T H E S PE L L BI N DI N G S E Q U E L T O THE PHANTOM OF THE OPER A jews d in the Forest Kats Discover Nature A N DR E W L L OY D W EBBER’ S The Ph a ntom R etur ns Fisher The atr e • Oct. 17–29 WLFNHWPDVWHUFRP ER[RIÀFH Info: BroadwayInDetroit.com, 313-872-1000. Groups (12+): Groups@BroadwayInDetroit.com or 313-871-1132. 8PM Oct. 20. L ’Shanah Tovah! Join a Selichot program and services at Temple Beth El in Bloomfield Township at 7 p.m. Saturday, Sept. 16, for a special program with Laura Rose-Lewis, an expert coach in Thriving Through Transition. She and Rabbi Mark Miller will help you prepare to achieve your Working hard for you! Sponsor of Holocaust Education Bill Sponsored legislation, now Public Act 170 of 2016, that mandates education of genocide, including the Holocaust and Armenian genocide, to Michigan high school students! Let’s make sure Never Again means Never Again! Please call my office toll free at (855) KESTO-39 with any questions or email me at klint@klintkesto.com September 14 • 2017 jn The fall dates are Sept. 18 (Marshbank Park), Sept. 25 (West Bloomfield Woods Nature Preserve), Oct. 2 (Heritage Park) and Oct. 9 (Marshbank Park). For details, contact Cspektor@ tkolami.org or call Temple Kol Ami (248) 661-0040. • Beth El Selichot Program Wishing you and your family a year of Happiness, Good Health and Peace! 48 Forest Kats (Kol Ami Tots) is an innovative new program to bring together Judaism and the wonders of nature for young children and their caregivers. During the hour- long, easy-level, stroller-friendly hikes through trails in and around West Bloomfield, kids will explore nature with Mr. Ben “The Nature Man,” who will share his passion and knowledge of nature to the group. Rabbi Brent Gutmann of Temple Kol Ami will share songs and stories on the trail. Children (birth-age 5) and their caregiver will have the chance to disconnect from the outside world and to truly connect to nature, the group and to Judaism. Newborn babies, tots and young children can all benefit from the outdoors, and these uplifting walks will create a sense of awe in the wonder of nature and the beauty of our tradition for all who attend. The free program will meet in the fall and spring. All hikes begin at 10:30 a.m. Dress for the weather. Dear Debra highest goals. The program is open to all. A des- sert reception follows at 9 p.m., with a Selichot service at 9:30 p.m. For details, contact Danielle at dgordon@tbeonline.org or call (248) 851-1100. • continued from page 46 might have felt guilty for imposing. Nowhere do we read of Abraham’s expectations for a return invitation. This should tell us where we ought to focus when it comes to entertaining. Entertaining doesn’t come easily to everyone. Many are downright phobic about having people over for a meal. Perhaps this is your cousin’s plight or perhaps she feels her home isn’t spacious enough or “fancy enough” to welcome guests. Maybe she’s a really terrible cook or her bud- get is too limited to reciprocate in equal measure to your invitations. It’s a good bet she knows that she hasn’t reciprocated and she might even be uncomfortable about this, especially because she also depends on your husband for transportation to and fro. That she brings a hostess gift followed by a prompt thank you evidences her manners are strong even if her reciprocating muscle is not. My Aunt Joycie, of blessed memory, was a terrific entertainer. Her tables were eclectically set, her meals were delicious, her New York City apartment was one of those comfy wonders filled with finds from auction houses and the occasional curb on trash day. But best of all was the way she greeted every one of her guests — a colorful flowered apron tied around her ample waist and bosom, a huge smile on her face and a voice that boomed her gratitude for our presence. She bid us farewell in the same way, brushing aside our thanks with a fervent, “No, sweetheart. I thank you.” I never left feeling I had put her out or that she wanted anything in return from me but that I come again. This is also what we learn from Abraham — to be grateful for our visitors — that they chose our tent in which to rest their feet and have a bite to eat. •