JULY 29 - AUGUST 4, 1985 THE CITIZEN • AME Church wants 'fleeing- fathers' home ASHVILLE Churches h ve neglected the family and have done little to reverse the trend of the "vanishing male" - the phenomenon in CORcsmsd WomsR host Mother, daughter banquet By Irene Green USKEGO - The Concern­ ed omen' group recently hosted a other and Daughter Banquet with the theme, "I Really ant To Know You." Purpo of the dinner a for mother and daughters in the area to get together for a time of sharin and fellowship. This group has di overed that many time inter-personal relationship deterior te and are ometimes even destroyed by misunder- tanding, I ck of communica- tion, busy or conflicting hedules etc. Therefore, the ultimate go I of this dinner was to build or to re-e tablish cIo r rel tionship between -rnother and their dau ters. A "Let's Get uainted" time wa held where partici­ pant and gue t had a chance to meet e ch other. A scripture reading and a welcome wa extended by the group's pre 'dent, Jo Ann Betts. Dorothy elton gave the invoc - tion. short talk detailing the purpo , goals, and objectives of the group w presented by Maggie Jone . u ical selections were pro­ vided by the Oake Sisters and Rosie Lane. One of the special event of the evening was the Game Time. This was an activity where the daughter had prepared questions for their mothers. The topic was, 'Question You Alw ys Wanted To Know And Were Afraid To As". The questions from the daughters ranged from sub­ jects on dating, marriage, teen­ age pregnancy, drug, etc. Mothers and audience partici­ pants answered questions according to their knowledge and life experience. This proved to be a fun-filled, stimu­ lating and thought provoking discu sion. Floral corsages and table arrangements by Peggy Watkins who also gave the cIo ing re­ marks and acknowledgements. Other decoration were by Ann Oakes who also gave the bene­ diction. The Concerned Women are: Jo Ann BeUs, Ann Oakes, Irene Green, Peggy Watkins, Dorothy Melton, M ggie Jones, Pat Clark and ellie Billings. Gregory fasts Ethiopia relief BOSTO - Dick Gregory will go on a 4O-day fast in Ethiopia thi Summer where he will also take an active role in Pha II of the on-going experiment utilizing hi 4X utritional Forumla in the treat­ ment of famine victim m frica. Speaking at a recent new conference here ith Berhane Dere , Ethiopia' Deputy Com­ mi loner for Relief and Re­ habilitation, Gregory said that he ould subject himself to the m treatment provided to group of famine victim being treated for kwashiorkor or vere malnutrition with th u of the Dick Gregory 4X utri­ tional Formula. The program begun earlier this year, will be under the upervi ion of doctor at the F culty of Medicine Addis dab University, Addi Ababa, Ethiopi . During Ph I of th ex- periment, conducted with in­ f nt uffering from kwashiorkor or severe m lnutrition, doctor in Ethiopi wrote that 'the finding in thi pre-pilot tudy provide confidence to initiate - larger study comp ring modi­ fied Dick's formul with for­ . mula u d tr ditionally in thi h pit 1. . . . In the pattern tudied. Dick's modified mix- ture was clearly efficaciou in reversing clinnical and bio- chemical abnormalities of kwashiorkor. " Mr. Deressa, the visiting Ethiopian official, told said at the new conference: ' e are most grateful to my friend and brother, Dick Gregory, for the u of his nutritional for­ mulas in Ethiopia. Early tests of his formulas in the care of nutritionally deficient patients have been most encour ging. We are moving now to extend the tests and we will be happy to meet with you and tell you the results." The Ethiopian official said that his East African nation had once been an exporter of foodstuffs and tha they hope to regain that tatus. This could be ured, . Dere said' if doner n tion and e pecially the United State, would also help Ethiopia with medium and long term develop­ ment assistance. We make a peci I appeal to America - a nation that feed it people and much of the w rid with fewer than 3 percen t 0 f it P pulation en ged in agriculture - to help u with long term development si - tance that w can again become If ufficient in f, d." which jobless men leave their families in earch f If-esteem say an Afric n ethodist Epi opal Church official. "Churche haven't spoken up enough on the problem of preserving family life" said Katheryn M. Brown, elected president I t week of th denomination' Connectional Lay Organizati n. Brown said the flight of men from home is an epidemic problem in the Black com­ munity, but is not confined to Blacks. , e feel it's really a product of economics," she aid. 'Economically deprived men sometimes have a lower elf­ esteem. We feel it's a part of th purpose of the church to motivate or re ore that con­ fidence in a per on." Brown, the assistant principal t an Atlanta high chool, aid she hopes to lead the group to start outreach and financial pr gram to help strengthen families. Other go 1 for her four-' year term re to expand so ial programs to fight drug abu , alcoholi m and crime - par­ ticularly where it affects young people, she aid Thur day. The denomination ha about 2.4 million members in 6200 churches in the United State the Caribbean and Africa. Its biennial ion, which ended July 18, drew orne 1 500 delegates. Brown said the phenomenon of the • vanishing male" is one of ociety's gravest trends. "I don't want to und exist, but any male who is a real male will not want to tay home and see his wife work from sunup t undown," he said. "The problem is the dirnin­ i hed ego of the father in the hotne. So he leaves. The Census Bureau calls them 'de- rtion .' but that s misle din . They leave becau they feel they have to be men." The trand h led the A Church recently to ever I Ion -terrn pr gram su a the Sons of Allen, ' bi brother" organization that re­ cruits y ung adult men to offer uidance and support t youn er males in the church or com­ munity. The group is named for the Rev. Richard Allen the fi bi hop in the AME Chur h. Another church program de- igned to pr moily stability . a • kill ban ," which keeps an inventory f kills f church member and neighborh d citi­ zen. The s ilJ - fr m hou eeping to tut ring - re the marketed in the community to help skilled pe pie obtain jobs or even help unskilled individuals learn a tr de she aid. Celebrate summe with sotnegood, ealthyfun. Where can kids find balloons clowns, good things to eat ... ond learn how to take good care of their health? At the Children's Health Carnival, August 7 at Mercy Hospital. Youngsters can climb inside a fully equipped ambulance. And we'll measure their height and weight and check their eyes and ears. We'll even give their dolls a check-up" too. Kids can take home coloring books ... toothbrushes ... juice popcorn and other healthy treats. Plus lots of good information about good health. All for free. Area health and safety groups will show children how to be safe around fire and animals. And how to spot and avoid poisons. We'll also have drill team per­ formances, soccer demonstrations and double-dutch jump roping. So come join us for a good dose of healthy summer fun. Loo for the tents at ercy Hospital, 960 Agard, Benton Harbor, August 7, 1:30-4:30 p.m. Rain date i Augu 8.