18 March 21 • 2019 jn Standing in Solidarity Jewish community mourns with Muslims after massacre in Christchurch, New Zealand. I n gestures of reciprocal love and unity that they received from their Muslim neighbors following the Pittsburgh Tree of Life massacre last October, rabbis, leaders and others in the Jewish community attended area mosques to mourn the New Zealand terror attacks that took the lives of 50 innocent Muslims while they prayed Friday, March 15. Hundreds gathered for Friday afternoon prayers at the Muslim Unity Center (MUC) in Bloomfield Hills. The parking lot and the men’ s and women’ s galleries filled to capac- ity as mourners of all faiths listened to the words of Imam Mohamed Almasmari. The MUC also held a vigil on Sunday, as did mosques in Dearborn and Detroit. Almasmari, who attended and spoke at a vigil held at Congregation Beth Shalom after the Pittsburgh murders, said that within hours of the New Zealand attack, he and his com- munity had received an outpouring of love and solidarity from other faith and civic groups. “The most difficult moments bring out the best in us,” Almasmari said to a gathering of hundreds at last Friday’ s afternoon prayers. “Even when there are disagreements among our religious leaders, we will always stand together in solidarity.” Rabbis from many congregations, including Adat ShalomSynagogue, Temple Beth El, Temple Israel and Kehilat Eytz Chayim, attended the vigils. At a Sunday vigil held at the Islamic Center of America in Dearborn, Rabbi Asher Lopatin of Kehillat Eytz Chaim spoke as a repre- sentative of the larger Jewish commu- nity. He said that upon entering the MUC on Friday to give comfort and support, it was he who felt welcomed and comforted by those who gathered there to mourn. After he spoke, he delivered the El Rachamim prayer, which he said was very similar to the Islamic prayer one says when there is news that someone has been killed. “We have to stick together from now on,” he said. “When we see each other, we must ask each other if we are OK, how can I help you? The haters want to separate us from each other. Instead, let us make a commit- ment to fill our hearts with love and support for each other.” In a statement released on Monday, Rabbi Aaron Bergman of Adat Shalom expressed his congregation’ s devastation to learn of yet another murder of innocent worshipers at prayer. Bergman said he reached out to the Anjumane Najmi Mosque in Farmington Hills, whose members were so kind to his congregation in the fall, and told them that Adat Shalom will be including them in their prayers. “The Muslim community is in mourning, not just in New Zealand, but all over the world and in our own neighborhoods,” he wrote. “I was so moved by the members of the Muslim community who reached out to the Jewish community after the shootings in Pittsburgh. They not only offered their condolences, but also helped the victims financially. “It is important that we as a syn- agogue now help those who are in such pain. Let us all find a way to be a source of light and comfort for those who grieve and for those whose lives were lost.” Bergman suggested donating to a crowdfunding site to help families of the victims at https://givealittle.co.nz/ cause/christchurch-shooting- victims-fund. ■ MUSLIM UNITY CENTER jews d in the STACY GITTLEMAN CONTRIBUTING WRITER Jews and Muslims comfort each other at a Sunday vigil at the Muslim Unity Center. Essay Contest for High School Juniors and Seniors CHESSED Compassion and caring for others RODEF SHALOM The pursuit of understanding, empathy and mutual respect SHALOM BAYIT Harmony in the home The TOP THREE submissions will be awarded college scholarships totaling $3,000! STRONGER COMMUNITY The heart of a 100 MENSCHES is an initiative of JCADA, the Jewish Coalition Against Domestic Abuse, a program of Jewish Family Service. Visit 100mensches.org for judging criteria, student eligibility guidelines, and to download the application. Email your submission and application (as PDFs) to slangstein@jfsdetroit.org. Please make sure your name isn’t on your submission as judging will be anonymous. Questions? Contact Sam Langstein at slangstein@jfsdetroit.org. Winners will be notified May 6th and recognized at our May 14th Annual Meeting. DEADLINE April 18, 2019 by 5pm These Jewish values may help guide your thinking: 100 MENSCHES invites Jewish high school juniors and seniors to submit an 800-1000 word original essay based on this prompt: In the past couple of years, the #metoo movement has been building momentum and raising awareness about sexual assault, sexual harassment and domestic abuse. How has the #metoo movement affected you, your high school or your Jewish community? How can Jewish values continue to affect change toward a future free of these issues?