FEBRUARY 17 - 23, 1 6 THE CrrlZEN
Erik Washingt�n
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Dear Erik,
I am going. with a man ho
. married. He hi three chil­
dren and he doesn c e about
hi wife nor hi m rri ge. He
ys that he only wants to be
ith me. I am 28 year old and
I hive aI y taken c re of
my If but thi man help me
ith my rent and my bills.
He tl e c e of me in I way in
hich no other man his ever
h or ever cared. He m e
me feel good bout my If and
I hive not felt thi ay in year .
IBut I am h ving I problem. I
can't ee him when I w nt to,
I alway have to wait for him
to call-me in the middle of the
ee. For t 0 or three days
wee we are together and both
of u feel good about every­
thing. Then he leaves and for
the next four day I am in I
deep depression until I hear
from him again. It hard for me
to do anything or even leave
my ap rtrnent. I want and
need to e more of him but I
don't kno how to do it.
YK.
S n Franci co, Calif.
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ANTHONY WILLIA S
HAIR STYLIST
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Dear Erik,
I hive got to mea choice
between two men in my life.
I am almo t 30 year old and I
have never been married or
been involved in I rious
romance. I met these two men
almost at the same time and
for the first time in my life I
hid two intere ting men ho
cared about me. I w just
thrilled and I didn't expect
either one of them to be around
long. And for that reason I
went out with both of them.
They both care for me and
now I am afraid of hurting one
of them or if I 10 both of
them then I will b the one
being hurt. Plea e don't lecture
me about how unfair I hive
been because I feel b d enough.
I just need to know how to
mike the deci ion.
Foolish oman,
Chicago, 111.
lecture.
you If the simpl of
questio about the two men
th t you care bout. The firsr
i ho do you really feel bout
ch on . Who you the m t
comfortable with? And h t
do you ant out of your relat­
ionship? Keep in mind that
bone ty play a ery important
part in any kind of relation ip.
Sincerely,
Erik ington
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