Jews in the D HUES from page 20 22 | FEBRUARY 20 • 2020 Aryeh, who is white. In social situations, people sometimes treat Aryeh with more respect. And it’ s especially hurtful when someone thinks it’ s OK to make a racially inappropriate comment to Aryeh. “I don’ t necessarily see things as being racially insensitive like my wife sees it,” Aryeh says. “So I’ m constantly attempting to see things from her viewpoint … Often, the best response is to do nothing while show- ing I understand that what happened was hurtful, and to just be there for my wife to provide comfort and support.” The Kleins initially met six years ago. Aryeh was hosting a fundraiser and Aliza, an active volunteer within the Jewish com- munity, was asked to help with the event. A few years later, a friend set them up. The couple married in December 2017. They do not have children yet. The pair is concerned that when they do start a family, their kids will have to deal with racism, not only from within the Jewish community but from soci- ety as a whole. “We want to raise strong children and will try our best to make sure our kids are exposed to positive people with positive attitudes,” Aliza says. “Unfortunately, there will always be ignorant people. And while we can’ t control how they act, we can control our responses to them.” Ashira Solomon, a single Orthodox Jewish woman with a 4-year-old daughter, hopes to meet someone that her neshamah (soul) con- nects with. She wants to get married again but she’ s been told it might be hard for her to get a shidduch (match). Solomon isn’ t necessarily offended by this comment, saying she understands the chal- lenges of why a Jewish person — whether they’ re Orthodox, Conservative or Reform — may not consider marrying a Jew who isn’ t white. “When you’ re surrounded by a bunch of people who mostly look the same and you’ re taught that saying derogatory words like schvartze (“black” in Yiddish) is OK, then what happens when you meet a Jew of color?” she says. “How do you react? “It’ s a mixed message.” Solomon believes the key to addressing such stereotypes is through education and being conscious of the fact there are different types of people with unique characteristics. GROWING ATTENTION A handful of initiatives and organizations, many working on a national level, are addressing the needs of a more diverse Jewish population. Olivia Guterson, a 29-year-old artist living in Detroit, wouldn’ t mind seeing more local initiatives. She says she usually connects with other Jews of color when she attends conferences that more actively recruit or create space for them. In a city like Detroit, where 85% of the population is black, Guterson says she is surprised she hasn’ t come across more Jews of color. She occasionally attends the Isaac Agree Downtown Synagogue and guesses she knows two or three others who identify as a Jew of color. She suspects there may be more who are not visibly identifiable. As part of its 2020 programming, the Union for Reform Judaism is spearheading an initiative called Audacious Hospitality, designed to embrace Jewish diversity. URJ hopes to listen to the experiences Jews of color have in majority-white spaces and provide educational resources that address how to improve in the areas of diversity, equity and inclusion, according to Chris Harrison, a writer and editor for Audacious Hospitality and a Jew of color. Harrison, who recently relocated to Michigan, serves as a committee member on the Audacious Hospitality working group with Temple Beth El in Bloomfield Township, where he is a member. Harrison says congregations can take sev- eral steps to help others feel more welcome. “When Jews of color talk about their experiences, microaggressions they’ ve received in Jewish spaces, believe them, promise to do better and act on it,” he says. “Look at your congregational or institu- tional practices, ranging from engagement to hiring, to the resources you provide in your religious schools and libraries and beyond. Do the images on your website and social media reflect true Jewish diver- sity? Has your staff taken implicit bias training? “Taking these steps can be challenging and cause some discomfort,” Harrison says, “but they are necessary and healing and will help make your communities places of true belonging.” LOOKING FORWARD Now, at 94, Jones continues to learn as much as he can and is gravitating toward exploring the concept of Jewish identity. “It’ s a good year for me — I’ ll be 95 on May 2 , ” Jones said. “I told my wife this is going to be my year. ” Jones stays active by regularly performing Shakespearean plays at Temple Beth El for congre- gants, including The Merchant of Venice and, most recently, a return to Othello, where he weaves biblical themes into each play. Jones hopes to soon perform his 400th rendition of Othello and finish his book on his transition from Christianity to Judaism. Regarding his relationship to Judaism, Jones says his philos- ophy is, “I’ m still learning. ” He participates in weekly Torah study courses and attends Sunday minyan, which for him, “feels like family. ” “I feel satisfied, I feel comfort- able — I still feel I have beautiful challenges, ” Jones said. “I still feel motivated to learn and to study Torah each week. ” Catch Dr. James Allen Jones per- forming “The Torah and Shakespeare” on April 24, May 1 and May 8 at the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit. Laura Bonnell contributed to this article. “I found the satisfaction that I wanted to in Judaism. It was like coming home.” — JAMES ALLEN JONES JOURNEY from page 20