18 | AUGUST 6 • 2020 but relationships were second- ary, ” explains Rabbi Nicole Auerbach, who is in charge of congregational engagement and small groups at the Central Synagogue in New York. “ A synagogue is not a building or a set of programs. We want to make sure that everyone feels seen and recognized and has a sense of connection, ” she said. The congregation has a group for dads with young children, a Jewish cookbook group, a group interested in photography and another focused on social justice. “What is powerful is that people build really deep rela- tionships — people who are there for them, ” Rabbi Auerbach said, adding that the goal is for congregants to be co-owners and co-creators of their community and to feel their Judaism without a rabbi in the room. While groups may be activi- ty-based, discussion groups have “explicitly Jewish content, ” she said. Group leaders receive train- ing and may later use those skills for other synagogue roles. Locally, prior to the pandem- ic, Congregation T’ chiyah was developing a different small group model — based on groups of individuals who live close to one another with designated point people for check-in and to facilitate connections. These groups are providing lay-led social support and mutual aid, as well as connection, to counteract isolation during this pandemic, Ehrlich explains. A NEW APPRECIATION While synagogues are closed now, rabbis are encouraged by their congregants’ continued involvement. They believe that synagogues will survive, although perhaps with signifi- cant changes. “People are now realizing how important synagogues are in their lives. All have been engaging their congregations with new modalities for prayer, education and connection, ” said Rabbi Jacob Blumenthal, exec- utive director of the Rabbinical Assembly and United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism. “I think that a significant impact that this crisis will have on synagogue life will be one of decentralization: synagogues will need to see themselves as facil- itators of home-, community- and online-based Judaism, rath- er than a physical ‘ one-stop shop’ for Jewish life, ” Ehrlich said. “Synagogues will be needed more than ever. We want com- munity. We want support. We want validation, ” said Rabbi Bergman. “There is a craving for connection and community. There will be surface changes through technology. ” He anticipates continued use of Zoom and online program- ming, social distancing and some form of hybrid services “at least for the next few years, due to the health and age of so many people, until there is a vaccine that works. ” Rabbi Nicole Auerbach continued from page 16 YOUR VOICE What can synagogues do to grow their members? Do Jews need shul to stay connected? Let us know at letters@renmedia.us Jews in the D cover story ©2020 Hadassah, The Women’s Zionist Organization of America, Inc. Hadassah, the H logo, and Hadassah the Power of Women Who Do are registered trademarks of Hadassah, The Women’s Zionist Organization of America, Inc. HADASSAH, THE WOMEN’S ZIONIST ORGANIZATION OF AMERICA, INC. HADASSAH GREATER DETROIT 248.683.5030 | greaterdetroit@hadassah.org | www.hadassah.org/detroit Annual Meeting 2020 Judi Schram Featuring Hadassah Youth Aliyah Chair Dedicated Hadassah Life Member and Award- Winning Volunteer Honoring REGISTER OR DONATE ONLINE www.hadassahmidwest.org/GDannualmeeting Our Annual Meeting this year is virtual as we continue our great support of Hadassah's Youth Aliyah Villages, providing incomparable moments in the lives of at-risk children to put them on a path of success and leadership. More than 300,000 young people from 80 countries have graduated from Youth Aliyah. Don't miss this exciting tour of the Meir Shfeya Youth Village with Carol Goodman Kaufman, Youth Aliyah National Chair, and hear success stories from students from the comfort of your home. $45 couvert. Sponsorships available.