JANUARY 18 • 2024 | 37 J N MAZEL TOV! Carle-Milan D r. Catherine Carle and Mr. Jordan Milan were married on Nov. 18, 2023, at the Daxton Hotel in Birmingham, Mich. Rabbi Marla Hornsten of Temple Israel offi- ciated. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Louis Carle of Gatineau, Quebec. The groom is the son of Dr. and Mrs. Mitchell Milan of Birmingham. The couple will reside in Florida. Chait 50th Janower 50th D ianne and Steve Chait of West Bloomfield are excited to announce that they celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary on Jan. 13, 2024, with friends and family. They are the extremely proud parents of son Michael B. Chait. R ena and Marty Janower of West Bloomfield celebrated their 50th anniversary on Dec. 23, 2023. They lovingly chose to cele- brate this simchah in Cancun, Mexico, with their children, Andrea and Dan Monkman, Nicole and David Goldman, Adam Janower and Morgan Princing, along with their grandchildren, Shayna and Addison Monkman, and Sadie, Elliott and Parker Goldman. SPIRIT TORAH PORTION Always a Choice A s humans, we are free to act according to our own wills. This principle is central to Judaism — when we strive to perform mitzvot, this ensures we are lia- ble when we fall short. Some even interpret free will as the aspect of the Divine ascribed to humans as btzelem Elohim or “in the image of God.” But the concept of free will is challenging to reconcile with a theology built on an omnipotent and omniscient divinity: How can we have any choice when God knows what we are going to do? This contradiction is expressed in the words of Pirkei Avot: “Everything is foreseen yet free- dom of choice is granted, and the world is judged with good- ness” (3:15). In Parshat Bo, the plight of the Israelites depends not on their own free will, but on Pharaoh’s choices. Plagues con- tinue to rain down on Egypt; yet the throne refuses to release the captive task force. It seems like Pharaoh is stubbornly shortsighted and unable to act in the best interest of his sub- jects who bear the brunt of the discomfort of each plague. But a repeated refrain in recent par- shayot reveals that Pharaoh is not necessarily refusing to lib- erate them of his own free will. First at the Burning Bush and again throughout the Ten Plagues narrative (Exodus 7:3; 11:1; 9), God tells Moses that Pharaoh’s heart will be hard- ened, thus reducing his capacity for empathy and obstructing his choice to release the Israelites. Why is Pharaoh’s heart hard- ened against potentially better judgment? Some sages suggest it was necessary. Sforno says Pharaoh needed to endure the plagues to fully recognize the power of God; otherwise, he would have freed the Israelites simply to avoid further discom- fort. Maimonides adds that the path of teshuvah was not open to Pharaoh, given the gravity of his sins. Perhaps focusing on Pharaoh at all is more benefit than deserved. The continuation of the plagues was not only punishment for Egypt, but also a demonstration of God’s power to the Israelite nation, genera- tions removed from the mira- cles of Genesis. But this would imply the Israelites ventured forth out of fear rather than faith in God, detracting from their own per- ceived free will. From this we can conclude that the “mixed multitude” (Exodus12:38) who departed from Egypt after Pharaoh finally capitulates fol- lowing the 10th plague includ- ed Israelites and Egyptians, while others remained behind freely. In this episode, as in our modern lives, we see the inte- gral role of God’s providence, but action depends on human choices. Like Pharaoh, our hearts can be hardened against better judgment; it is our free will to give in to these obstacles or strive toward something more. Rabbi Benjamin Altshuler is a community rabbi residing in West Bloomfield. He has served congregations throughout the Midwest and is an alumnus of Avodah: the Jewish Service Corps, for which he now serves on the Rabbinic Council. Rabbi Benjamin Altshuler Parshat Bo: Exodus 10:1-13:16; Jeremiah 46:13-28.