soul of blessed memory A Second Chance At Life C DAVID SACHS CONTRIBUTING WRITER ourage, strength, inspiration and hope: These are the words that come to my mind when I think about my mom.” Shelli Lempert’s thoughts were expressed at the funeral of her moth- er, Brenda Beron of West Bloomfield, who died Nov. 10, 2017, at age 79. Brenda was a proud and mighty warrior, counseling people with cancer. She, herself, was a 36-year survivor of deadly ovarian cancer. Ironically, she succumbed to another vicious form of the disease, pancreat- ic cancer, which was discovered just seven weeks before she died. “My mom faced so many chal- lenges throughout her life but always with class, dignity and grace,” said Shelli. One cannot say, however, that cancer defeated Brenda. Quite the opposite. Brenda was a master’s-level psy- chologist who helped hundreds of cancer patients combat the dreaded disease over the past three-and-a half decades. She counseled people struggling with cancer in her psy- chology practice and was, for 18 years, the longest-running volunteer facilitator at Gilda’s Club in Royal Oak. Last year, she was honored for her work by Gilda’s Club and also at a gala fundraising dinner of the Belinda Sue Fund for Ovarian Cancer Brenda Beron Awareness and Research. “I did not make this journey alone,” Brenda graciously acknowledged at the time. “Numerous people have supported me along the way. They have been there and available through good times as well as the challenges.” HELPING OTHERS An anti-cancer fighter, Brenda was active with the Cancer Thrivers Network for Jewish Women at Jewish Family Service. She also was a co- founder with social worker Patricia Milner Sachs in N’siah, a synagogue- based spiritual cancer support group. In addition, Brenda co-facilitated with Simona Seiderman the I Can Cope cancer support group. She assisted patients, as well, in her job at the Karmanos Cancer Institute. Brenda’s son, Dr. Phillip Beron, said, “When my mom survived ovar- ian cancer 36 years ago, she found her life’s purpose. There’s a saying: ‘A second chance comes only once.’ “What’s truly impressive is what she did with that opportunity — that second chance,” Phillip said. “I think God knew that she had more work to do, more people to touch. “My mom never forgot that, for some reason, she lived 36 years to help others. She became a champion companion for so many people with cancer, ovarian and otherwise, and for her friends and family. Many knew her through her tireless devo- tion as she counseled us, cried with us and cared about each one of us. “She was relentless for so many of us, and she had room in her heart for all of us,” Phillip said. Rabbi Harold Loss of Temple Israel in West Bloomfield, who spoke at the funeral, said, “In giving to others, Brenda found greater strength. She was meeting with clients up until she was diagnosed with pancreatic can- cer just weeks ago. “She then wrote a letter to the Cancer Thrivers group. In it, she said, ‘Every day is a gift, and I’m trying to make a special day each day. I do not want tears and sad faces; I want a celebration. “‘I’ve had a good life and have no regrets. I have met the most awe- some people and have been blessed in so many ways.’” Brenda Beron is survived by her daughter and son-in-law, Shelli and Scott Lempert; son and daughter- in-law, Dr. Phillip and Tricia Beron; sister and brother-in-law, Carol Kay and Stewart Shear; grandchildren, Averi Beron, Jordyn Lempert ( fiance, Weston Davis) and Mara Lempert; many loving nieces, nephews, other family members and a world of dear friends. Brenda was the devoted daughter of the late Joseph and the late Vivian Kaufman. Interment was at Machpelah Cemetery. Contributions may be made to Temple Israel, 5725 Walnut Lake Road, West Bloomfield, MI 48323, (248) 661-5700; Gilda’s Club, 3517 Rochester Road, Royal Oak, MI 48073, (248) 577-0800; or to the Belinda Sue Fund, P.O. Box 210159, Auburn Hills, MI 48321, (248) 432-6432. Arrangements were by Dorfman Chapel. • continued on page 60 Feature your business with our new way to advertise, on our website. Three sizes to choose from with affordable pricing options. www.thejewishnews.com 32906 Middlebelt Rd (at 14 Mile) Please see our menu at (248) 855- 0007 www.johnnypomodoros.com Johnny Pomodoro’s is your ONE STOP SHOP for all of your needs! Shiva Trays, Deli Nosh Dairy and Deli Trays, Marty’s Cookie Trays, Johnny’s Signature Fruit & Veggie Trays Delivery Available CALL JOHNNY’S FOR TRADITIONAL AND NON-TRADITIONAL SHIVA TRAYS. DAIRY TRAY MEAT TRAY FRUIT TRAY MEDITERRANEAN TRAY jn MARTY'S COOKIES November 16 • 2017 59