Zeev, Lihi and Hilla Maine Dive On In! Looking to connect with this holiday? Aish Detroit’s Ayala Kohn offers a few things to try … • Read through the story of Ruth and talk with friends and family about the lessons you can learn from it. • Pick out some items at the store and donate to your local food pantry. • Focus on treating others with love, acceptance and respect. • Commit to something new — Ruth shows a lot of commitment (read about it in the Book of Ruth!), and you can, too. Come up with a fun family challenge and make a competition for staying the course. Eating healthy or exercising daily for a few weeks, keeping your room clean, turning off your tablet, calling your grandparents once a week — pick a value you want to be more committed to and see if you can stick with it! MAY 25 • 2023 | 19 Shavuot is one of Judaism’s three major pilgrimage festivals. The other two are Passover in the spring and Sukkot in the fall. In ancient times, it was one of the occasions when our ancestors would gather at the Holy Temple in Israel. There are five names for the holiday, and four of them have to do with harvesting and food. Only one of them has to do with receiving the Torah. Chag Shavuot — Festival of Shavuot Yom HaBikkurim — Day of the First-Fruits Chag Hakatzir — Festival of Harvest Atzeret — A festive assembly of all the people Zeman Matan Torateinu — The time of the giving of our Torah Did You Know? with them, especially since my savta (grandmother) is a Torah teacher, it’s even more meaningful. ” Hilla, 6, likes eating the bourekas her grandmother makes on the holiday, and says she’s excited for the atmosphere her family creates around Shavuot. “I love to spend Shavuot with my family, ” she says. “I like learning Torah and really like tefilot [prayers]. ” Her brother Zeev, 14, used a count similar to the one used for Shavuot, where people count the days leading up to the holiday, to count the days to his bar mitzvah. “Something I really like about Shavuot is the count up to it, and how that reflects the fact Shavuot is something that people look forward to, ” says Zeev. “I did a 50 day count up to the big event. ” SHARING YOUR ABUNDANCE Nicole Psakhis, 12, of West Bloomfield, is part of Girls on a Mission, a project of Aish Detroit where girls ages 12-15 take part in acts of service around the community. This month, they were baking for a pre-Shavuot bake sale supporting Bikur Cholim, a Jewish organization that helps those who are sick. “Shavuot is about sustain- ing one another,” explains Ayala Kohn, director of edu- cation for Aish Detroit. “Our blessing of abundance comes when we give to each other.” She’s talking about the idea from Shavuot, which is a har- vest festival, that even when you bring your first fruits to the Temple, you’re sup- posed to leave some behind for those who need it. “It’s the beginning of the season, you don’t have a lot yet, but it’s important no matter how much you have that we leave for each other,” she explains. Nicole was excited for the fundraiser because of the opportunity to have a new experience, see a dif- ferent perspective and make others happy. Last month as part of the group, she helped out at a Metro Detroit charity that gives kids the chance to shop for free clothes in a dig- nified store-like environment. “You get to help other people and they pass on that kindness, and it makes every- one else feel better,” Nicole says. “It’s nice to help out because it makes them feel good and helps the commu- nity.” Nicole Psakhis