. I am oing with a m n th t I lov and I don't really no ho he i f ling ab u t m . Th II I tionship i only , but I think that i enough for him to tell me if he me or not. Don't you? r b c u this i B ooklyn to ow you and to fmd out h t you abou t. Don't be ch a ru and give the a chance to 11'0 with yo . Its aD right to let hhn 0 your feelin . Sincerely, E W in on Dear Erik, I am trying very hard to make Bruce fall in love with me. I listen to everything that he has to say and I try to help him with his problems and he has a lot. I have tri d to become a good friend and be there for him whenever he needed or wanted me. At this point he still does not know that I am in love ·th him. He tru ts me and tell me everything. Yesterday he said that he was falling in love with 'Susan'! She . a friend of mine (she on't • be for long!) and now I am really hurt. Doesn't he e what he really mean to me and what am I suppo to do now? I don't want to be hi friend, I ant to be his girlfriend!! ! onaF., - - Got a problem? Need an answer, or do you just want to talk? Then write to Erik Washington in care of this newspaper or to: 'Dear Erik', Times Square Station, P. O. Box 755, N� York, New York 10108-0755- -- E 0 E • CHILDREN . IIFor a look that's up with the times. Come to LADY T'S" TUE5.·FRl-8 a.m.-8 p.m. SAT. 8 a.m.-4 p.m. CLOSED MON. E lOR CITIZE 0 Y TUES. 926-6388 BE��6 E·HEAR��=_ Kemp to app TIlREE RIVERS - Con­ gressman Mark Siljander ill host an "old fashioned Ice Cream Social" on April 26, 1986 at the Fir t A mbly of 'God, School Gymnasium, 5550 ar at ice cream social Oakland Drive at 1-94 Exit n South Portage. The event which runs from 1:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. will kick off the Siljander campaign for re-election. Congre man and unde­ clared pre idential hopefulJac Kemp ill be the special gue t.