THE C�TIZE . DEAR ERIK, ar Erik, I e got a problem nd I now 1 could us om help. I'm 25 ye r old nd 1 am going with om, who y that she . do not want to be riou y involv d in relationship. What thi mean to me i that I am not good enough for her and she . aiting for a better guy to come along. I m not ing any other women and I have been very good to her. I care bout her very much. But when e rn e atem nt like "I don't want to be tied down' , I don't kno h t to y or do. Yet, I kno that she has good time henever we are together. I am really confused. TD., Chicago, Ill. Dear Erik, I am 36 year old and I have n ver been married. It DeY r bothered me before. I recently got a letter from an old friend in college. Who id he wa marri d thi umm r· be n asked to be in edding. 1 said ye and I I t r found out that orne of our friend e in the wedding a1 o. 0 of them are married and have families. To mo people any guy who is ill ingle at 36 and has never been married, there is something wrong. I know that everyone will be king me a hundred and one que tions. But I don't know ho to tell everyone why I'm not married or hy I don't have a ste dy girlfriend. t the same time I don't w nt them to think that I am trange or something, if you know wh t I mean. ha e been very happy with e other until now. friend told my by ccident that she my Fred ith another woman. At first she thought it" a me but after atching for fe minute, he realize that it wasn t me. At rust I didn't pay any attention but lately I notice that we ere spending Ie time together and he w cting strange toward me. Then one evening I them to­ gether laughing and talking. I wa angry th t I just walked up to her and hit her hard as I could. She fell on the sidew and started crying. I then turn­ ed around and punch Fred as hard as I could in the chest (he h thm ) and then I went home and just cried. I feel bad about h t I did to Fred and I ant him bac. He won't e my ide of it and he won't talk to me. Pie se help me get him bac . G.P., eridian, Loui M., atch the faces of the Presidents with the values of the bills they represent, then add or subtract those values until you know how much more each household in Michigan would've had to pay' in education taxes last year, if not for the lottery's contri- bution to the state education fund. Fill in the answer and your r ,e and address on this form, then send It in. Winners will be selected at random from entries received prior to the drawing deadline. tat ___ Zlp _ The Citizen, P.O. Box 216, Benton Harbor, Mich. 49022 Deadline: June IS, 1985 - . - • • I I • I • • I • • I • • • I • • 11- 20 By no you should still be under favorab e conditions ... so use the time to take advan e of situa­ tions. onday s ests possible money or job/career type of advancement. Keep an eye 0 for it. 5�. TAUR S- 11- From this Thursday all the y thru Saturday evenina, there isn't hardly anything th can't be accomplished. The nice pan is that there is no type of "cosmic wrench" to put a damper in any of your p&ans from no 'til next Tuesday. 53 . GEM) - 11� I'm glad to say in all h y that this is a ee free of any cosmic obstructions. Therefore, you can make of the eek whatever you put your mind to. But the really good part comes durina the ee end. Late Sunday into on­ day su money ... and I don't mean a small amount. 315. CA CER-J 11� 11 Consider this a mild-mannered type of ees, with nothing unusually outstanding. There is some progres indicated for Friday hich may spell over into "Father's Day" this Sunday. The main thing is th you can take your life in your hands this wee and do something with it. 851. LEO-J ll-A The early pan of the ee is mooth sailin . Friday . into Saturday, ho ever, may not seem that way. There are warni.nas aaainst impulsiveness and profanity to get your point across. Monday the 17th suUests th finances will be the key to lettina your ay. GO-A 11 11 Just before the comina eekend, there is chance to make important chanaes th 's been long overdue. The day after "Father's Day", ho ever, could be a little stressful concernina money or other type of finances. So be careful in this reprd. 516. ·�UIIIDer 11-Oct You may still be under a heavy cosmic spell. It's a matter of bein& just a bit more patient until the storm passes. Nothing more, nothing less. fter the "Father's Day" ee end, you should begin to see better results all around, especially in matters of love. 173. SCORPIO-Octo 11- 0 11 Brace YOW'Self because this wee suggests a heavy cosmic overcast with possible rain pouring down on your parade. Therefore, the best wynot to be dis­ appointed this ee is to simply not expect anythin out of anyone. You'll save yourself a lot of emotional wear and teal. 428. SAGIlT ARlUS- 0 11- bel' 11 The early part of this ee is pretty much open as to hat needs to get done. It is very important, ho ever, that plans be made and executed before late Saturday evenin . "Father's Day" and the followin 24 hours may prove to be most hectic and stressful to underta e anything important. 391. CAPRJCO r 11� 1 Looking over your cosmic forecast for this particular . time around, there is nothing really out stan din one ay or the other. Friday into Saturday are likely to be the best days for you this time. Late Monday evenin into Tuesday suggests that you avoid all types of stormy situations ... you could ind up in the ey of the storm. 178. AQ ARI S-J u 'lO-Fe 1 Late Thursday into Friday may be a little stressful as far as plans go. Ho e er, use the opportunity to count your blessin and 100 for the good out of a bad itua­ tion-should it occur. Right after "Father's Day", you can expect those needed chan es to make your mo e. 351. PI Febru .. 10- 20 Thursday into Friday carries with it the seeds to get ahead for the balance of the cosmic eekend. cosmic stress there is is not indicated until ne Mon­ day. Therefore, be cautious and prudent ith all fman­ cia] matters. It would be to lose to 0 a ainst the grain . 210 . ,