THE CITIZEN NOVEMBER 25 - DECE BER 1. 1985 13 Erik Washington ar. John H. cDonald, .0., D.C * Dr. John C.B. cOonllet, BA., D.C. Dr. 'lull se nzka as., D.C. cDonald Chiropractic Clinic other women! I'm real hurt right no becau I thin th t I m going to 10 him to some­ body el e. I am not into re- lationships here both of u would be free to see other people. I don't w nt to be free. I don't know what to do . to m e him change hi mind. Do you? D Erik h ve been ein the same man for over a year and I thought that the man loved m I loved him. It em to me th t our relation hip wa just fine, but last wee he . d to me over the phone that we ould be more in tune' with the time . nd that we should our relation hip progres­ ell I didn't understn d ying 0 I ju t Sure, honey whatever you w nt' . ell I found out th t he s t lking about seeing Q.R. Orlando Florida De Q.R. nyo - a more pro i relation ip to the person th t they are in olved ith m y be yin that the rel tion ip i comin to an end. But don't ond gu him, find out from ju t hat exactly hat he mean and hat h nt. Let him kno ho you feel about him and abou t the re tio ip. Don t play game d don't 0 alon ith ju anything. Be hon ith him and him to be totally hone and up front with you t all time. Find out h t important to both of you. Dear Erik, I ve got a small problem and I ould like your advice. I'm engaged in a relationship and I always find myself in com­ petition with my lady, her family, her former boyfriends , A. IHOP 74 Wall St. BENTON HARBOR, MI 49022 1926-96741 CHILDREN'S HAIR CUT MEN & WOMEN'S HAl R CUT ALL STYLE PERM, CURL, WASH 1& SET WOMEN'S EYE BROWS ARCHED CURLS BY APPOI TMENY -THU • 10-7:30 F I-SAT. 9-1 BACK, HIP LEG PROBLEMS NECK, SHOULDER & ARM CONDITIONS WHIPLASH INJURIES and my lady' t of standards and rule. I want to be with her at least I think I do. ) but I don t want to change and becom another person or the per on that they want me to be. e e are not changes for the better but to becom the type of man that she ha in her fantasies. I have tried but its not for me. at do you think I should do? 'Bill , Orlando Florida Dear 'BiD", I don't tho this' U problem. It methin riou. It one thing to If impro ement but it another to h ve it force on you by people for all t wrong Let your girlfriend you feel d don t allo any more tim to p If you e not re of your emotional feelin reguardin her, e some time to rt them out and re-d' over your feeling about yourself nd your lady. Be your 0 n man fi . Sincerely, E' W ington Dear Erik, I want to become a singer and move to Holloywood. Do you think that I would have to get an agent for my voice? Betty illis Roanoke, Virginia Dear Betty, A a ru ,singe heman- g and/or bookin At thi point you don t a theatrical ent. It be for you to m p of your voice and nd copie to booking ent, record compani and m n gement companie . Best of Luck. ,. ,. "Got a problem? Want to talk? eed an answer? Then write to Erik Washington in care of this newspaper or to: "Dear Erik", Times Square Stat­ ion, P.O. Box 755, ew York, New York 10108-0755* ,. ,. Across from :. S, Auto Accld S.-vl Phone 925-BACK or 925-3232 -OSCo / By LLOYD STRAYHO ARIES-MardI 11-A 10 Count your bles ings this Than grvmg ee, for you really have nothing standin in your ay. Saturday, ho ever, sugge you be careful of letting emotion or emotional upsets get in the ay of good common sense. Monday prove favorable for friendships. 548. TAURUS-Ap 11- • 1 Thi Than giving period i free of any obstruction for any pecial plan you've arranged. Late Friday into Saturday ugge ts you push your ood n to get your point cro . On Monday and Tuesday however. ctly tum down offers made you. All that glitters is not gold. 169. GEMINI-May 11-J 20 Looking at your co mic map, this auld be an excep­ tiona] Thanksgiving week, especially Thanksgiving Day . self. It doesn't mean exceptional in the ay of gourding yourself by overeating, but by opportunitie brought to you-perbaps by a third pany. All the same, you should DOt have any problems. 237. C CE -J 11-J 11 In your special ca this wee ,extremely good ne • aits you ju t fier Thanksgiving Day, lasting int th eekend. Help and istance follo ed by some po ibl expansion of personal and/or busine s goal is certainl in the wind. 967. LEO-J ll-A 10 Your time to really rise and shine comes ju after the Thanksgiving weekend. In fact, that's when your ble - ings ould stan. TIle specifIC days to mention are Sun­ day and Monday as ell Tuesday. You'll have no ex­ cuse for not doing ell then. 869. VIRGO-A 11-se,te 11 Thanksgiving Eve may not find you in the type of mood that's friendly. A day or two after Thank giving itself should your ble ing come forth in the ay you ant. The weekend is Jated as quiet, and perhap it ould be best to play catch-up on things undon . 590. LIBRA ptem ll-Octo r 1 Wednesday and Thursday of this holiday ee favorable even if only in a minor y. Late Friday into Saturday suggests you stay in control of thinking before speaking. Otherwise, . may cost you for having a 100 e lip. Next Monday uggests a change for the better. 27). SCORP <>--Octo 11- 0 This' a rather mild holiday week. ju t glancing over your cosmic map. Friday evening going into turday comes the first break in the eek. Right after Sunda ug­ gests u ing caution on your part if you want to void eo­ tanglemen . 128. SAGITTARIUS- 0 ll-Dece 11 If there ever was to be a tre sful, or to say the I t, hectic time, this unfortunately is the ee for it. Therefore, . may be best to play your holiday loosel rather than to try eeping to a tight or rigid schedul . Tuesday of next ee . more up your alley. 832. C CO 2l-J 20 • Enjoy your Thanks iving Day m h as you can. The reason bein that ju afterwards, there are strong am­ ing am po ible deception, rip-off and/or biting off more than you can che . So go more 10 ly for best results. Your number i 923. By all mean take advantage of the remaining day of thi holiday ee. It ould be a rather happy 0 . Ho ever on the reverse side of it, the fir t opening days of the De month are not likely to favor you t all. So u the greatest of care durin December 1 st, 2nd and 3rd. 161. PISCES- 10- arcb T day before Thanksgiving may find you some hat in a slump. But I'm g d to y it uld quickly P On Sanarday, some important opportunitie hould coming your ay. Thi carries over t least the fir t two days of December. Enjoy. 433.