health Building Resilience Kadima to bring parenting expert Dr. Deborah Gilboa for youth mental health conference. JENNIFER LOVY CONTRIBUTING WRITER P Dr. Deborah Gilboa “Our job as parents is to keep our kids working at the leading edge of their abilities in terms of things like problem-solving and speaking up for themselves.” — Dr. Deborah Gilboa arents of children facing mental health struggles wonder how much leeway to give their children and how to best support each child. It’s a tough question, but Dr. Deborah Gilboa, a parenting expert, speaker and author of several books including Get the Behavior You Want, Without Being the Parent You Hate!, has an answer — by building resilience. Gilboa, a family physician in Pittsburgh, will be the keynote speaker at a May 21 Youth Mental Health Conference and Resource Expo for parents and professionals. She plans to devote her entire presentation to the topic of resilience. And, her bottom line message is that although it can be hard with a child who is struggling, one of the best ways to help is by building that child’s or teen’s resilience. While empathy matters, feelings of guilt, she said, don’t help your child. “How do you build resil- ience? By having empathy and high expectations,” said a multitasking Gilboa, who gave a phone interview while returning home from grocery shopping for Passover. “That means figuring out what your child has mastered and deciding what they are ready to try next. Our job as parents is to keep our kids working at the leading edge of their abilities in terms of things like problem-solving and speaking up for them- selves,” said Gilboa, a mother of four boys. Gilboa offered a poignant analogy: If a child’s first-grade teacher tells her parents how well she is doing with advance math problems, the parents will want to know what skills the teacher plans to work on next. If the teacher says “‘Nothing. She’s good where she is for now,’ that response isn’t going to go over very well with the parents. The same is true with our kids’ mental health.” The conference, sponsored by Kadima, will be held at the Birmingham Covington School in Bloomfield Township. It is geared toward parents and professionals with breakout sessions to address youth mental health- related topics affecting new- borns to college-aged young adults. Session topics will include understanding the impor- tance of attachment in the early years, identifying anxiety in young children, building positive self-image, bully- proofing through empower- ment, the impact of ADHD on siblings, gender identification, an introduction to some of the mental health diagnoses that arise during the teenage years and addiction. In addition to the keynote, Gilboa will also lead a break- out session for parents on how to talk about mental health concerns with their children and an afternoon session for professionals on how to effectively partner with parents. “Mental illness is so far behind all other illnesses and disabilities in this country in terms of the continued nega- tive associations and fear,” said event chair Suzanne Zwiren. “Far too many people struggle silently with a mental health challenge, or watch their child struggle without getting the help they need or, unfortunately, wait until a cri- sis occurs. “The purpose of the con- ference is to continue to expand the communication and education for and, more importantly, between parents and professionals regarding the mental health of our chil- dren.” Tickets for the conference and expo are $25 for the morning parent and commu- nity session. The afternoon session, with continuing education for social work- ers and educators, is $45. To register, visit kadimacenter. org/hbhm2017 or call (248) 663-4330. • Henry Ford Seeks Participants For Cardiology Study H enry Ford Health System is recruiting people with diabetes who have had a heart attack to participate in a National Institutes of Health (NIH)-sponsored study looking at the benefits of removing toxic metals from the bloodstream. The study follows another analysis that found a 41 percent reduction in recurrent heart events by chelation in patients with diabetes who already had sustained a heart attack. Chelation is a process by which a medication can “grab” and remove toxic metal pollutants like lead or cadmium, which are present in the bloodstream of 68 April 27 • 2017 jn most people. Cadmium is a metal com- monly found in industrial workplaces, including in some industrial paints and battery manufacturing processes. Lead, a soft, heavy metal, is most often ingested through chips and dust from old paint. Both are toxic to humans. Although the chelation process was developed in the 1950s at Wayne State University for lead poisoning treatment, it is not a treatment for people exposed to high lead levels in their drinking water. “We’re glad to help definitively answer the questions about the effects of che- lation on those with established heart disease and diabetes,” says the new study’s principal investigator, Jonathan Ehrman, Ph.D., Henry Ford Health System Associate Director of Preventive Cardiology. “The first study had such promising results; we’re grateful to be able to continue that research on behalf of patients.” Henry Ford Health System is currently recruiting patients for participation in the study, particularly African American patients, who are often under-repre- sented in national studies, Ehrman says. Candidates must be 50 years of age or older, have diabetes and experienced a prior heart attack. Enrollees will receive $15 per visit to cover travel expenses. The study is being conducted at Henry Ford’s Center for Athletic Medicine in Midtown, Detroit; Henry Ford Medical Center-Livonia and Henry Ford West Bloomfield Hospital. “If TACT2 is positive, it will forever change the way we treat heart attack patients and view toxic metals in the environment,” said Gervasio Lamas, M.D., study chairman. Patients interested in participating can contact the study team through www.tact2.org, by calling (313) 972-4120 or by emailing Heather Golden at hgolden1@hfhs.org. •