soul of blessed memory ‘He Did Th e Walk And Th e Talk’ RONELLE GRIER CONTRIBUTING WRITER M erle Harris, a hard-working and imaginative entrepre- neur, a devoted family man, a loyal friend and an inspirational leader in business and throughout the community, passed away on March 25, 2018, at the age of 89. Merle, the middle child of Morrey and Rosalie Harris, was born in 1928, the year before the Great Depression descended upon the country. He graduated from Central High School and, after World War II, he attended Michigan State University (then known as Michigan Agricultural College), where he lived in a Quonset hut, co-founded the school’s first chapter of the ZBT fraternity, obtained a degree in business and became a lifelong MSU sports fan. While attending a Red Wings game in his brother’s stead, he met Shirley Barnett, who became his wife a year later. The couple, who were married for 57 years, settled in Huntington Woods, where they began raising their three children while Merle worked in the steel business with his father-in-law, Harry Barnett. Merle and Shirley were inseparable; they exemplified a partnership rich with mutual love, friendship and respect. Merle took great pride in his children, his daughters-in-law and, later, his grandchildren. According to his son Jeffrey, who spoke at the funeral service, Merle was a caring father who taught by example. He taught his children it was important to have a strong work ethic, to give back to the community, to have patience and a well-stocked tool box. “What you get out of life is directly propor- tional to what you put into it; he said that a lot,” Jeffrey said. Always a business- man, after selling Bar Steel Company in his early 40s, Merle became involved with Freshlabs, a vitamin Merle Harris manufacturing com- pany he successfully led for 20 years. After its sale, Merle applied his extraordi- nary business acumen to the area of real estate, closing deals all over the world. “As an entrepreneur and a business- man, he always had the desire and self-confidence to be on his own,” said his son Steven, who remembers his father as a sharp thinker and a perceptive adviser. A business and community leader from a young age, Merle became chairman of the Young Presidents Organization, where he developed a global network of business lead- ers. He was chairman of the Junior Division of the Jewish Welfare Federation (now Jewish Federation of Metro Detroit) and the Allied Jewish Campaign and served as president of Jewish Family Service, the Standard Club and Franklin Hills Country Club. He was the chair of the former Sinai Hospital and president of Huron Valley Sinai Hospital, where he endowed the Merle and Shirley Harris Birthing Center. He was the first recipi- ent of the Wetsman Award for young lead- ership and was an hon- oree in the first Jewish Senior Life “Eight Over 80” program. “He did the walk and the talk,” said Steven, who spoke at the funeral service. One of his proudest philanthropic projects was the Merle and Shirley Harris Children and Family Division of JARC. In 1999, JARC lead- ership met with Shirley and Merle to describe the dream of providing services to families who had children with developmental disabilities living at home. “The Harrises enthusiastically embraced the idea … and their con- tinuing generosity over the years has had an important impact on the lives of families in our community,” said Rena Friedberg, chief philanthropy officer of JARC. Merle had an array of eclectic inter- ests. He was an avid golfer who loved driving distinctive cars. He enjoyed Monday night poker games and a good kosher hot dog. While family was his priority, he reveled in the camaraderie of his longtime friends who came from all walks of life, some dating back to his college fraternity days. Global travelers, he and Shirley visited more than 60 countries and 40 states as they traveled the world for business and pleasure and instilled in their children and grandchildren a desire to see the world and experi- ence its adventures. Despite his success in the business world, Merle found family was his greatest source of pride. He cherished the close relationships he shared with his sister, Suzanne, and his younger brother, Al, which included their chil- dren and extended families. Merle is survived by his cherished children, Steven (Gina) Harris, Jeffrey ( Jamie) Harris and Julie Harris; grandchildren, Rachel ( fiancé, Benjamin Berg) Harris and Daniel Harris; brother, Alfred Harris; devoted companion, Jacqueline Harris Gard; and many loving nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews. He was the beloved husband of the late Shirley Harris and the brother of the late Suzanne (the late Joseph) Orley. Interment was at Beth El Memorial Park. Contributions in memory of Merle may be made to JARC, Merle & Shirley Harris Children and Family Division, 30301 Northwestern Hwy. #100, Farmington Hills, MI 48334, (248) 538-6611, www.jarc.org; or Jewish Senior Life of Metropolitan Detroit, Merle & Shirley Harris Guardianship Program, 6710 W. Maple Road, West Bloomfield, MI 48322, (248) 661-1836, www.jslmi. org. Arrangements by Ira Kaufman Chapel. • Monument Center Inc. 32906 Middlebelt Rd (at 14 Mile) Please see our menu at www.johnnypomodoros.com (248) 855- 0007 Johnny Pomodoro’s is your ONE STOP SHOP for all of your needs! 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