52 | FEBRUARY 20 • 2020 for college students by college students Grand Valley State University senior Zack Kirschner of Farmington Hills participated in BBYO alongside Gelsey. He also feels that experience pushed him to join Greek life. “I don’ t think I would be where I am now without BBYO, ” Kirshner said. “The ability to be a part of something bigger than yourself is such a good experience, and I wanted to have something like that in college. ” Kirschner is a brother in Alpha Epsilon Pi (AEPi), a Jewish fraternity. GVSU has 350 Jewish students. “Being part of AEPi is probably one of the most meaningful things in my life, ” he said. “I’ m able to combine two things that mean a lot to me. ” Kirschner says being part of a Jewish fraternity is special. The AEPi recruitment process seeks men who embody the same values and beliefs as the brothers do. He says this results in being able to surround yourself with quality individuals and create meaningful relationships. Michigan State University junior Daniel Wolfe of Buffalo Grove, Illinois, is a brother in his school’ s chapter of AEPi as well. Wolfe said he wanted to make the most out of his college experience and was convinced to rush by a roommate. When he discovered AEPi, he said he felt a connection with the other brothers. “If I hadn’ t found AEPi and it wasn’ t the Jewish fraternity, I don’ t think I would have joined a house, ” Wolfe said. “I cannot say how amazing this experience has been for me. ” As an active member of MSU’ s Jewish community of 3,500 Jewish students, Wolfe attends Shabbat dinners and other events at the school’ s Hillel, which he says has been awesome in helping him build friendships with others who share his Jewish values. Wolfe also serves on the executive board of the MSU Jewish Business Association sponsored by Hillel. During his sophomore year, Wolfe served as his chapter president and left that position craving even more involvement in the Greek life community. For him, the next logical step was to apply for a position at IFC. All three men agree that being Jewish and being involved in IFC is a special experience. “I think it speaks volumes to the values of Jewish leadership and the values we are all brought up with in the Jewish community, ” Wolfe said. While Kirschner and Gelsey grew up together, they applied for their respective IFC presidencies independently. “I was talking to Zack on the phone one day and told him I’ m IFC president and he said, ‘ Me, too!’ ” Gelsey said. “It’ s awesome there are so many Jewish people involved in IFC. ” All three men said they hope to continue making a difference in both their Jewish and Greek life communities through their roles as IFC presidents. @ continued from page 50 Jewish a t OU An outreach call started a journey of Hillel leadership. W hen I came to Oakland University as a freshman in fall of 2017, I had no idea what to expect from Jewish life at school. I was interested in Hillel, but because OU was a part of Hillel of Metro Detroit (HMD), I thought most of the programming would be in Detroit. In my sophomore year, I connected with Jewish life on OU’ s campus. Early in the semester, I received a Facebook message from a girl I did not know, saying she was a student intern with Hillel and would love to meet me for coffee. After that first meeting, I slowly found myself getting more involved. We restarted OU’ s Students for Israel (SFI) organization and, before I knew it, I was on the executive board as treasurer. This position led me to attend the 2019 AIPAC policy conference in Washington, D.C., where I made fast friends with students involved at the other HMD campuses. It was also where I developed a passion for Israel advocacy (and met my boyfriend!). This month, I performed as a nun in Oakland University’ s School of Music, Theatre and Dance’ s opera Dialogues of the Carmelites by Francis Poulenc. The opera is a moving tale of the martyrdom of the Carmelite nuns during the French Revolution. As a Jewish person, playing a nun helped open my eyes to different religions and life perspectives. As I approach the end of my junior year, I look to reflect on how far I have come as a Jewish student at Oakland University. Not only have I become a leader within SFI at OU, but also a leader within HMD — I now am Applebaum Family Engagement Intern, much like the intern who helped me begin my own journey within Hillel. @ Ilyssa Brunhild lives on campus at Oakland University in Auburn Hills. She is studying music education. Ilyssa Brunhild } jewish@edu writer Ilyssa Brunhild