22 | NOVEMBER 28 • 2024 J N I n the midst of a busy day, some five years ago, Linda Epstein Lenchner got an unexpected phone call. “Are you the woman who grew up in an apartment on Richton Street in Detroit about 70 or 75 years ago?” Lenchner remembers the caller asking. “This is Stuart Rubens, who used to live there. If it’s you, I was your neighbor, and I saw your contact information on the web.” Lenchner quickly replied. “By all means, that’s who I am,” she let him know and recalled the Richton Gang of seven boys and one girl hanging out together between the ages of about 4 to 13. They walked to and from Roosevelt Elementary School, knocked on doors after school to find out who could come out to play and sneaked rides on the elevator when children were not supposed to ride without adults. The two, remembering nicknames and the fact that they were all Jewish, talked about their baseball, football and roofball games in the alley. The conclusion was that it would be nice to have a reunion, and Lenchner said she would see if she could organize that. With phone calls and web searches, she tracked down the group, and they had their third reunion this past September — with some still employed past age 80. The young pals were together until families started moving north. “We’ve had such good reunion times,” said Lenchner, married and the mother of two. “I never felt out of place because I was the only female. When we were choosing teams in those early years, I got picked before some of the boys because I was a good player. I later built a career in commercial real estate and was among the few women at first.” Lenchner, who has been president of B’nai B’rith Women in Detroit, happily remembered being the only member of the group to be invited to watch Howdy Doody in the apartment of Larry Lowenthal, then being the first of the gang to get a television and now living most of the year in Israel. Although it has been easy for Lenchner to join the reunion because she lives in Bloomfield Hills, Rubens did not mind flying in from Virginia. Mark Pittman gladly flew in from Salt Lake City. Lowenthal happened to be in the country to see family at reunion time. Bernard Goodstein came from Farmington Hills, Arnold Weintraub from West Bloomfield, Richard Edwards from Novi and Stephen Epstein, Lenchner’s brother, from West Bloomfield. “I didn’t take charge of all of this year’s reunion because the gang knew the month held 80th birthdays for Mark and me and wanted a separate party for each of us,” Lenchner said. This year, the gathering places included Beau’s Grillery and Roadside B & G, both in Bloomfield Township. The usual format is one event for the eight and another to include spouses and significant others. Although Lenchner has enjoyed reunions as a graduate of Henry Ford High School in Detroit, the reunions from Richton have more depth because there are the lives of family members to recall in a more personal way. Grandparents and aunts and uncles also lived in the building. When Rubens and Pittman come in, she will have them for a separate dinner. When Rubens wants to go to the cemetery to visit the graves of his family, a visit has meaning for her as well because she knew his family. Each Richton alum has a black T-shirt with a picture of the building on the pocket. Lenchner and Rubens made them in 2019, and the shirts almost make them feel like a team. Bernard Goodstein, who works part-time from home as a sales engineer representing backup power systems, said it’s a blessing to be back in each other’s lives and appreciates what it meant to live on Richton Street and make the friendship connections that have been reinvigorated. “The alley was our sports dome,” said Goodstein, married with three children and six grandchildren and listing membership in Temple Israel. “When the memories spilled out at the reunions, there were tremendous feelings. As we get older, there are times of reflection.” Arnold Weintraub, an intellectual property attorney belonging to Temple Israel, said that he’s glad the group feels comfortable talking about the present as easily as the past. Divorced with a daughter and two grandchildren, he feels fortunate that members of the group turned out to be people of 70-Year Friendships The gang from Richton Street in Detroit gets together for reunions. SUZANNE CHESSLER CONTRIBUTING WRITER OUR COMMUNITY Steven Epstein, Richard Edwards, Stuart Rubens, Bernard Goodstein, Linda Epstein Lenchner, Arnold Weintraub, Larry Lowenthal and Mark Pittman