metro » Keeping The Ties Detroiters travel to David-Horodok in Belarus to honor slain family members. Suzanne Chessler | Contributing Writer David and Pauline Salama | Photography Above: David Salama lit candles at the memorial at the mass gravesite in memory of his grandmother’s parents and brother. Right: David Salama had his grandmother in Detroit hold a few rocks, which he then labeled with her family's name and left at the David-Horodok memorial. A group pose at the David-Horodok sign O n the third Sunday in August, in keeping with tradition, the Belarus town of David- Horodok has a fair with lots of music. The townspeople dress up for the cel- ebration. This past August, some 50 people from America and Israel watched the festivi- ties before going ahead with a somber ceremony. They were in the area to remember Jewish people rounded up and killed 75 years ago to the day by Nazis and collaborators. The mass grave is just outside the town, away from the fair. The travelers were members of the David-Horodoker Organization, descen- dants of a few survivors and people who left long before the Nazis arrived. They wanted to experience surroundings known by their relatives while expressing respect for those lost. David Salama and his wife, Pauline, of Huntington Woods were among the trav- elers. He grew up hearing about the town from his grandmother, Beatrice Gaduzk Sonders, 91, a resident of Hechtman Apartments in West Bloomfield and one of a limited number of her Jewish towns- people who escaped the killings during World War II. Salama and his grandmother talked about their experiences — recent and long ago — during a David- Horodok memorial service Sept. 25 at the Holocaust Memorial Center in Farmington Hills, where there is a wall dedicated to David-Horodok as repre- senting what existed in Jewish shtetls before World War II. “It’s hard to describe the contrast of a town celebrating while, off to the side, descendants of its Jewish population prepared to walk the 7 kilometers to the mass grave, where so much of the town’s heart and soul is now entombed,” Salama says. “At the same time, it remains hearten- ing to think of meeting the town’s history teacher, who clearly demonstrated his respect and insistence in making sure that his students have a firm understand- ing of what occurred 75 years ago. They ensure that the memorial site at the mass grave isn’t vandalized and look after the grounds.” Salama and his wife felt they were visiting a place stuck in time and believe that progress halted when the Jewish population was vanquished. “While it was emotional to stand where my grandmother’s family was gunned down, there was also a sense of victory to be present at such a dark place continued on page 30 28 September 29 • 2016