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Opens Friday, May 5: The Lovers stars
Debra Winger (the daughter of a
kosher frozen-foods distributor), 61, and
Tracy Letts as a long-married couple
who are both in the midst of open, seri-
ous affairs and are increasingly com-
mitted to their new partners. But, just
as they are on the brink of ending their
marriage, a spark between them unex-
pectedly reignites their long dormant
romantic coupling. Is this a new start
for their marriage or a coda on it? How
will they manage “cheating” on their
new partners?
Lovers was written and directed
by Azazel Jacobs, 44. I’ve long fol-
lowed his career because I took two
college courses taught by his father,
acclaimed “non-narrative” filmmaker
Ken Jacobs, 83. Azazel has been
making feature films since 2003 that
haven’t played in many movie theaters
(including the critical hit Terri in 2011).
However, very good reviews for Lovers
at the last Toronto Film Festival led
a company to finance a big national
opening for this film.
Variety says it’s a “comedy of barbed
humanity” and that Jacobs is: “A film-
maker with a gift for showing people at
their most nakedly desperate and spiri-
tually disheveled and getting you to see
yourself in them.” Variety also said that
Jacobs wrote a great part for Winger
and she made the most of it: “Winger
has never toned herself down the way
she does here, yet her radiance shines
through; it’s become the expression of
an ordinary woman’s fuddy-duddy des-
peration and maybe her last true lunge
at life.”
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I’ve rarely been as moved as I was
watching Facebook CEO Sheryl
Sandberg, 47, discuss the death of
her husband, tech entrepreneur Dave
Goldberg, on CBS Sunday Morning
(aired April 23; available on CBS News
website). Goldberg, 48, died in 2015 of
a sudden cardiac arrhythmia.
Sandberg told CBS journalist Nora
Dunn: “Dave was my rock. Dave was
my best friend before we dated and
then got married [2004] and then had
two amazing children. He was the one
who always told me everything would
be OK. And then it wasn’t OK.”
Sandberg is famous for her 2013
advice book for women in business,
Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to
Lead. She told Dunn that Dave’s death
“sucked” and then related advice
her rabbi gave her. The rabbi said,
Winger
Jacobs
Sandberg
“Lean into the suck.” Sandberg then
told Dunn: “It was really good advice
because he was telling me this [Dave’s
death and the aftermath] was going to
suck so don’t fight it.”
Sandberg then detailed some cop-
ing strategies she and her children
employed and how that led to her
new book, Option B: Facing Adversity,
Building Resilience and Finding Joy. The
term “option B” was coined by Adam
Grant, 35, a psychologist and the co-
author of Sandberg’s new book. When
Sandberg complained about a father/
daughter event that Dave wasn’t alive
to attend — Grant told her they would
find an “option B” and work the sh-t
out of it.”
Grant, who grew up in Metro Detroit
and got his Ph.D. at the University of
Michigan, was the youngest person to
become a tenured faculty member at
the famous Wharton School of Finance.
He always tops the Wharton faculty
ratings. •