SEPT. 26 - OCT. 2,1984 THE CITIZEN PAGE THIRTEE
Erik Washington
Dear Erik,
I am in lov . d the man
that I love . almo t perfect.
On a of I to 10, he I a
ron 8. There a fe thin
th t I don't like bout him.
But that' alright beau I plan
to m e chang in him.
He' not aU that I t my man
to be, but I kno with my help
and guidance I c m e him a
better man. It· littl
moldi that he need, but
there . ju on prob em and
I me advice. He' 'a
ry proud man d at the same
time veT., nsiti out h t
oth think and y about him.
I don't ant to hurt him by
being totally hone t but do
ant to make some ch g
in him. I need me u
io in helping him become a
better man.
P.T. Dall .rex
Dear P.T.,
I think that you need to
tart by being totally honest
with your If fir t. What you
are trying to do i make him
into something from y ur fan­
t ies of an ideal man. And
thats a big mistake, and on
of the sure t ways to 10 in him
and perhap one of th fastest
way. Its al 0 tampering with
the impo ible. The latter is
ba d on the rather arrogrant
assumption that you h ve rt
of right to 'improve' meone.
You can forget about your
friend's basic traits changing
becau they on 't. What
you can do is to weight his
e isting pluses and minu s
against each other than allow
your cale' to provide you with
an answer of 'to stay or to go'.
Erik Washington
De Erik,
,I hav woman ho I ju t
the oppo ite of m. We hav
been going ith ch other for
three week. e ha nothing
in common. We don't e n Ii
the kind of entertainment.
Which In goin out difficult.
Yet I care for her and e like
m . there ch ce for us?
We each ha to gi in to the
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Push to make all your is yours.
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The Opposit ,
De r Oppo ites'
There j a I great deal of
truth to the old da that
'opp ite attract'. But the
more important reality is that
they don't tay together fo; to
long. And with th few couple
that manage to stay together,
it not alway on a happy basi .
To find real lov is tough
enough but common en
should tell you that if the two
of you don't enjoy most of th
same thing in life the chance
for a long term succes are
considerably at a di advantage.
Alway
Erik Washington
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