r Erik, I h been crying. thi I tter i very hard for me to write. I or into me trouble ith the I nd I had to nd tim "in p . on. 1mb ck home no trying ry hard to et my life to ether. But I have run into another problem, I somehow got my If involved ith drugs. I don't kno hat to do about I could back to Ie board .) ever don't Th you. , X", o ar' on, Everyb dy rna e mi takes nd we all ek forgivene s f r them. What is also very important is that we learn to forgive our Ives or th mis­ ta e e made in the pa t. If you want to change your life kno that you can. t this int you need help ith your dru problem and it would be i to get pr fe ional gui- ·danc to get y u through this. Tryin to quit could turde could b a hock t y ur b dy. You hould tal with a d ctor nd/or a profe ion 1 ouncillor and find ut bout dru re­ h bilitati n pro r m . Also find out m re ab ut the rule and 1 ws urroundin the pro­ gram. In your are y u may find th ree Clini to be a m jor help, try them. I CITY SASH&DOOR • STORM WIDOWS & DOORS • • PICTURE FRAMES • GLASS FRAMES • SCREEN FRAMES • GLASS & SCREEN CUT TO SIZE • GLASS & SCREE REPLACED 925-2311 1240 ptPE TO E 8ET EEN M 13 • AptER BENTON HARBOR D r Eri , I aht a moth r of five chil­ dren and I am very h ppily marri d to pretty good guy. But I do have on problem, in today' society a lot of women re holding down job well a hom and famili . I ha e been feeling really bad bout this, bee I am home I of the tim. y children re all in hool. I feel so emb d hen ever someone what do I do. I have been hom for so lon, that I am harned of my If. , other & Wife " 1..0 Angele ,California Dear" other & Wife' If you are doing your full time. job mother and wif well then you are doing a ve� important and totally creative job. You have no rca n to feel ashamed of your elf becau e what you are doing i one of the hardest job in the world. It is a major re pon ibility that few can handle as well as your letter indicates you do. The hour are impo ible but a y u kno it ha it own rewards. ur feeling about your elf doubt e not uncomm n in t days' world. In regaining your c nfidence y u'll need to learn to trust. y ur in tin t again. Talk y r husb nd and family, let them kn w your th ughts and feelin s. If you d ide to join the j b mar­ ket make ure that y u are SALES AND SERVICE Dear '88', There i a very special bond between father and daughters. Quite often fathers feel threaten or jealou when they are about to 10 their daughters to mar- --�------------------------�--�-------, riage. Y u should try to t lk with him. -He needs to know that his daughter will be loved re pected and taken are of. Don't let him make you feel inadequate becau e you are not. Be honest and let him know y ur feeling, you may never become friend but you can res­ pe teach oth r and love m one who i v ry spec­ ial to both f y u. Sincerely, Erik W hington "*Got a pt. blem ? Need an an er? Or do you just want to talk? Th n write to Eri. Washington in care of this ne paper, or to: 'Dear Erik " Times Square Station, P.O. Box 755, ew York, New York 10108-0755. prepared. You can do thi by getting training or oin back to school for a refre her our e. Sincerely, Erik Wa hingt n D r Erik, I am bout to t m fried to the be girl in the orld. We love and respect e ch other very much. But I ha e ju one problem. . . her father. I kno that he hate .ne I have heard him talk about me to hi family. He h tried to talk hi daughter out of m rrying me. He think of me a 10 r in spite of the fact I have very good job and I am buying my own hom . I love my wife-to-b and I don't ant to put her in the middl of thi ituation. I ant to handle it y f, but I at ay water whenever I have to him. Don't kno wh t to do. Dail ,Te BOARD ELIGIBLE IN CHIROPRACTIC ORTHOPEDICS --·-LD A.B.e. Electronic SERVICE GUARANTEED FREE PICK-UP 8: DELIVER T.V. C.I. HAM EQUIP E T AND APP L I A C STE EO*RADIO 2185 RED ARROW BENTON HEIGHTS. MICH. cOon lei, .D.,D.C ,. Dr. John C.B. MeDon 1eI,B,A.,D.C. Dr. Pula Schl nzka8.S.,D.C. hone 925-3232·" fromJ .... Sewing South West Michigan for 64 YalrS cross .() of The Orchards aI' Dr.Jo n H; 713 E JANUARY 16 - 22, 1985 THE CITIZEN PAGE THIRTEEN "BB'in FRO 0 E OSC R 0 I EE TO OTHER - Ho ard E. Rollin Jr. and Cicely Ty n r without qu tion t 0 of the most dynamic ctors on the reen. ither Tyson nor Rollin work often 0 d rebut hen they do, atch out - 0 ar nomin tion re u ually not far behind. Ty n ho r i ed 1972 Be t ctre o ar nomination for th criti ally cclaimed 'Sounder' and ho recently honored at tribute program by orth m California Women in Film-TV' a bi fan of Columbi Pi­ ture' ne hit" Soler r' Story" arring Ho ard E. Rollin , Jr., and a ho t of other talented cto . Indu try urc ar alre dy peculatin on c demy Award nomination for the film, and it t. Rollins previo y received a B ctor nomination for h' 1981 film 'R If all 0 well he m y find him If in th STARTS JANUARY 18th AT A THEATRE NEAR YOU.