jews d in the Culinary Art Therapy Tradition! Dubovs return home to open a center in Bloomfi eld Hills . RONELLE GRIER CONTRIBUTING WRITER Cooking can act as a form of healing. BARBARA LEWIS CONTRIBUTING WRITER F Ohana said. “When a person can relax or some, cooking is a creative outlet. For others, it’s an unbear- and engage in something creative, fun able chore. For Julie Ohana, it’s a and inspiring, they feel freer, more vul- nerable, honest and ready to connect.” therapeutic tool. As a therapist, she helps Ohana, of West Bloomfield, ABOVE: Julie became interested in “culinary Ohana and her clients gain insight into their daughter Shai behavior, learn or improve art therapy” while studying spend time social skills, increase self-esteem for a master’s degree in social work at the Wurzweiler School together in the and manage stress, all while kitchen. they put together a dish or a of Social Work at Yeshiva meal. University. In 2004, she did She’ll accompany clients to the gro- her master’s thesis on the topic. Since cery store if needed or show up with then, she’s incorporated some aspect all the supplies needed for the session. of it into almost every job she’s held. For a team-building event for social Now, in addition to her full-time job workers, addiction care workers and as director of student recruitment at other professionals, Ohana created Frankel Jewish Academy, Ohana has a menu, prepared and measured all started a private culinary art therapy practice. She does individual and fam- the ingredients, then had each team create one of the dishes by putting the ily therapy as well as group work for ingredients together. Some partici- companies and organizations. She’ll meet with clients at their home, office pants were experienced cooks; others had never set foot in a kitchen. or at her office on Walnut Lake near For some, helping to create a dish Inkster, where there’s a kitchen. was a new experience. Others got to Ohana, 38, grew up in the Detroit try foods they’d never eaten before. area, graduating from Hillel Day “The critical part was being able to School and Birmingham Groves High enjoy creating and eating together,” School. Ohana said. She always loved to cook. At one Those who attended gave it an point, she thought she’d like to do it excellent evaluation, said Stephanie professionally, but several summers Appel of Core Learning Inc., which as kitchen manager at Camp Young sponsored the program. She and Judaea in Wisconsin cured her of that Ohana previously worked together at ambition. JFS. Ohana has long felt a strong con- Participants talked about what they nection to Israel. After spending learned by working together and how some time there after high school, they could transfer that insight to she discovered the State University of New York’s Empire State College had a their professional lives. Ohana revamped and upgraded her branch in Israel. She stayed there and website, www.culinaryarttherapy.com, completed her undergraduate degree when she opened her office. Soon she without ever setting foot on the col- was getting inquiries from all over the lege’s Saratoga Springs campus. world. Her first one-on-one client is After graduating, she worked for a woman in Greece, with whom she the Hillel at Hebrew University before works via iPhone Facetime. returning to the U.S. for graduate “When you like to cook and you’re school. in need of something therapeutic, it’s She met her Israeli husband, Ofer, a logical connection,” she said. in Detroit. He owns Ohana Family She’s also hearing from other thera- Construction. The Ohanas have two pists eager to incorporate some of her children, Avital, 6, and Shai, 5. ideas into their own practices. While employed as a social worker Ohana is eager to work with fami- at Jewish Family Service (JFS) and lies. Often people are so busy it’s hard later at Frankel Jewish Academy, for family members to come together Ohana incorporated culinary arts for meals. “I strongly believe in the activities into traditional talk therapy. idea of the family meal,” she said. “It’s “Many of us have a difficult time an important part of a happy, healthy opening up to strangers or even our closest family members or colleagues,” family dynamic.” • 18 May 25 • 2017 jn W hile the recently opened Chabad of Bloomfield Hills may be new to the area, its co-directors, Rabbi Levi Dubov and his wife, Mushky, are carrying on a local family tradition going back three generations. Mushky Dubov is the granddaugh- ter of Rabbi Beryl and Batsheva Shemtov, the first Chabad-Lubavitch emissaries to settle in Michigan, and the daughter of Rabbi Levi and Bassie Shemtov, co-directors of West Bloomfield-based Friendship Circle of Michigan. After spending the first year of their marriage in Brooklyn, the young couple moved to Bloomfield Hills to start a new Chabad program aimed toward the growing number of Jews in the historically non-Jewish suburb. In February, they welcomed the arrival of their first child, Mendel. According to Levi Dubov, there has been significant Jewish growth over the past few decades, includ- ing an influx of younger families. He estimates the Jewish population at the highly rated Bloomfield Hills High School is now close to 30 percent. “It’s a very ripe area [ for Chabad], and we’ve had an amazing recep- tion from the community so far,” said Dubov, son of Rabbi Dovid and Malky Dubov, co-directors of the thriving Chabad of Mercer County in Princeton, N.J. “I’m on a mission to meet every single Jew in Bloomfield Hills.” So far, the young couple have host- ed holiday events, Shabbat dinners, children’s programs and weekly Torah study classes. They also help sponsor the Jewish Club, a student organiza- tion of Bloomfield Hills High School, where about 25 students attend pro- grams on a biweekly basis. Future plans include additional adult education classes in Kabbalah, Talmud and Parshah, special classes for women, increased children’s pro- gramming and more holiday events. “What we want now in the commu- nity is to have a relationship with the Jewish families in Bloomfield Hills,” Levi Dubov said. “We hope to add to Jewish engagement, Jewish activity, Jewish life on a personal and family Rabbi Levi and Mushky Dubov with their infant son, Mendel level — it’s not just about going to the synagogue — we want a personal con- nection.” While both husband and wife attended the Lubavitch Cheder and Yeshiva in Oak Park as children and teens, Dubov says he still feels like “the new guy in town.” “Everybody I meet grew up here … it’s really a nice community,” he said. “I find opportunities for mitzvahs — putting up mezuzahs in homes and offices, lighting candles, putting on tefillin — opportunities to be active Jews with no judgment.” Mushky Dubov is thrilled to be back in her home state, close to her par- ents and the Chabad extended family she grew up with. She enjoys hosting members of her new community at home. “We love the open door,” she said. “We want people to feel like our home is a home for everyone.” While the new Chabad center is starting small, the Dubovs have big dreams, fueled by the accomplish- ments both experienced growing up in strong Lubavitch families. “It was a very natural decision that our lives should be a legacy of serving others,” said Levi Dubov, who hopes to expand the Bloomfield Hills pro- gram to include its own building. “The building is a dream now, but we hope it will come to fruition soon.” For more information, email Rabbi@bloomfieldhillschabad.org, call (248) 949-6210 or visit Chabad Jewish Center of Bloomfield Hills on Facebook. •