14 August 29 • 2019 jn continued from page 12 LEFT: Elijah shows his grandfather the suit he will wear for his bar mitzvah. RIGHT: Bill shows 13-year-old Elijah how to start the tractor. FACING PAGE: Grandfather and grandson share a moment. jews d in the disease, hunger and inhumane treat- ment under Nazi rule. Although Bill was raised in an Orthodox home, attending cheder as a youngster, his 13th year came and went, the idea of proclaiming his status as an adult in the Jewish commu- nity now only an impossible dream. SURVIVING THE DEATH CAMPS The family remained in the ghetto until 1944, when liquidation forced them to Auschwitz. Bill recalled being a 16-year- old traveling in a grossly overcrowded freight car — still with his family — and nearly suffocating from lack of air. Upon arrival at the death camp, Bill’ s mother was separated from her husband and children and sent to Bergen-Belsen, where she was presumed lost. Bill explained he thought he, too, would per- ish at Auschwitz. “It was almost a natural conclusion, to think you’ d be killed, that you had no choice but to die. ” Then, in January of 1945, Bill, his father and brother were transported to Buchenwald. “My father got sick there and was taken to a hospital, where he was killed, ” he recalled, his bright blue eyes dimming with emotion. While in the camp, Bill was saved by an uncle who was already there by being chosen to work in a labor camp. “He told me to say I was an electri- cian so I would be selected for work,” he explained. The ability to work was how Bill man- aged to survive, but life in the camp was still unimaginably harsh. He and all the prisoners worked endless hours yet had to subsist on starvation rations. They endured indiscriminate beatings from the Nazi guards. The dead and dying were everywhere. One of Bill’ s most vivid and heart-wrenching memories from his imprisonment arose when he remem- bered the bone-chilling cold everyone suffered. “From the crematoria at Buchenwald, flames were shooting into the air day and night from the chimney, ” he recalled. “When we were ordered outside, I was so cold, I was always shivering. I put my hands in my pockets for warmth. Sometimes when there was a downdraft, the smoke came down, and I noticed it was warmer where the smoke was. So, I went over to that place, but then thought, ‘ I’ m warming myself on the flames of my own people. ’ ” Despite living through horrors like that, fate intervened for Bill once again in April 1945, when he was 17. “There was an announcement on April 5 saying all Jews should gather in the appelplatz (square). A man in the camp told me to go to the kinderblock (children’ s bar- rack), which saved my life. The barrack leader was a Czech gentile, and when we heard the announcement, he said, ‘ Children, if someone comes to kill us, they’ ll have to come in with guns. We’ re not going anyplace.’ ” AFTER LIBERATION After hiding for several days, Bill was liberated on April 11, 1945. Sadly, his brother perished the week before American soldiers freed the camp. Notably, a fellow prisoner who reached freedom with Bill was Elie Wiesel, who had been on the same transport in January. Years later, a proud moment for Bill and his wife occurred when Wiesel was scheduled to speak at Rochester College. Bill’ s wife Ellie tried to get tickets, and when she couldn’ t, she spoke to the college president and said her husband had been liberated with Wiesel. The pres- ident invited the Kayes to a reception where they met Wiesel, and the two men were both honored at the event. After surviving the horrors of WWII, Bill was elated to learn his mother was alive. She had remarried in the camp, becoming Sylvia Goldstein, and even though she had lied about her age to avoid extermination, Bill saw her name on one of the survivor lists published after the camps were liberated, and they found each other. A relative in New York sponsored Sylvia and her new husband so they could leave Europe for America. After being widowed, Bill’ s mother remained in New York, and while vacationing in the Catskills in 1984, she became ill. After she suffered a stroke, Bill moved her to Michigan to recover, but she passed away that year at the age of 87. Bill had come to the U.S. through the assistance of the Hebrew Immigrant Aid Society and lived with his mother and stepfather in New York. He got a job with Albee Homes in Pennsylvania, selling pre-cut homes (a type of housing kit consisting of pre-cut materials for a home, popular in the first half of the 20th century). He found he had more interest in the actual building than in selling, so he transitioned to becoming a builder. The company sent him to Michigan in the early 1960s, and he settled in Mount Clemens. It was in 1969 when, attend- ing a dance at the Holiday Inn, he met his wife Ellie, a history teacher in the Warren schools. Their getting married “I was so happy to have my tatteleh (the aff ectionate name he calls Bill) celebrate with me! I feel very respectful of my grandfather. He wasn’ t able to have a bar mitzvah because of the war, and I was privileged to be able to celebrate with him.” — ELIJAH “