COPI G
Part II
FE-BRUARY 13 - 19, 1985 THE CITIZEN PAGE ELEVE
eterosexual itv /Homosexual ity
y
u to Ii e our live in happine
nd contentment. Thi column
continu our que t to under-
tand the ociety in which e
Jive.
e in our la t column
that e rly childhood experience
in hich the child i protected
d not alio ed to participate
in normal thre tening probl m-
o ving experience might cau e
the child to b come p ive,
dependent and impar hi or her
development. Thi passivity
promote need for the con-
tant comp nionship of the p 0-
tector.
Thu girls can ye m for the
companion hip of a 'mother
figure' if th P ivity become
a p ychological need and moti
vational force. Such a girl can
ily eek love, affection and
tection from a member of
me x. Obviously, a
pie boy will tend t be
like hi mother - protector
nd, thu ek the compan-
ionship of omeone tronger
than him If. H ill eek to be
d min ted by a per n of the
me x: th t ex hich trad-
itionally repre ent dominance.
h need t ubmit to
m e.
Logi lly, the e p ive trends
which c i he in
I m n, c u uncon cious 1f-
c tr ting tendencie. In
omen m uline tendencies
create de ire to have a peni .
cau e of th endencie of all
kind of implu e to be ex
pre d e ually and for other
re on, ell ca trative ten
d ncie, whether directed to-
ard th elf or other
common and very important.
Th fear of c tration i
often, reacti n to the ho til-
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tty th t one face. The first
pla man reaches to protect
him If when threatened is
bo the neck or below the
b It. Th cruel moti tion to
tr te tho against whom
women direct their hostility is
reaction to their. xual im-
pul s hich cau guilt becau
of repre ive conditioning
hether in t he If or
against a rival. They sometimes
direct their feminine feelings of
inadequacy against the man
who ill, they feel, reiect them
or not re pect them. Just as
the phallu i typically sym
bolic of masculinity, trength
and independence, powerful de I
ire to be eak and dependent
of ten ume a feminine char
acter and lead to implu s in
the homo exual male to be
castrated and cau castration
anxiety.
omen who are hostil to
men often direct castration
impul to them in the form of
comments that deride his mas
culinity; they act disinterested
or xually unfulfilled; or they
attempt to dominate him. This
is typically related to the well
traveled but untold myth that
m n with larger penises are
better able to ti fy women.
Further repre entations in male
homo xuality relate to peni
puni hment which indicates, to a
great extent the belief that
he doe not de rve a penis
or the strength that having one
sugge t. Constant rejection by
the female can make a man
que tion his m culinity and
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Stati n in ile i planning
a pe ial day, eb. 23,
9:30 to 5:30 p.m. Included
in the event will be reduced
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loons, hats and d or prizes
for attendee. The Grand
Prize will be a complimen
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two peopl courtesy of Am
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Tours.
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used in the movie ''The
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most recently in the "Real
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pIe e contact the Amtrak
t tion in ile. The pro
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on Feb. 23 only are: ile
to Kalamaz 0, 10.45 Round
Trip dult 5 .25 (children
two to 11); He to Chicago
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drive him to Ie threatening
person I relation hip with le
attractiv ladies or with men.
A woman who is con tantly
rejected or un ti fled emot
ionally and exually might be
driven to the waiting, com
passionate arm of another
woman.
A recent report by renowned
p ychologists indicates that ho
mo xuality is an "illne " that
is cureable. any homo xual
are sati fled with their pro
pensitie , however. any are
not 0 ati fled and are confused
by their bodies which house
feelings characteri tic of the
opposite ex. Many normal
people participate in unconven
tional sex ll;3 1 behavior that
would sham them if th ir
acquaintances found out.
Other have participated in sex-
ual activity with members of
their own and would bject
vehemently to being re rded
as hom xual. Incarcerated
citizens participate in hom-
exuality becau only member
of their own . x are available
for relea of their eroti feel
ings. They could not be con
demned a homo xual because
of their de p rate behavior:
expecially if their normal x
ual drive predominate upon
relea from prison. Still other
people are regarded as hom -
xual be au of their man-
nerism � yet they are clearly
hetero xual and others are
hom sexual butdi play not out
ward characteri tics of being o.
h t, then, is hom xual
and is it wron to be one? A
homo xual e en if only latent,
ha a compu) ion, a propen ity,
a drive to e ap his or her 0 n
b dy . and enter th b dy and
adopt th ch r cteri tic (feel
ings etc) of th opposite
Everyone has both male and
fe rna I gene and hormone.
o one i without occa ional
mixed exual feeling but the
drive that dominate determine
wherther one is hetero xual
or homosexual. Expre ing
one's feelin and rete a ing one'
pent-up xual frustrations can-
not b vie ed "wrong."
Lo king at it pragmatically and
from the ientific point 0
view' one has th right to
realize happine if that p r n
doe not in terfere ith th
right to happines of other .
Legally, however hom ualit
i a violation of the I w in mo t
tates and a vi lati n f mor
ality in m st communities.
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