JANUARY 2 - 8, 1985 THE CITIZEN PAGE NINE
EAR ERIK,
Dear Erik,
For three y I h ve had
ery do friend. I h aI ay
fi I ry ith him d I
solid friendship and you and
your friend have the beginnings
of omething wonderful. Talk
with him and explain how you
feel and above all be com­
pletely up front and honest.
Best of luck,
Erik a shin gto n
Are you just sitting around
being quiet and accepting every­
drink this guy puts out. You
should have said om thing
when he first quit his job and
never allowed five months to
past by with you paying all of
the hou holdbills. You allow­
ed yourself to be used and have
no one to blame but yourself.
The b st thing for you to do is
to get out of this bad relation­
ship as soon as po ible. If you
can' g t him to leave, then you
should leave and fast. Its not
really important if he has found
someone new or not. What
matter is you and that you pick
'up your life "and go on to bigger
and better things and people.
Always,
Eri Washington
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Dear Erik,
I am a 20 year old om n
nd I am living ith a 21 year
o d boy. e h ve been to ther
for almo year and durin that
time, Tommy h toppec! ork-
and h out with th
ind of people. For the
p fi e month I h been
p ying all of the bH. The
problem i tb I 't et him
to fmd a job or to help ith
bill . H get money from
here and there day
e him. I
Erik,
I have been with the same
an for 0 r four years and I
am very much in 10 e with him.
e ere 0 V ry do to
another coup , d e u to go
out to movie, dinner and
ju vi·t ch other. Then I
rted hearing rumors out my
be friend and my man. I
didn't �ant to b . ve them,
I said nothing for a long time.
Finally I had to him if he
eing her. Of cou he
id no. Then I found out it
wa true, it burt mob d.
I s up t and I cri d for day.
h w my fi love and I loved
him much. I love him , I
gave him another chance. But
no I am havin dream bout
them being to ether d what
do I do about her? She pr -
tend th t e till want to b
friend.
A Confu d Woman,
San Franci 0, Califomi
Dear Con fuse d,
You could make things e sier
for yourself by realizing what a
luable and g od friend you
have. When od friend are
totally hone t ith e ch other,
it m es it almo t impo ible
to -10 e th ir friendship. A
good relationship i ba ed on a
found mebody De •
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e York, e Yo
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Dear 'Betty",
In giving him another chance,
you were als aying that you
forgive him for that indiscretion .
At the same time you could
still be harboring anguish and
pain 0 er the affair, which may
be causing your nightmare.
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Also at this point you may still
be feeling insecure about your
relationship and your mate.
When a person cause you to 10
trust nd faith in them, it makes
it hard for you to trust them
or anyone again. far as your
old girlfriend is concerned, it
may be best to just drop her
so-call friendship. If you still
feel uneasy and the dreams
continue, perhap you should
talk with a trained counselor
or even a marriage counselor
about the problem.
Sincerely,
Erik Washington
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an answer? Or do you just
want to talk? Then write to
Erik; Washington in care of this
newspaper or to: 'Dear Erik',
TImes Square Station, P.O. Box
0755, New York, New York·.
10108-0755.
Lemon Curd-
Beyond Lemon Meringue Pie
You may never have tasted
that British· specialty, lemon
curd, but 'chances are you have
had lemon meringue pie. hile
the recipe for each is Slightly
different, the taste, without the
meringue of course, is very sim­
ilar. And for convenience, you
can now buy lemon curd ready.,
made.
Robertson's, that ell known
British producer of marmalades,
jellies and preserves makes a
lemon curd which it exports to
the United States. The product
has a tangy lemon taste, fresh lemon aroma, bright
color, and good spreading consistency. It comes in
an llYt-ounce jar.
In England, the traditionalists serve lemon curd
on bread and butter. The adventurers create many
interesting desserts ith it.
Lemon curd makes great filling for jelly rolls,lay­
er cakes, or crepes. It adds tangy topping to vanilla
or chocolate ice cream. A dab on rice pudding or
fruit salad adds fresh lemon flavor. Also delicious
on French toast. And traditionally, it makes buttered
toast or English muffins fit for a Queen.
Mr. illiam Kroestng. president of the United
states marketing organization for Robertson's prod­
ucts, submits a recipe for a Quick fantastic dessert.
BA ED PEARS A LA ROBER TSO
4 ripe pear , bo c, prefer bly
':.1 cup Robert on' Lemon Curd
1 table poon finely chopped cry tallized in er
Butter
Peel, core, and cut pears 10 half. Place cut side
down in well-greased shallo baking pan. ix gin-
ger into lemon curd and brush mixture generously
over pears, covering completely. Dot ith butter
and bake in 35O-degree oven until p ar r just
tender. Serve w m.
If you will send a self-addr s d,
lope, r. Kroesing ill send you rvin
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