Erik Washington Dear Erik, Recently I met a pretty young woman who is also very intelligent plus she hold a great job. I on the other hand am grade school teacher and I love mall children. The lady and I have gone out veral times for dinner and the theatre and once a movie. She at ay meets me for our dates and I have never been to her apart­ ment. Sh h been to mine veral time and she calls me at home but I can not call her at her home. Later I found out she w married and ha been for me time, she has two mall children and her busband love her. I feel like I have been used becau e I was falling in love with her. I have told her ho I felt and shw wants to continue our relationship but she ys she will never leave her husband. Bit I don't feel right bout this and I don't know what to do. Any advice? W.T. ew York, e York ? • justcaH us: CA LE 1V 140 W. IN 926-1197 YOUHAVEA EWSTATIO I LIFE!!! WE'RE MUSIC ... ' *Lion I Rich; *BiIly Joel *Hall & Oates *Stevi Wond r ... WE�RE FRIENOS. · · With interesting' air' personalities who talk to you about what YOU want to know ... ST I think you aheady made up your mind about the lady d your relatio ip, h not been ho ith you or her fam y you deserve bett� than th t. Yo are the ODe that . be· cheated out of a 'full and IQvin reJauc· �JlJIl and by now you kno t 0 be im ib ith her. Respect her home even if she doesn't. . erely, E· W . gton Dear Erik, y husband was fired from his job becau of drinking and getting drunk on the job. ow he is working for family .. members doing handy wor and though he has been warned by all of us he continues to drink on the job. Because we love him, the family has been putting up with irregular work habits. At the ame time we want him to feel worthwhile. We are questioning ourselves if we are being fair to him. We would welcome any insight at you may have. A.O., Chicago, Ill. on the job I a very riou of alcoholism, t . . even more true if your hu b d . • IkilIed penon and do· menial ork. You are not m . I him feel worth � Be by Jivin. him bandy jo . Repeated family warning only rei force idea that it . t for him to ao on clri • orldng. If your family . employers t they ouId do w y retpo Ie em- ployer today would do aIcobo . employee who OD t job. Ofter h· a chECe t rehab' ·fation. Call AI-Anon or AIcoho Anony­ mous (AA) in your area, there era! types of work pro­ there to beoerrt both y your h . Call right a y. Sincerely. E· W . pon RD ELIGIBLE eal Dr. Jo n H. Coon.ld, eO.p.e. e, Dr. John C.B. cOon Id,B.A.,D.C. Dr •• ' ula Schl.nz�18.S •• D,.C. one 92 -32·32 ' 76 E. Servi1!8 South West Michigan for 64 Yean Aeross from .!:,':o. lock W �f The Or ards aU I I UOYD STRAYHO 3-9, 1 DIES- 21· m Ibort, the July 4th .. to II'OW or tbt BOUDCI. ADd j after the money or IOIDeOOe from play their role. 216. TAUR� The July 4th ·day· f may be dis- appointiq-tO says your cosmic map for the wee . By Sanuday the 6th you'D be bKkm in cosmic Jrace. e to 'MXO"Dptish any tas you put to mind. S10 • is c:hoc:t fuD of oppor­ -