104 | MAY 18 • 2023 OBITUARIES OF BLESSED MEMORY B uilding a successful business in home decor brought Paul Katzman the ability to be generous to his communi- ty and family. He formerly owned Kay & Kay Tile, Mrs. Kay’s Wallpaper, Blinds & More, and American Blind & Wallpaper Factory. The entrepreneur taught his children and grandchil- dren lessons about business and life, but the greatest impact on them may have come from watching his devotion to his wife, Lois. Their wedded bliss lasted 66 years. Mr. Katzman, 90, of Bloomfield Hills succumbed to Parkinson’s disease on May 6, 2023. Rabbi Harold Loss and Cantor Michael Smolash of Temple Israel in West Bloomfield officiated at his funeral service. Smolash sang “Listen,” the Katzmans’ favor- ite song at temple. Paul was born Jan. 6, 1933, in Brooklyn to Ida, a Sabra from Palestine, and Hyman, from Russia. The couple married in Israel but moved to the U.S. for better opportu- nities. When Paul was 1, the family left New York to join Ida’s brother in Detroit. Lois Feldstein and Paul first laid eyes on each other at Central High School in Detroit. The attraction was mutual. After graduation, Paul served in the U.S. Air Force and received an honor- able medical discharge. Paul and Lois wed at his family’s Congregation B’nai Moshe in Detroit. In 1950, Paul and his father Hyman founded Kay & Kay Tile in Detroit, the first of the family’s three businesses. Steve Katzman was 7 when he started visiting stores with Paul. He described his father as “a hard worker, impecca- ble, loyal as the day was long, competitive and disciplined.” At one point, the Katzmans operated 30 stores in Michigan and Illinois, as well as own- ing American Blind, their large mail-order company in Plymouth, Michigan. They sold the companies in 1993. CHARITABLE HEART For Paul, doing well was a means to an end. “He found joy in writing checks and giv- ing tzedakah,” Loss said. The Katzmans set up a charitable foundation. They gave, in particular, to Temple Israel and JARC, a nonprofit that provides housing and services to enable adults with developmental disabilities to live full and meaningful lives. “Paul Katzman and the Katzman family have been extremely generous to JARC over the years,” said David Carroll, JARC’s former inter- im CEO and past president. “Their giving included a large gift that went toward procur- ing JARC’s former headquar- ters in Farmington Hills.” Cortney Barnett, oldest of the 16 Katzman grandchil- dren, has a congenital heart condition. In her eulogy, she said, “When I was going through my heart surgery, ‘Papa’ [as Paul’s grandkids call him] helped me to set up my nonprofit for heart research [The Cortney Gives BAK Foundation].” Papa, she said, would be remembered for “his love, generosity and playfulness.” Heidi Wineman said her father would bargain with her, giving her nearly everything she wanted, “‘if you give me a kiss.’” Then he’d add, “Be sure to give your mom a kiss, too. “He devoted his entire marriage to worshipping my mother,” Heidi said. “They were extra happily married.” “Dad sang ‘There She Is, Miss America’ to her daily,” Steven said. “He gave her pas- sionate kisses several times a day. I did not know where he ended and she began.” The Katzmans’ common interests included tennis, dancing and travel. They rarely made independent social plans, although David Katzman spoke of his teenage “guys’ trip” to Las Vegas with Dad. Appointments were coordinated, including back- to-back sessions with their personal trainer. “Paul and Lois had unity,” Loss said. “They were a warm and engaging couple.” Steven recalled when his parents recently were in ICU rooms next to each other at Corewell Health-Royal Oak. “We arranged a Facetime for them. Even in pain, he leaned up to his iPad to kiss her face on the screen,” Steven said. “His happy place was being next to my mom.” Paul was the beloved hus- band of Lois Katzman; father of Alisa (Jeff) Ambrose, Heidi (Hank) Wineman, David (Heather) Katzman and Steven (Elizabeth) Katzman; grandfather of Michael (Lauren) Ambrose, Cortney (Seth) Barnett, Shelby Dotan, Deni (Matt) Kibort, Jane Wineman, Jack Wineman, Jordan (Alex) Katzman, Rachel Katzman, Adam Katzman, Kendra Katzman, Nicole Katzman, Randi Katzman, Noah Katzman, Henry Katzman, Ben Katzman and Harlow Katzman; great-grandfather of Rose Barnett, Summer Barnett, Mason Ambrose, Leon Dotan and Alon Dotan. He was the brother-in-law of Paul Bragman, Shirley (the late Sam) Gilbert and the late Robert Feldstein; uncle of Jimmy (Debbie) Bragman, Gary (Charlotte) Gilbert and Dan (Jennifer) Gilbert, and survived by devoted caregiv- ers, including eulogist Anu Jawanda. Paul also was the devoted son of the late Hyman and the late Ida Katzman and brother of the late Ethel Bragman. Interment was at Oakview Cemetery in Royal Oak. Contributions may be made to the Cortney Gives BAK Foundation, 18540 Hillcrest, Beverly Hills, MI 48025; cortneygivesbak.com. Arrangements were by Ira Kaufman Chapel. An Entrepreneur and Family Man ESTHER ALLWEISS INGBER CONTRIBUTING WRITER Paul Katzman