22 | MAY 20 • 2021 continued from page 20 are moving forward and even increasing what we are doing. ” Jbaby’s five-part prenatal pro- gram switched immediately to virtual in April 2020. “We had 10 couples, and everyone was very happy to do it this way, ” Erez says. “It’s not exactly the same as being in per- son, but it still provided families with the sup- port they were counting on. ” Margot Peck, a local mom-to-be, had a lot of questions and some concerns about being pregnant, particularly during a pandemic. “It was so nice being able to connect with other parents-to-be over Zoom during the Jbaby prenatal course, ” Peck says. “Even if we weren’t physically together, there was a definite sense of camaraderie. It was so nice to be in a safe space where we could ask questions and be vulnerable with one another. ” New mom Sara Craig agrees, “If it weren’t for taking the Jbaby prenatal class, I would have felt even more alone during this crazy time. My husband and I developed lifelong friendships — I feel so lucky to have formed such close bonds with other moms in the same place as I am. It’s hard enough to have a baby, but then layering on a pandemic is insane. If it weren’t for these friendships, I’ d feel so lost. “Even virtually, we’re celebrat- ing our friends’ milestones as they celebrate ours, ” Craig says. “This wasn’t the year any of us expected, especially being first- time parents. But the memories we have will absolutely last a lifetime. ” Jbaby also offered much-need- ed respites for parents running out of ideas for entertaining their kids during quarantine. “It’s been a great resource of programming in a safe way for my toddler during the pandem- ic, ” Jennie Maxbauer says. “We have loved celebrating Jewish holidays with Rhythm & Ruach and having the Noon Year’s Eve party with so many friends. ” Like the families they serve, Jbaby has also been growing, adding new classes, groups and programs. Infant CPR and car seat safety workshops have been introduced. Monthly conversa- tions with experts will launch in June. And this winter, Jbaby offered new panels on pregnancy loss and infertility, in partnership with Federation’s NEXTGen. “Parents get into a Jbaby class, and moms will say, ‘It took us six years to get pregnant, ’ or ‘We did five egg retrievals’ [for in-vitro fertilization]. It would have been so nice for them to have Jewish support, ” Erez says. “There’s nothing really like this in the Jewish community, and there’s a need. ” EXTENDED CLASSES In March, Jbaby launched a weekly virtual New Moms’ Postpartum Group, providing a continued connection for women who’ve finished the prenatal class but are not due for a few months. Although the group has been offered before, it will now follow a new model of being facilitated by Jbaby ambassadors Rachael Gerstein and Erica Wedes, Jbaby alums who have been trained by Jewish Family Service. Beyond connect- ing families and communities, they work with Erez to come up with new ideas to serve their families — including moms on bedrest, moms in the hospital and babies in the NICU. “We work against the idea that you only get to feel good about your pregnancy and baby if everything goes as planned, ” Erez says. “We want to be there for all of our families, no matter the situation. ” Mikki Frank, senior director of Jfamily Detroit, said “the strength of our Jbaby program comes from the families it serves. “We couldn’t do this incredi- ble work without the help of our amazing lay leaders and donors: Adam and Hannah Kessler, Jeff Johnson and Erica Wedes- Johnson, and Elliot and Lacey Foon. ” Frank knows that having your first child is both “a beautiful and challenging time” and a sup- portive community is critical. “The Jbaby community provides that meaningful support, con- nection and education. ” This story first appeared on myjewishdetroit.org. Monique and Justin Jacobs with son, Jack, ,play at a sensory table at a Jbaby Detroit Havdalah Hangout with NEXTGen Detroit. The Winter 2019 Jbaby Prenatal Cohort is pictured together at Temple Israel following a New Mom’s Meeting. OUR COMMUNITY