moments | nice jewish boy Matchmaker, Matchmaker Rabbi Dan Horwitz | Special to the Jewish News NJB (Nice Jewish Boy) Meet Jordan Weiss Note: The Well, an inclusive Jewish community-building, education and spirituality outreach initiative, features an interview with a single “nice Jewish boy” or “nice Jewish girl” each month. The Well has agreed to share its Q & As with these amazing singles with the JN. Read more at meetyouatthewell.org. 58 November 3 • 2016 Q : How did you decide to make your adult life in Metro Detroit? Jordan Weiss: Honestly, it was a decision I fell into. I took the bar in Michigan (I’m indeed guilty of being a lawyer!) and started to build my own prac- tice here. My immediate family is still here and this is home — nowhere else feels right! Q: You spend your days lawyering. Can you handle the truth? What’s your favorite lawyer book/movie? JW: I tend to avoid legal movies, otherwise I just start screaming at the screen that things don’t work like that. But I don’t think anyone from my generation can pass on My Cousin Vinny. Q: Rumor has it you are an avid cycler. How’d you get in to the sport? What’s the best cycling event/race you’ve taken part in and why? JW: In this case, the rumors are true. When I was little, my dad would ride into Birmingham with me on the child’s seat on the bike. I’ve always had a bike but decided it was time to get serious about it again a few years ago so I could join my uncle on his weekend rides in the summer. I’ve joined Team Alex to raise funds for Make A Wish, and in summer, I completed my first WAM 300, a three-day, 300- mile ride starting Up North and ending at the Michigan International Speedway. This was definitely my greatest undertaking yet on my bike. Q: Bowling? Do you roll on Shabbos? JW: Never! I bowl in a B’nai B’rith Men’s League (which is a thing that still exists!). I have a great team, and it is a nice break from everything else to get out there for a few games every Tuesday night. There are some great people in the league, and it is a lot more diverse in age than you might expect. Q: How do you like to give back to the community? JW: Being part of the Jewish community is important to me. I’m active with many organiza- tions and my synagogue, and I try and use my free time to work with others — to grow the community and to grow inter- faith relations within Detroit. I’m always interested in hearing what other people are looking for, so if someone feels they can’t find a place, they should tell me about it; I’d like to help. Q: You’ve been a leader with NEXTGen Detroit for years. How did you get involved there and what has been the most rewarding part of your efforts? JW: I was told by a friend that he had a program for me to do. I had been home for a year or so and hadn’t found a place after being in East Lansing for seven years. That was the push I needed, and it’s helped me find ways to be part of a community and give back. The most rewarding part of leading is showing people the parts of the community that are out there and being able to show people from around the country and world that, yes, Detroit still has this young, vibrant Jewish community, and it is a place worth being. Q: Where would you most like to travel that you haven’t visited? JW: I’d like to explore Europe. I was on an amazing program in Berlin last year but didn’t have the opportunity to spend time in any other cities. I’d like to get back, maybe take an oppor- tunity to cycle through some of the amazing areas in the Netherlands or France. Q: What’s your favorite Jewish holiday and why? JW: I find a lot of opportunity in Yom Kippur. While most people don’t like it because of the fast, I appreciate the oppor- tunity to focus on nothing but truly forgiving others, repairing my mental state and prepar- ing for the year to come with a fresh slate. Q: If you could add an 11th commandment what would it be? JW: Think before you speak. Q: Who is the coolest Jew? JW: Mel Brooks, obviously. Q: How about a fun fact? JW: I love to read, almost exclusively fiction. Q: Finish the sentence: When I go to The Well… JW: I get to learn new things and meet new people. * Rabbi Dan Horwitz is founding director of The Well. Want to meet Jordan? Email him at dan@meetyouatthewell.org.