jews d in the Open During Construction New Merchandise Arriving Daily ACE In The Hole Addressing trauma early can score big points for kids and families. STONE'S A JEWELRY 6881 Orchard Lake Rd. on the Boardwalk (248) 851-5030 stonesfi nejewelry@gmail.com Franklin Cider Mill “A FAMILY TRADITION” NOW OPEN! 248-626-8261 14 Mile Rd. and Franklin Rd. HOURS: Open Daily 7am-6:30pm Weekends 8am-6:30pm Thanksgiving Day 8am-4pm Last Day of Season, Sunday, November 26th 2121840 s therapists at Jewish Family heart disease, sexually transmitted Service, we see brave individ- infections, to name a few). uals walk through our door Plainly spoken, the higher and every day to work to find solutions more prolonged the exposure to to life’s problems. Often, individuals trauma as a child, the higher the are struggling with marital emotional and health risk as issues, anger, parenting an adult. issues, substance use, The ACE doesn’t describe depression and other chal- our destiny, but rather the lenges they’ve spent years trends that tend to impact trying to deal with alone or those of us with a history of trying to forget about. abuse, including increased Approximately 30 per- risk. The promise embedded cent of these individuals within this research is that if Ginger Houghton have been exposed to a we can intervene quickly and Special to the high level of trauma in effectively to support families Jewish News early life through abuse, experiencing abuse/violence, violence or dysfunctional we have a greater chance of family dynamics. In ask- improving their quality of life ing for support, people are often (Centers for Disease Control and reluctant to talk about the painful Prevention, 2012). experiences of hitting or yelling or October is Domestic Violence chaos that punctuated their days Awareness Month and a key time and nights as kids. While not all to reflect on the role of domestic issues are connected to early trau- violence in our community. Here are matic experiences, for any of us with a few things you can do to help our a high level of exposure to trauma, community support those currently these experiences are inextricably in a domestic violence situation as linked. well as survivors: Research over the past two • Wear a purple ribbon this month decades overwhelmingly shows to help raise awareness. how interconnected this experience • Support those in your life in is to the problems we see in our seeking help through therapy at daily lives as adults. The Adverse Jewish Family Service, HAVEN or Childhood Experience (ACE) Study, a private practice. Know that you the largest study of trauma in the don’t need to fix the problem your- United States, illuminates the link self; an empathetic listener can play between trauma endured during a key role in helping others move childhood and adult well-being toward safety. (Centers for Disease Control and • If you’re a service provider to Prevention, 2012). young children and/or families, The ACE study linked exposure to implement the Adverse Childhood physical/emotional/sexual abuse, Experiences tools as a part of regu- neglect, domestic violence, single- lar screenings in your office to help parent homes and parental mental identify and respond to domestic illness or substance use with long- violence early in a child’s life. term emotional (suicidality, sub- • If you’re an educator, invest time stance use, depression) and health in learning the signs of abuse in risks (COPD, obesity, liver disease, young children and teenagers. • If you’re a parent struggling with your own history, seek support for If you or a loved one is yourself and your family. • struggling, JFS can help. Contact them at (248) 592-2313 or Ginger Houghton is the director of Behavioral resourcecenter@jfsdetroit.org. Health Services at Jewish Family Service. 20 October 26 • 2017 jn