AUGUST 19 - 25, 1985 THE CITIZEN
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ea
E
,
De Erik,
I don't usually like going to
other people when I have pro­
blems but I need a man' opin­
ion. I am 26 year old and I
alre dy have two small children
th t I support by my If. For
the last 6 months or 0, I've
b en sort of hanging out with
this man who really like me.
I am not use to men being nice
or good to me. I have been
having problems dealing with
him becau e I don't feel the
same way that he doe . y
kids like him becau he is
real good to them. Thi man is
always trying to help me with
some of my bills, I know that
thi sounds illy but I am glad
that I can do for my If and
my kids. He has ask me and the
kids to move in his house with
him. He ys he knows how
I feel, but I don't e ho
when I have never really told
him. What do you thin I
ould do?
Ro "
Chicago, Ill.
Dear 0 "
don't
I don't think .
of you to
template movin in with thi
man hen you don't no ho
you feel about him. ot only
ould thi be unfair to him but
to you and your children
en. U of thi
to you if you
o in you kindne
I think thi guy .
doing i be to be under-
andin of your ne emotion
d confu ion. I think that
you ould take e en more
time to di over your feeling.
It o nderfu I that you
t e pride in you If nd your
pport sy tern. In tim
ill learn to are ith
othe and ju t import ntly
to accept from me one you
care about nd not feel bad or
guilty about it.
Sincerely,
E . in ton
Dear Erik,
I'm 18 years old and I have
just started going to college.
When I wa in high school
everyone always said I was the
prettiest girl on campus and
everyone made a big deal about
me and everything I did. I was
Homecoming Queen and I was
voted the most popular girl in
the school. ow that I'm in
college nobody pays me any
attention. 0 body has asked
me to go out or even try to be
friendly with me. I dress very
chic everyday and nobody
notices or give me any kind of
compliments. I don't under­
stand them and it make me
feel bad about myself.
"LD.",
Roanoke, Virginia
rL.D.,
926-11"97
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living. the pattern of s regati n
"does have certain ne ative
,economic c n equences," th
report states.
One such con equence is
related to the different a ces­
sibility to mortgage and home
improvement loans," Darden
writes.
� Clearly re idents of moder­
ate-to-high min rity tracts are
receiving les than their fair
share of c nventional mortgage
loan, ' the rep rt says.
While the number and volume
of mortgage loans in Mi higan'
12 SMSAs increased in 1983
the percentage of loan made
in moderate-to-high minority
censu tracts decreased for two
of three loan cate ories, the
report said.
In addition, the report notes
that the rate of loan denial
is higher in minority census
tracts. This despite the finding
that foredo ure rates for four
out of five years were lower
in the same censu tract.
HOUSES ARE OLDER
Overall, Blacks, because they
are disprop rtionately I cated
in central cities arc al more
likely to live in lder, ver­
crowded hou ing. the rep rt
finds.
On the average, 40 percent
of the SMSA housing unit
ccupied by Black in 19 0
were built in 1939 or earlier,
compared t 29 percent f r
whites. the report note.
On the average. in 19 O.
Black in owner ccupied h u -
in in metropolitan area of
Michigan were 3.5 times III re
likely than whites t live in
overcwo ded hou ing." th
report ay. The rate wa
2.3 time f r renter.
The problem 0 overcrowd­
ing for BI ck i greatest in
Benton Harb r , where 11.
percent of home wning Black
lived in conditi n alrno t ven
tim a .rowded a white.
LESS HO E OW ERSHIP
hile three-quarters of �II
h iu ing for hite ion r-
occupied. the rate i iu t le
than hal for Blue "
r. Darden trc: in the
report the value ( f h unc \ \ nc -
'hip inthe fort to accumulate
call h.
He note' thaI me horne-
,8 L 0 D T
HOR.
ARIES-M reb 2l-April1O
The topic of focus for you this wee is around mat­
ters of money and the past. Friday is indicated as an im­
portant day for change. But according to the cosmic
arrangements for Monday, the bottom lin is to keep
your eyes and ears open to possible deception or rip­
offs. 149.
TA R April 21-May 2
From the 100 s of it, the forces of thin may still
have the best of you. Ho ever ju t after the ee end,
there'll come the opportunity to do something of si -
nificance, especially in the way of career and/or finan­
cial moves. 262.
GEM) 1- a 21.Ju 10
Dare do nothing of significance or long duration, if
that's what you had in mind this ee. The reason
simply is that the sweep of cosmic resistance extends
from late ednesday night all the way thru early Sun­
day morning. For best results, take a bac -seat attitude.
864.
CA CER-Ju 21�uI. 21
ednesday and Thursday of this ee holds minor
importance for creativity or putting plans in order.
However there is a heavy cosmic downpour indicated
fOT both Sunday and Monday. So do hat you can
OW before then. Later into next wee you will see im­
provement. 841.
LEO-J . ll-A t 10
Try not to bite off more than you can che 'during
the first part of the week. It could be the cause for emo­
tional embarrassment if you're not careful. Friday into
Saturday shows possible promi e for a tnp of some
kind-or help from an influential friend. 160.
VlRGO-A 21- em 21
Both Wednesday of this week and Monday of next
eek 100 s potentially favorable, from a cosmic point
of view, to expand your reputation as well as your
career. The only pitfall between no and then will come
around Friday going into Saturday. Just take it easy
then. 827.
LlBRA- bel' ll-Odober 10
For all intents and purposes since this is a mild
cosmic type of wee ,it wouldn't really be best to push
for, or expect, something extraordinarily big to take
place'. So save those types of expectations for another
time. Ho ever, late Friday into Saturday is listed as
favorable. 070.
SCORPIO-Otto 21- ov bel' 21
By the time this reaches you, you may still be
coasting from the cosmic help of the stars which began
just a few days ago. In fact the momentum is such that
it even goes into next eek as well. It would definite)
be in your interest to plot a course of action now ... and
move on it. 353.
AGITfARI S- ovember ll-Decr 21
Consider this a grand slam type of wee for you,
cosmically spea ing. In short there's just about nothing
that can't be accomplished this week, especially if your
heart and mind is in the right place. Assistance, travel
and domestic types of activities will be more pronoun -
ed.427.
CAPRI OR '-� ber 22.J nuary 20
Astrologically, this is not a bad ee at all for you.
In fact, it .could be just the rever e if you play your hand
right. The days to be especially aware of the e potential
golden opportuniti comes thi ednesday the 21 st as
ell as both Sunday and Monday of next wee ou
should do really well. 117.
AQ 'ARI Juu �'21- ebruary 19
Although thi wee is cosmically slated for the mild
side. there are a couple of days where you'll find getting
thing done a breeze. To be e 'act, Friday and especiall .
Tuesday of ne t wee are the one. 802.
PI. ebru 11 10-Mal"'C'h 20
The onl: small warning of the ee i Ii ted for ri­
dav the 23rd. It suggests being. careful 'hen ou're out
in the public. On a brighter note, you can 100 . forward
to financial assistance of some ind as ell as a chan'
to make a name for yourself. 114.