…MARCH 3 • 2022 | 37 become the first member of the covenantal family to build a house, yet he does not call the place “house” (as in Bet- El or Bet-lechem). He calls it “cattle-sheds.” It is as if Jacob, consciously or unconsciously, already knew that to live the life of the covenant means to be ready to move on, to travel, to journey, to grow. One might have thought that all this applied only to the time before the Israelites cro...…
…Synagogue Directory CONSERVATIVE Adat Shalom Synagogue Farmington Hills (248) 851-5100 adatshalom.org Ahavas Israel Grand Rapids (616) 949-2840 ahavasisraelgr.org Congregation Beth Ahm West Bloomfield (248) 851-6880 cbahm.org Congregation Beth Israel Flint (810) 732-6310 cbiflint.org Congregation Beth Shalom Oak Park (248) 547-7970 congbethshalom.org Beth Tephilath Moses Mt. Clemens (586) 996-3138 bethtephilathmoses.com...…
…MARCH 3 • 2022 | 39 Shomer Israel Oak Park (248) 542-4014 godaven.com Shomrey Emunah Southfield (248) 559-1533 congregation-shomrey- emunah-105705.square.site The Shul-Chabad Lubavitch West Bloomfield (248) 788-4000 theshul.net Yagdil Torah Southfield (248) 559-5905 Young Israel of Oak Park (248) 967-3655 yiop.org Young Israel of Southfield (248) 358-0154 yisouthfield.org RECONSTRUCTIONIST Congregation Kehillat Israel La...…
…ARTS&LIFE THEATER JET creates an Arizona production of The Diary of Anne Frank. On the Road Again …
…B ringing and mounting a new production of The Diary of Anne Frank from Michigan to Arizona in the middle of a pandemic has been a labor of love of epic proportions, to say the very least. But with grit and clever resourcefulness, one fiercely determined snow birder extraordinaire and her small, but mighty, Scottsdale-area team of friends and relatives were able to make it happen. For more than 27 years, the Jewish Ensemble Theatre (JET)...…
…ARTS&LIFE THEATER continued from page 41 42 | MARCH 3 • 2022 JET Season The Jewish Ensemble Theatre will reopen its 2021-2022 season with: Same Time Next Year by Bernard Slade April 21-May 15 The Full Monty by Terrence McNally and David Yazbek June 2-26 Amadeus by Peter Shaffer July 14- Aug. 7 TBD Aug. 25-Sept. 18 JET’s 2022-2023 Season begins Oct. 6 with the Rocky Horror Picture Show Single ticket prices $49/ adu...…
…MARCH 3 • 2022 | 43 ARTS&LIFE BOOKS E xcitement is in the air after the release of the new children’s book by Michigan author Lori Ellis. The new book, titled Ryan’s Magical Shoes, was inspired by her parents who were Holocaust survivors. Ellis said the story teaches young children about diversity and acceptance. Born and raised in Detroit, Ellis now lives in West Bloomfield with her husband, Jeff. She holds a master’s degree in s...…
…44 | MARCH 3 • 2022 CATWOMAN IS JEWISH, THE ’80S LAKERS, THERANOS MESS The Batman opens in the- aters on March 4. There is a long backstory on the production of this new entry in the Batman odyssey. Suffice it to say that it pretty much is a “new start” for the Batman series. So many “new starts” probably would have surprised Bob Kane (1915-1998), who created the Batman comic character. The Caped Crusader is played by Robert P...…
…MARCH 3 • 2022 | 45 KIDS PLAYTIME 10-11 AM, MARCH 3 Children ages 0-5 and their favorite adults are invited to come play in per- son at Congregation Shaarey Zedek in Southfield. Join Lindsay Mall for a Rhythm and Ruach class, with songs, gross motor activity and more. The community is welcome at $54 per family per seven-week session and with a limit of 15 families each session. The spring session runs Thursday mornings through April...…
…46 | MARCH 3 • 2022 own needs are being met during this challenging time. It’s easy to feel isolated but Jewish Family Service and Jewish Senior Life are here to offer family caregivers support, comfort and a sense of community. “Taking Care of the Caregiver” with author Rabbi Laura Geller will be a virtual presentation. Info: jfsdetroit.org/caregiver. FRANKEL CENTER EVENT 4-6 PM, MARCH 10+ “Secrets” film series. Free. Dr. Debo...…
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…OBITUARIES OF BLESSED MEMORY 48 | MARCH 3 • 2022 VIVIAN KEIDAN BERRY, 93, of Huntington Woods, died Feb. 21, 2022. She is survived by her son, Hank Berry, and his fiancee, Jessica Rhodes; daughter, Karen Berry; grandchildren, Rhys Leahy, Max Leahy, Emily and Eric Whale, and Amy Berry; great-grandchildren, Matthew Schick and Alison Whale. She is also survived by her loving and devoted caregivers, Washita Smith Myree, Marayama...…
…continued on page 51 MARCH 3 • 2022 | 49 Park Cemetery. Contributions may be made to Temple Israel, 5725 Walnut Lake Road, West Bloomfield, MI 48323, temple-israel.org/trib- utes; or to a charity of one’s choice. Arrangements by Ira Kaufman Chapel. KENNETH BRENNER, 76, of Farmington Hills, died Feb. 16, 2022. He is sur- vived by his wife, Yvonne Kawashima; daughter, Mariko Brenner; broth- ers, Ronald Brenner and Terry Brenner;...…
…50 | MARCH 3 • 2022 B lanche Gantz, 100, of Santa Barbara, Cali- fornia, died Feb. 19, 2022. She passed away peaceful- ly three months before her 101st birthday. She lived a full, high-energy life filled with love and joy from her friends, family and dance. She was a strong, indepen- dent, creative woman who loved socializing. Blanche grew up in Brook-lyn, N.Y., and moved to Detroit at age 9. She was a child performer in the Ca...…
…MARCH 3 • 2022 | 51 Feld; many other loving family members and friends. Mr. Feld was the beloved husband of the late Roslyn Feld; the brother of the late Marilyn Haile. Interment took place at Adat Shalom Memorial Park Cemetery in Livonia. Contributions may be made to the Bais Chabad of Farmington Hills. Arrangements by Dorfman Chapel. ERIC “RICKY” FISHMAN, 75, died Feb. 21, 2022, in Hanover, Pa. He was born in Pittsburgh, gr...…
…extremely proud. Interment took place at Hebrew Memorial Park Cemetery in Clinton Township. Contributions may be made to the Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation or the National Kidney Foundation. Arrangements by Dorfman Chapel. NANCY LYNN GOLDEN, 75, of San Mateo, Calif., formerly of Detroit, died Feb. 17, 2022. She is survived by her siblings, Dr. Theodore and Diana Golden, Ellen Golden and Mark Kelley, and Richard and Linda Gold...…
…MARCH 3 • 2022 | 53 S eymour Salinger, 98, died Feb. 2, 2022, the last of his family’s great generation. He was born in 1923 in a small town in Lithuania, the youngest of seven children. In 1939, his mother sent him and his sister to live with their older brothers, who were already in Detroit. Sadly, she did not survive the Holocaust to join her children. After finish- ing Central High School and a semester at Wayne State Uni...…
…54 | MARCH 3 • 2022 Looking Back From the William Davidson Digital Archive of Jewish Detroit History accessible at www.djnfoundation.org Sholem Aleichem Institute: All Things Yiddish R ecently, I wrote about Sholem Aleichem (1859-1916), the famous Yiddish writer of stories and plays. During my research on Aleichem in the William Davidson Digital Archive of Jewish Detroit History, I ran across hundreds of references to his namesak...…
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…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 3 contents PURELY COMMENTARY 4-11 Essays and viewpoints. OUR COMMUNITY 12 Sisters Unite Jewish women’s groups in Metro Detroit make waves — and lasting friendships. 18 The Perfect Stranger Meet Spencer Lucker, who works for Mayor Mike Duggan and volunteers his time with NEXTGen Detroit. 20 Interfaith Trip to Dubai JCRC/AJC takes Muslim and Jewish students on a trip they’ll never forget...…
…4 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 PURELY COMMENTARY C ookies and crack(ers), Oh, my! Those of us who are snackologists are more than familiar with the words cheddar cheese, sour cream and onion, chocolate chip and oatmeal raisin. The first term lends itself to many expressions not food related. The second, with the parenthesis observed, lends a few more. Many a businessperson has had to worry that a partner may be caught with his han...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 5 his books carries a preface by J.B. Stoner, a neo-Nazi convicted of the 1958 bombing of Bethel Church in Birmingham, Alabama. “The Jews are embarked upon a plan to conquer the world and to rule over all other races and nations,” it says. “By understanding the evil and aggressive nature of the Jew, we White Christians can better protect ourselves … It is our duty to publish this book for the benefit of the W...…
…6 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 1942 - 2022 Covering and Connecting Jewish Detroit Every Week To make a donation to the DETROIT JEWISH NEWS FOUNDATION go to the website www.djnfoundation.org The Detroit Jewish News (USPS 275-520) is published every Thursday at 32255 Northwestern Highway, #205, Farmington Hills, Michigan. Periodical postage paid at Southfield, Michigan, and additional mailing offices. Postmaster: send changes to: De...…
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…8 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 opinion What the Texas Hostage Crisis Reveals about our Humanity M any details about the recent, terrifying hostage situation at Congregation Beth Israel in Colleyville, Texas, remain unclear. However, we do know that the perpetra- tor, Malik Faisal Akram, knocked on the door of the Temple and asked to come inside. The congregation’s rabbi, Charlie Cytron-Walker, let him in — thinking that the man might...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 9 30-plus minutes. So, that meant more time for togetherness as a couple, which sounded good for our relationship, but also felt a bit strange to both of us for different reasons. Obviously, we had no idea what we were facing. This is not a story about one of us coming down with COVID. But that doesn’t mean it was smooth sail- ing for our marriage (or yours?). Our responses to the threat of getting the virus were...…
…10 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 column How the Texas Hostage Crisis Showed Social Media at its Best and Worst I t was the best of Twitter. It was the worst of Twitter. During the long agonizing hours of the evening of Jan. 15, during which a rabbi and three congregants were held against their will at a Dallas- area synagogue, social media performed perhaps as its creators and optimists always thought it would. It was a community of ...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 11 Twitter erupted, asking how an attack on a synagogue on a Shabbat morning could be anything other than “specifically related to the Jewish community.” That conversation, at least, was rooted in the facts and an important communal debate. The British national who carried out the attack was said to be demanding the release of Aaifa Siddiqui, a Muslim woman suspected of plotting attacks in New York who is no...…
…12 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 OUR COMMUNITY Sisters Unite ASHLEY ZLATOPOLSKY CONTRIBUTING WRITER …
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 13 A t the backbone of Metro Detroit’s Jewish community are a variety of women’s groups. They practice philanthropy, community service and building a stronger Jewish culture, while giving women an opportunity to network, connect and create lasting friendships. Some women’s groups advocate for social justice, while others focus on giving back to those in need. Regardless of the mission, the groups have one thing i...…
…14 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 Amy Cutler, NCJW | MI president. “There are many volun- teer opportunities based on the interest of the volunteer.” These include participating in a planning committee, vol- unteering at a community service project, working with the group’s Advocacy and Elections Committee or attending one of many community programs put on by the organization. “By becoming involved with NCJW | MI, you can share your own expertise, l...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 15 J ewish women across Metro Detroit have been using Facebook groups to share advice and local resources for years now. They’ve found camaraderie and much, much more in the online groups, which have increasingly become a powerful community hub. In a world made otherwise smaller by the pandemic’s restrictions on gath- ering over the past few years, these groups have continued to thrive, with the constant hum of...…
…16 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 OUR COMMUNITY a variety of offerings for different needs and interests. Its Women’s Division, for example, is geared toward enriching the lives of Jewish women in different ages and stages. This section of the organization offers educational opportunities, trips and events, which include everything from spa days to challah baking to lunch-and- learn events. The goal is to strengthen Jewish iden- tity, enhance e...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 17 The current trend of decluttering and keeping only what fills you with joy also gives the group momentum, she says. “I think it’s filling people’s hearts; it’s filling their buckets to know their stuff is being used.” Karen Gordon of Farmington Hills started Jewish Moms of Metro Detroit with Older Kids, a private Facebook group, a year and a half ago. Her kids are in college, so she got the group, now 450 memb...…
…O ur sense of belonging comes from the memory that we were all once strangers. This quintessential contradiction of Jewish identity, explicitly commanded in the Torah and echoed throughout our history, binds our people together and drives a shared commitment to tolerance and empathy. It certainly drives Spencer Lucker, 34-year-old resident of the Boston Edison neighborhood. By day, he helps fellow Detroiters as director of employer eng...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 19 Yet it also creates new challenges and opportunities. “How are we welcoming people? How do we reach all types of Jews in the Jewish community? How do we infuse Jewish identity into social events in a way that doesn’t push people away?” Lucker asks. We spoke to Lucker about his journey into the Detroit Jewish community and how he hopes to make that journey even better for his peers. WHY NOT DETROIT? SL: My wif...…
…n Jan. 3, two Muslim undergraduates, one from Wayne State University and the other from University of Michigan, joined two Jewish undergraduates from Wayne State on a flight to Dubai. For the next week, the four students would be part of the JCRC/AJC (Jewish Community Relations Council/American Jewish Committee) Muslim-Jewish Dubai Mission. Made possible with a grant from the Ravitz Foundation, the trip was designed to provide t...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 21 Interfaith Trip to Dubai Rebecca Cooper, a Jewish student, said the following about the significance of seeing a Holocaust exhibit at the Crossroads of Civilization Museum: “Prior to this trip, I didn’t believe I could travel to Dubai. I wasn’t sure if I would be welcome, frankly. All of my preconceived notions fell away and my eyes opened. I was awe-struck visiting the first and only Holocaust Memorial in t...…
…continued from page 21 22 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 also underscored how fragile these relationships are. Peace requires time, care, endless nur- turing and commitment. I fully intend to continue cultivating an environment at home that allows our connectedness to grow.” Illustrating this need for time and care was made most apparent in a visit to American Jewish Committee’s new office in Abu Dhabi, which was estab- lished after decades ...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 23 “xzx OPENING THE DOORS Changing The Norm Celebrating the Beauty of Different Abilities Casting Musicals with Acceptance, Inclusion, Authenticity & Community E D U C AT E . I N C LU D E . E M P OW E R . Tony Award-Nominated Director and Choreographer MARCIA MILGROM DODGE Award-Winning Dancer and Actor EVAN RUGGIERO Beauty and the Beast “Innovative casting, direction and design… make Olney’s Beaut...…
…24 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 OUR COMMUNITY G uy Stern turned 100 years old on Jan. 14. He is the Energizer Bunny personified, still working five days a week in his role as director of the International Institute of the Righteous at the Zekelman Holocaust Center (HC) in Farmington Hills. If Guy had only reached that milestone 20 years sooner, he could’ve walked to the Bill Knapp’s restaurant next door to the HC on Orchard Lake ...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 25 (author Susanna) ‘writer- in-residence,’ docents, volunteers, guards — you name them.” Many he spoke of were in attendance. “Some had flattered me by telling me that they learned something from the dubious sagacity of this oldster. Well, that learning process is two-fold,” Stern said. “In fact, I was more often the beneficiary of their generational wisdom. I drew a conclusion from that: Do not let hubris or...…
…T hey’ll be thinking about Cara as they walk or run. Cara Lopatin, 18, is a childhood cancer survivor. During her recovery, her parents, Rabbi Asher and Rachel Tessler Lopatin of Huntington Woods, turned to Chai Lifeline, a New-York-based orga- nization that helps children and families coping with cancer and other serious illnesses. On Feb. 6, the Lopatins, along with three of their four children, their friends Shoshana and Rabbi Dav...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 27 HONORING CARA’S COURAGE Ten years ago, Shoshana Fain, 35, decided to run a half-marathon — 13 miles — in the Miami Marathon as a tribute to Cara, who was still undergoing treat- ment. The Fains had gotten to know the Lopatins when they were members of Asher Lopatin’s congrega- tion, Anshe Sholom B’nai Israel in Chicago. By the time Cara was diagnosed, the Lopatins had moved to New York. Although the Fains ...…
…OUR COMMUNITY 28 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 H adassah, the Women’s Zionist Organization of America, “stands unequivocally for a woman’s right to choose,” said National Hadassah President Rhoda Smolow. “Patients have the right to make deci- sions about their reproductive rights. Medically unnecessary laws in some states restricting reproductive rights are meant to shame women.” What seemed like settled law on legalized abortion after 49 ...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 29 pregnancy, which she took, because she didn’t want to go through that again with another child,” Karkowsky said. “A woman must have agency over her own body.” Pro-choice advocates are alarmed that it’s become harder to obtain a legal abor- tion. “Currently, 58 percent of women are being denied that legal right in their state,” Pogrebin said. In Texas, abortions are restricted after about six weeks, long befo...…
…30 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 OUR COMMUNITY F or five years, Rabbi Nadav Caine of Beth Israel, a Conservative Congregation in Ann Arbor, has been silent about the group of protesters how many?who have targeted the local shul for almost two decades. Now Caine is considering enlisting the help of their interfaith partners to counter- protest the diehard protesters who contin- ue to show up outside the shul on Shabbat morning. However, Caine ...…
