important
an� the Master
ill help.
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yOr. . F .... rner
F� of rejection is the b'
stand between people who mee for the
first time. "psychological all'
invisible to the naked eye but' one of
the urdiest and mo re' ent object
devised by man.
"I'm not go' to give the impre 'on
that I like this individual becau I don't
kno ho h / she will r ct. I don't
kno if this penon like me much
I like him or (her). I'm afraid that if I
rel my emotion and ex pre affect
ion, hel e ill n t respond the same
y but will ct disintere ted, and I
will 100 foolish and feel silly. I ant
desperately to 10 e him/her and to be
loved by him/her but I can't take the
chance of being hurt. So, I gue 111
ju continu to hold my feelings in
check until he/she let's me kno for sure
ho they fee about me. This' frustra
ting for me but I'm not going to let
anyone m e fool of me ain. Gosh,
I . sh that hel ould ju give me a
definite sign that he/she likes me.
This tatement . very similar to the
words that most people y to them-
v careful hen tryin to
carry 0 any important ac
tivities. Choose the 4 to
or with.
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Try not to be too pushy
·th others· • C0s.-
mically, it 't k. Late
Friday into SatUrday
gests that somethina good .
OIl the horizon. But be very
careful on Halloween eve-
nina. U the s.
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This is good to settle
the nerves and some new
plans underway. Friday and
on into Saturday looks very
good for relationships.
Stressful VI , ho er, are
in the air for onday ... 1ay
. I is your nwnber
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ney matters 100 very
favora for the early part
of this . In fact. the
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An argument with others
or a possible accident could
be the case if you don't keep
a lid on things. Saturday
and Sunday will see a much
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WHAT TO DO 0
better in your af-
fairs. The month starts
off very nicely. Use the
number 7.
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This is an excelIen time
to bring your mental intel
lect before the pub&.: in
some way. From the
end's standpoint. there
seems to be some resistance
at hand relating to partners.
Use the er wnber 22.
S GrIT
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There is nothing on the
horizon this that is
outstanding-nor is there
anything stressful, The high
point of the will PrQO.
ably be on Saturday. 00-
day does • however,
you be very careful.
The 3 is for you.
FI Sf D T
lve hen they meet meon th y
like and ho they nt to like them.
In many , both peop ha e
emotional need for ch other but their
n b . c insecurity inhibit th m
from re eating their feelings to the
other pe n. emorie of havin been
rejected in . ilar . tuatio in the p
linger in the mind and almo retard the
behavior of intelligent people 0
only fault . the fear that the n t pet-
n they me ill alSo reject them.
So, in tead of being alluring, per
ble, friendly and re ed, they e
o erly nsitive, r trained, inhibited,
unfriendly and rejective. Thi be vio
cause the other party to be uncom
fortable and provo es an I-told-you
so attitude: "I me he/ e ouldn't
like me." The victim ldom realiz
that his/her behavior u d th pro-
blem. ,
Ordinarily, the ucce of the rel t
ionship will be determined by the beha
vior that you present. If you are friend
ly, the other per n ill rel and' e
you. If you are rm and ectionate
the other per n will probably re nd
the same ay. If the other per n do
not return your courte . e , this per n
is probably not the kind of individual
ith hom you ould be h ppy.
o t people readily re pond po iti Iy
to an rtively ensiti and affectiop-
te individual. Th problem, of cou ,
. th t fe people are erti Iy friendly
hen they meet meone for the first
time. en t 0 people expec
other to e the fir ep, the relati n-
ship ill fall flat on it f ce if no one
doe. In thi ca .' the partie tend
to blame e ch other for the problem
begin to find f ult in each other and
art rationalizing: � "I didn't like that
per n from the beginning." This"
obviou y untrue but it . ay of
protecting your ego.
"It t e toto tan 0." This cliche
s often been u d to indi te t t no
relation . p can e off of th ground
if both peop e do not particip teo This
. b . ly correct, except that e
participation need not be equ .
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From the loo of things.
SOIJleQIle from afar i there are some new
·th citina plans in the .
.. Lare - Look for this to be espec-
on Sunday . . so on both Friday and
may not 10 the y you'd Saturday. The new month
expect i . So don't rely OIl will off nicely, too. U
. too much. Monday,
HalJo9f'eell day, e VIRGO- 21-
good one. U the 9. 21
Cosmically, this .
the best for opportuni-
ties that you've bad in
- For Hom U Only - time. Don't waste these
precious moments sitting on
yo ureIs. Act . th cour- :
,AJUS Starting at 9 age and determination.
You'D win! The 2 is for you.
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