K evin’s Song, a Michigan- based charitable organization dedicated to generating public awareness about the causes of suicide, held its Annual Virtual Conference on Suicide in late January. The conference featured survivors of suicide who shared their stories of combating stigma and dealing with loss and grief, followed by a panel discussion with four survivors who shared their personal experiences of surviving the pain of suicide loss. On the heels of the conference, many people and organizations in the Metro Detroit Jewish community opened up about the work being done in the suicide prevention and awareness space and how important these conversations are in combating the stigma. REACHING FOR HOPE Rabbi Daniel Syme, rabbi emeritus at Temple Beth El, has dedicated his life to youth suicide prevention since 1975 when his 21-year-old brother, Michael, took his own life. Syme started a national suicide prevention program, Reach for Hope, and has been dedicated to saving lives across the nation ever since. “Every time I was able to save a life, it was as if I had saved Michael,” Syme said. Syme also works in suicide prevention with Jewish Family Service. He said, until recently, discussions about suicide simply didn’t take place. “When these discussions started taking place, people heard about them, and people who had been very reluctant to talk about their own experiences came out of the woodwork and shared their pain and determination to get involved,” Syme said. “If I’ve learned one thing in close to 50 years, it’s that talking about suicide helps to prevent it.” JFS Youth Mental Health Coordinator Julia Cohen says community events and programs where we normalize and talk about mental health are critical. “I think reducing stigma is key. Once people feel supported and comfortable to raise their hand and say they’re struggling and need help, I think that, in and of itself, makes huge bounds in suicide prevention,” she said. ‘WE NEED TO TALK’ We Need to Talk, a youth mental health program developed by the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit and its partners in 2017, was created in response to a community needs assessment that revealed a significant number of youth were struggling with sadness, anxiety and depression. Four years after its creation, the day-to-day operations of the program have moved to JFS, and Cohen says the Let’s Talk About It 32 | FEBRUARY 24 • 2022 HEALTH Rabbi Daniel Syme Julia Cohen JFS has a new focus on destigmatizing conversations about suicide. DANNY SCHWARTZ STAFF WRITER