16 January 24 • 2019 jn continued from page 14 jews d in the they had six children, four of them boys who would retain their usual Dutch last name, the Tilsma family was hard to locate. Then she found an obituary of the father, which listed the address of one of the older boys, Meindert, in Barrie, Ontario. She remembered him well: “He and his brother, Adry, would come home from work and school every day. They would pick me up and twirl me around and sing songs with me and play with me. I adored them.” When she called him, he asked who was calling? She replied, “Marianne Rose.” They both laughed and cried as they shared 75 years of history. Meindert Tilsma put Posner in touch with his little sister, Femmy, with whom she had shared a room 75 years ago. Joaquin led Posner to Dr. Evertjan Hannivoort, who researched the Enschede community, and helped her locate 21 surviving members of the rescuers’ families. They found grand- children of the Spit family residing in South Africa, France and Florida. In November 2017, Joaquin sent Posner the good news that all three families would receive recognition. On May 23, 2018, Esther and Erwin Posner and their son Daniel met at the Shouwburg, the elegant theater in Amsterdam that had served as the deportation point for Amsterdam’ s Jews. Right where Esther’ s father had leapt from the truck, and then pulled her mother and Esther off to avoid deportation, Femmy Tilsma and rel- atives of Meidert Tilsma, along with members of the Morssink family, received their official recognition from the Israeli Consul of Holland and the president of Yad Vashem, Holland. On Oct. 22, 2018, at the Holocaust Museum in Miami, Gerry Spit, accompanied by his wife, their chil- dren and grandchildren, and in the presence of the Posner family, received the honor earned by his grandparents, Anna and Anton Spit, for concealing the Rose family when the Nazis were killing Dutch Jews. Esther Posner had fulfilled her moth- er’ s wishes. ■ International Holocaust Remembrance Day is Sunday, Jan. 27. For events at the Holocaust Memorial Center in Farmington Hills, go to holocaustcenter.org/events/calendar. Where Will I Live? Where are you aging in place? In your house, apartment, condo, your chil- dren’ s home, within a senior commu- nity? How do you know the time is right for a move? What supports will you need and who offers them? What are the financial considerations? These questions can be overwhelm- ing to seniors and the loved ones caring for them. To help make sense of the decisions surrounding these concerns and to learn of the options provided by Detroit’ s Jewish commu- nal agencies, Jewish Senior Life (JSL) has teamed with the Jewish News and its partner agencies Jewish Family Service (JFS), JVS Human Services (JVS), the Jewish Community Center (JCC) and Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit (JFMD) to conduct an informative community conversation. The first of these conversations will be held at 7 p.m. Tuesday, Feb. 5, in Handleman Hall of the JCC in West Bloomfield. Following refreshments, the program will start at 7:30 p.m. The program is free and open to the community. Speakers and their topics: Nancy Siegel Heinrich, JSL CEO, senior liv- ing; Perry Ohren, JFS CEO, aging in the community; Leah Rosenbaum, JVS CEO, day program and support- ive services for memory impairment; Linda Blumberg, JFMD senior plan- ning advisor, senior demographic details from the 2018 Jewish popu- lation study; Dan Cinelli, principal director, Perkins Eastman, innova- tions in senior housing. JN Publisher/Executive Editor Arthur Horwitz will serve as moder- ator. Following their presentations, the experts will answer questions from the audience. Local Jewish agencies will also have informational materials available. To RSVP or send a question in advance, email Keri Guten Cohen of the JN at kcohen@renmedia.us. ■ A Community Conversation on Aging 248-542-8022 MASTER PLUMBER LICENSED & INSURED AVAILABLE 24/7 EXPERT SEWER & DRAIN CLEANING CERTIFIED BACKFLOW TESTING PLUMBING? SEWER? DRAIN PROBLEMS? WE CAN HELP! $20 OFF NEW CLIENTS ONLY. NOT TO BE COMBINED WITH ANY OTHER OFFERS. www.waterworkplumbing.com FULLY STOCKED TRUCKS TO SERVE ALL YOUR PLUMBING NEEDS