THE CITIZE JANUARY 6 - 12, 1986 7 Dear Erik, I've got small problem and I think I need your dvi e on . the m tter. Actually thi small problem is very important to me. I have been ein the same . man for about 3 or 4 months. e started dating with no kind of commitment or rule about our dating other people. But my feeling for him h s grown to th point of where I feel a if I am falling in love. But I feel a if I may have made mistake in telling him how I felt. On the eveing th t I first told him. . . he fell sleep in the middle of my ying I love you! The next time I t rted telling him bout my feelin , he t it prelude to m ing love. e pend 11 of our free time together and it is re joy being with him. But I am very confu d and d 't kno where the relationship is heading do you? AI ay, E ashin on e pre h' If. 'Karla" Atlanta.G . Dear Erik, Last night my new boyfriend and I went out for dinner and movie. While we were t the movie he r� into an old girl­ friend of his. hen they w e ch other, neither one of them . d anything for a while but I ju felt that they anted to be alone 0 I went to the rest­ room. On my w y out I saw her give him a slip of paper which he quickly put into his pocket. t first I was real mad and I didn t enjoy the film at all. I went to get me candy and I ran into her am and I told her th t Bill' and I were going to get married. She looked real surprised and hurt and I felt real good about it. ow that I have lied I am ared that my boyfriend may friend out what I did and become angry with me. hat do you think I should do? V .. Chic g , Ill. Dear arla', The only ay for both of you to really kno t . h ppening 't your re 'on- ip or hat you want your relation ip to become i to be totally hone ith each other. Pic tim and pi ce th t oin to be comfort ble for you both to free enough ith e ch oth r to bout hat you no ant for your relatio ip. Find out h t hi need . and ant are and of co he ould kno wha you . There' e ery chance that he i feelin the e t t you do and h not been ble to U ITED INSURANCE COMP Y OF ERIC 321 PIPESTONE ST. nton Hub r, I 9022 OPEN: Mon.-Fri. 10:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. I WILL BE IN YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD SOON LADYT'S E PIRE v .. , Fir of all don't et ught up into anymore lie TeD your boyf�nd that you feelin left out and un hen you m t t r. Let him th t you are rry for telling the Ii d th t it on't h ppen ain. It t that you be hon even if he ne er finds out bout the li . Sincerely, Erik ashington Sylvia Robinson Sal s R pres ntativ. 616/925-5964 BEAUTYSALO TUES - FRI - 8 am. - 6 p.m. SAT 8 am. - 4 p.m, CLOSED MON. •• Got a problem? Need an answer? Or do you just want to talk? Then write to Erik Washignton in care of this newspaper or to: 'Dear Erik', Times Square Station, P. O. Box 755, New York, New York 10108-0755·· • CALL 926-6388 cDonald Chiropractic Clinic BACK, HIP 1& LEG PROBLEMS NECK, SHOULDER 1& ARM CO DITIONS WHIPLASH INJURIES .. . ,.. . ... In the Service arine CpI. R. GOODRU, n of aren S. Goodrum of 2231 iwi Court, Portage, I ha been promoted to hi pre nt rank while rving t 3rd anne Aircraft Wing arine Corp Air Station El Toro,CA. A 1984 graduate of water­ vliet High School atervliet, he joined the arine Corps in September 1984. arine Lance Cpl. 0 RAD PH cG IS on of Opal C. McGinni of 262 Gull Road Kalamazoo I recently reported for duty with l st arine Air raft Wing, arine orps Air Station Futenma on Okinawa. 1 83 graduate of Big Rapids High School Big Rapids, he joined the arine orp in arine o to er 19 3. D OLF gt. D IEL S. , n of illicent A. Daniel n of 1974 Reynolds St. us eg n I has been meritoriously promoted to his pre nt ran while rvin at arine Corp Recruition tat­ ion, Lansing, l. Stone received the a- celerated promotion in re og- nition of out stand in perfor­ mance duty proficiency and demonstrated profe sional abiliti . 1977 graduate of u e- gon High hool he joined the arine Corp in December 1976. His wife Pamela i the daughter of How: rd E. nd laine Ten Hove of 1930 Howden St. al of u eon. CALL FROM A YWHERE IN MICHIGAN CALL WITH NEWS OR FOR ADVERTISI G INFORMATIO ze T - BETTER EWS FOR BETTER PEOPLE I