>> torah portion LOOKING FOR THE PERFECT GIFT? Available at the box office. For showtime & tickets, please visit themapletheater.com! HOST YOUR NEXT EVENT AT THE MAPLE! Esau sells his Are you planning a social or corporate event? The Maple Theater and Kitchen is the perfect place for a unique experience. Full catering services plus wonderful ambience. Everything is possible! Contact ruth@themapletheater.com or call 248-855-9091 birthright to Jacob for a bowl of soup. Commitment Through Identity W Come taste what everyone is talking about! Open for lunch and dinner daily. hat is Jewish continuity? Parshat Vayishlach: How might it be attained? Jewish organizations 32:4-36:43; have spent many years and millions of dollars in search of answers to these 1:1-1:21. questions. And with good reason: How can we expect Jewish identity to exist in three generations without Jewish conti- (Jewish) identity. nuity now? When it comes to commit- I believe that an answer can ment to Jewish continuity, the be gleaned through an exami- willingness to secure a Jewish nation of the lives of Jacob and future, many of our Jewish sib- Esau. lings are, like Esau, sadly found Jacob returns to his ancestral to be wanting. Esau's name home after an absence of 20 means fully made, complete. He years, understandably terrified exists in the present tense. He of his brother's potential reac- has no commitment to past or tion. Informed of the impend- Rabbi Shlomo future. He is emotional about ing approach of Esau's army Riskin his identity, but he is not will- of 400 men, he divides his ing to make sacrifices for its household into two camps to be continuity. prepared for the worst. What was true for a bowl of soup was But what actually happens defies true for his choice of wives as he marries Jacob's expectations: Esau is overjoyed Hittite women, causing his parents to and thrilled to see him. The past is the feel a "bitterness of spirit" The decision past: "And Esau ran to meet [Yaakov], of many modem Jews to "marry out" and embraced him, and fell on his neck, has, according to the 2013 Pew Research and kissed him, and they wept" Center report, reached an American The two sons of Isaac reunite in average of 58 percent. The report shows an embrace of peace, love and hope. those who marry out and continue to The future of Jewish history was set to profess a strong Jewish identity are not take a radical step in a new direction. able to commit to Jewish continuity." Nevertheless, Jacob prefers a cool recon- On the other hand, Jacob's name, ciliation, delicately refusing Esau's offer Yaakov, is a future-tense verb. He is con- to travel together. Jacob's reticence to stantly planning for the future, anticipat- requite Esau's warmth is striking. Why ing what he must do to perpetuate the refuse his twin brother's gracious offer? birthright. Jacob's decision has important implica- Similarly, if we are to attain Jewish tions for our generation. Positive characteristics of Esau may be continuity, we must internalize two cru- cial lessons from the example of Jacob found in Jews across the diaspora: asser- and Esau: 1) never sell one's birthright tive, self-made people who weep when for any price; and 2) guarantee a Jewish they meet a long-lost Jewish brother future by planning strategically with an from Ethiopia or Russia; respect for eye toward the long-term, sacrificing their parents and grandparents, tending short-term gains in order to demonstrate to physical needs and even reciting the a commitment to continuing the legacy mourner's Kaddish. Financial support and lifestyle of Abraham and Sarah. * and solidarity missions to the State of Israel, combined with their vocal com- Shlomo Riskin is chancellor of Ohr Torah Stone mitment to Jewry and Israel, reflect a and chief rabbi of Efrat, highly developed sense of Abrahamic Genesis Obadiah For Carry-out please call 248-325-9139 • themapletheater.com GREAT LAKES COFFEE ROASTING COMPANY' 4135 W. Maple Road • Bloomfield Hills LNAvLf IAOR °Mg LNA RIVIERA For the BEST LUXURY movie experience... check out THE RIVIERA. (This sea t 15 waiting FILMS COMING SOON LA LA LAND For showtimes and to purchase tickets, please visit therivieracinema.com 30170 Grand River Avenue, Farmington Hills (off of 9 mile, just West of Middlebelt) have a nu* PVPCVVN on tie Valid at The Maple & The Riviera Expires 12/31/16 I. *Small bag of popcorn December 15. 2016 35