SEPTEMBER 30 - OCTOBER 6. 1985 THE CITIZEN
Dear Erik,
Dear Erik,
It seems to me that every­
time I fall in love with a guy,
something always eems to go
wrong with the relationship. I
really want to be in a relation­
ship with a man, but I always
seem to end up with the wrong
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Dear Erik,
I'm having a small problem
and I could u your advice.
T 0 days ago I received a gift
in the mail from a guy who
ys he . falling in love with
me. He was very honest in his
note and said he a living
with another woman and that
he not happy in the re­
lationship and at the moment
he could not get out of it.
But he wants u to start dating.
I kno who he i and I do like
him, but for some rea n I have
been having second thoughts.
Whats your opinion?
"Rita",
Chicago, m.
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already involved in I relation­
ip therefore he . not free.
Be and r en to your
nd thouJh .
Always,
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guy. I don't like being alone
so there have been many time
when I will let a guy walk all
over me or whatever just
he will stay with me. I've
been real good to this man.
But I know that he'll leave
just like the rest. ost of the
time I'm real ared.
MJ.,
Compton, California
Dear MJ.,
The Ii thin that I wlnt
you to realize • that you don't
hne to accept in any
fonn from anyone beau you
t and need to be loved.
Loft and are two very
diffe.ent realit·. You h ve
been confu' them into the
thina and t erein lie a
rio . It important
that you learn to love yo If
and If-respect ill foUo .
Yo need to fmd out what d
who you reaIly.e. You may
fmcl all of thi diffICUlt to do
aIo , therefore it would be
. to ta 'th a councilor
or a psy 0 There are
DO many types of pro
and JI'OU to help you repin
your f esteen. Don' .
around feel sorry for your-
.elf. Start to e lOme
chan your life for the
better.
Sincerely,
Erik W ington
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Dear Eri ,
I have a problem and I need
some help. I am 21 years old
and I have been seeing a man
that I care about very, very
much. We have been seeing each
other for about four weeks.
I know that he feels the same
way th t I do. We have made
love on vera! occasions. The
real problem in our relationship
is that he has a woman that he
lives with and he won't leave
er. All of this i leaving me
very confused.
'Rebbi',
Chicago, Ill.
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An
y th I help
you w' h your confusion· to let
you kilo that you are bei
uted (and yo .-e do' your
part to him). You are
p younelf a very
ond in t' man' emotio ,
tbouaJrt his life. There'
no re n for you to h e to
ttle for this type of a relat­
ionship. The most lOund ad­
vice for you to folio . to get
rid of thi m from your life.
You hi e no future 'th him.
AI ay,
Erik W ington
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YOUR
HOROSCOPE
October 2-8, 1985
By LLOYD STRA YHOR
ARIES- 21-A
Don't be surprised if you're in a some t analytical
mood right no about ochers weU yourself. Friday
. ill be more pronounced in this way. On Sunday, e
. easy with members of the family and loved ones to make
the best of the day. Tuesday suggests improved finance .
TAURUS-A 21-May
Exceptional is the one ord to um up your ee th'
time around. h's especiaUy beneficial in the Y of friends
and family coming to your aid, or simply standing in your
comer. The days to atch for this is DO and tb' com­
ing Sunday. 216.
GEMINI- y 21-J 20
Boch Thursday and Friday of the De month is sho
to be very favorable from the viewpoin of personal ex­
pansion and - . lance from the past in some ay, hape
or fonn. The balance of the week is free of any obstruc­
tion. 158.
CANCER-J 21-J 21
Have you been wdin for chat golden morne to when
to act on a certain plan or get a long range project off
the ground? Then this' certainly your ee to do so. _
From the very sian of this is and aU the way into next
eek, you will be Ii e right on a cloud. You have no one
to blame if you don't get ahead no . 241.
LEO--J 2l-A 2
Try not 10 let minor disagreemen with partners and
loved one get in the way of the bottom line goal that's
been established. By Friday evening and the next fe day
. ahead, the�'U be a much better change. 040.
vtRGO-A l1-Septe bel' 21
You'U find getting along with others this wee les of
a strain chan normally so. Stay a)en to possible health con­
cerns during Friday and Saturday. Luckily. both Sunday
and Monday looks good for love and romance. 213.
LIBRA �r
The opening days'ofOctober, like the r, should
be rather mild for the most part. Late Friday into Satur­
day suggests an unexpected turnaround in your affairs,
for the better. Sunday and into the next day may be just
the reverse. 025.
SCORPIO-Odober 21-. 21
If the middle pan of the ee rands you at odd ith
members of the oppos' sex on issue , don't be surpris­
ed. For you it'D be like walkin on eggsheU . Sunday go­
in into Monday ill be much be for such matters.
Also a good time to let away for a day. 806.
SAGITfARIUS- 12 21
Boch the 3rd and 4th of the De month is entirely out
of harmony with any of your interests. It ould definite­
Iy be best if you'd keep a low a profile as possible. Star­
ting around Sunday and movin forward for the next cou­
p of days ill find you in a much better posi ion. 321.
C�CO n-J-.��
From the 100 of it, the early pan of this period .
favorable for you. B Iookin alad to SalUrday thru
Monday evening, noching but rious cosmic resistance
I' ahead. Be very careful in ma rs of health and money
dealing especiaUy. 198.
AQUARlUS-J aary 21-F I'
Both the stan of this period as eU the end a� on
the downbeat side of things as far as you're co emed.
Don't expect much from others. At the other end of this
period is a more serious warning to exercise the greate t
of care and prudence in money matters. Take heed! 634.
PISCES-Feb lO-Marc lO
I f this wee had to be summed up in a fe ords,'
would be that companionship as weD 10 ing and shar­
ing hould be high on the list. The only damper of the
week is indicalled for Friday and Saturday. Scaya ay from
moody or mentally disturbed people at th· time. 560.
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