views guest column letters Jews Of Color C However, existing with these labels can onverting to Judaism is the best at times lead to feeling unheard or isolated, decision I’ve made in my entire even unintentionally, by the broader Jewish life. It has given me the chance to community. Recently, Rabbi Alana Alpert connect to my Jewish heritage that was (rabbi at Congregation T’chiyah in Oak unfortunately quelled due to American Park and director of Detroit Jews for Christian hegemony. It has Justice) invited me and other Jews of provided me with a path of color into her home for dinner and righteous love, a rich and conversation, facilitated by Aurora endless depth of wisdom Levins Morales, a brilliant indigenous and insight, and a beautiful, Puerto Rican Jewish storyteller. The diverse culture that I get to evening was validating and warm claim as my own. and just what my black Jewish soul As a Jew who is also African needed. American, I wear my back- Chris Harrison Throughout the night, as wine ground with pride. I have poured and we savored grape leaves no reason to segregate my and lentils and rice, we became uni- identities; I recognize their fied through telling our stories. We respective complexities but realized that even though we may relish in every way how they come from different backgrounds and intersect and enrich me. I even had the nationalities and levels of observance, our recent honor of being accepted into the story as Jews of color is one. JewV’Nation Fellowship, a leadership As Aurora told me, “There’s this wonder- cohort through the Union for Reform Judaism. This has allowed me to connect ful mutual affirmation and recognition that with brilliant Jewish professionals of color happens even when our stories are differ- across North America and develop projects ent; there are pieces of the story that every- body recognizes. It’s very joyful for me to to enrich the Jewish experience for indi- experience that because I get affirmation viduals of color and their communities. COL’S PAINTING LLC 3FTJEFOUJBMt$PNNFSDJBM *OUFSJPS&YUFSJPS$VTUPN8PSL -JDFOTFE*OTVSFE 248-431-7690 Chris Harrison is a 2018 fellow in the JewV’Nation Leadership Cohort for Jews of Color. He has a passion for Jewish studies, writing and cinema and loves to cook, exercise and explore Detroit in his spare time. DPMTQBJOUJOHMMD!HNBJMDPN CALL FOR FREE ESTIMATES 2255140 8 May 31 • 2018 jn from it ... and it just reinforces my deep- rooted belief in the power of storytelling.” As we each talked about our experiences as individuals of color in the Jewish com- munity, I loved the instant identification with our stories from everybody in the room. The low, warm sounds of the vari- ous “mmhmms,” the snapping of fingers in agreement, the nods of empathy that could only be that deeply understood by others who have experienced what we have. In some way, we’ve all been outsiders within a group of outsiders. We’ve been told that you can’t be both Jewish and black/Latinx/Indigenous/Asian/etc. We’ve had our identities questioned because they don’t fit into the “white Ashkenormative” model of Jewish existence. We’ve had to take extra steps to “act” or “look” Jewish to prove our identities in ways that white- passing Jews rarely have to. We’ve had to smile and nod when faced with microag- gressions from well-meaning individuals so as not to disrupt their comfort or, even worse, conform to whatever subconscious stereotypes they may have about us. Despite the challenges that we as Jews of color face and the work that still needs to be done to repair and include us, it is important to note that progress is being made. Speaking from my own experience, I feel fully welcomed as a Jew of color at Congregation T’chiyah. I feel accepted and loved because of my identity, not in spite of it, and yet I also never feel tokenized. I relate to what Aurora said about her expe- rience with her synagogue, that “[the con- gregation is] warm to all of me, not the idea of me that’s comfortable.” Aurora stated that her congregation’s journey to inclusivity was not without its obstacles, particularly the task of sitting in discomfort and analyzing the ways they may be indirectly contributing to exclud- ing its members of color. However, she mentioned that a lot of good has come from that intense self-reflection; that over time, “people have become more aware of the need to just see something deeper and more intentional and looking inward at our own community, not just outward.” When I look at the future of Judaism, I acknowledge all the challenges that lay ahead to amplify its voices of color. Regardless, I am nonetheless hopeful and excited to be an architect of change along- side my fellow Jews of color and our incred- ible allies. Judaism has never once been a path of least resistance; it is a beautiful struggle based in hard work and deep love, and those values are our tools to foster a Judaism of inclusivity and acceptance. • The Power Of Jewish Unity I can’t remember when Jews were as polarized as they are today. The May 17 issue of the Jewish News shows this schism, displaying some of the intense disagreements regarding Trump’s withdrawal from the Iran deal (the JCPOA) as well as the con- troversial installation of the new U.S. Embassy in Jerusalem. Thankfully, the stories cel- ebrating Israel in the Jewish News highlighted unity rather than division, especially the power- ful, stunning essay by IDF Lone Soldier from Southfield, Zach Herschfus (“Our Secret Weapon,” page 22.) It is virtually impossi- ble to feel animosity toward any Jew when reading about Zach standing at Raphael Mordechai’s grave at the National Memorial Ceremony on Israel’s Memorial Day, next to Raphael’s father and family. Mordechai’s father, 45 years after his son died in the 1973 Yom Kippur War, grabbed and squeezed Zach’s hand during the 11 a.m. siren, accompanied by “pure silence,” tears stream- ing down both of their faces. “In that powerful moment in time, I understood the meaning of my mission,” Zach wrote. One begins to feel faith again in our fractured Jewish com- munity when 20-year-old Zach explains that he and Raphael’s dad “were sharing the pain of loss and at the same time the pride in what Raphael Mordechai had given for the country … as everyone across the country set aside their dif- ferences and came together (on Yom Hazikaron and Yom HaAtzmaut) in sorrow and tran- sitioned into pure joy.” How can we not feel a strong sense of hopefulness with Herschfus’ inspirational conclu- sion that “unity is the strongest weapon the Jewish people have, our super power?” Zach believed that this sig- nificant moment was his “most meaningful and important mission yet,” taking his part in “activating the super power of our nation as we stood together in unity.” Amen. Arnie Goldman Farmington Hills