metro » The Family’s Reflection On Marjorie Fisher’s Grace And Gratitude M Courtesy the Max M. and Marjorie S. Fisher Foundation other, grandmother work were donors and doers. And all and great-grandmother, deserved the gratitude for allowing Marjorie loved us and loved others into their hearts. her “work.” She didn’t Those families who think of it as work. face the daily chal- One might have lenges of survival, called it philanthro- those who dedicate py. But for her, it was their lives and careers a way of life — filled to reducing those with joy and focused challenges, those who on justice. give their time or A daily effort she bring ideas and expe- treated as a near rience to the effort, full-time calling … those who change laws vigorous, connected, to make them more graceful and grateful. just and those who “Ask what they give resources to fuel need — and then the work. Marjorie and Max Fisher listen closely,” she Marjorie would would say. want us to thank you. She deeply honored Thank you for all the role and perspec- you have done and will tive of people inside the issues she do to make this place — however we hoped to face. She taught us all the define this place — a better place. importance of working with people, She would want us to thank you not on them. for allowing her into your lives, your One afternoon, while reading hearts. through thank-you notes she received And, although we don’t think we for gifts she had made, she paused. can speak for all of you — we’re going The note could have been from a to try. When she said she could never young person whose summer job she give enough — today, we say on your supported in Detroit or whose col- behalf, “She gave enough! She gave lege tuition she was covering in Palm enough of herself and her heart.” Beach County. A child who received We, her family and loved ones, dental care from the mobile unit she would say she was always more than founded in West Palm Beach or an enough! artist she admired and supported. An ‘RESPECT AND COMPASSION’ HIV/AIDS researcher she helped or So, what would she want us to do? the Federation she cared for. One of She once said, “Every day, I want the early childhood educators from the you to wake up and go to the mirror Brightmoor neighborhood in Detroit and say ‘I love you, and I am proud of or someone from the food bank. you’ … now, what are you proud of? A note like the one Rev. Larry Go out there and do something you Simmons, executive director of the can be proud of — every day.” Brightmoor Alliance, sent to the com- She would want us to love each munity just after her death saying, “As other, treat each other with respect Brightmoor continues to soar upward, and compassion. She would want us we rise upon the gentle breath of Mrs. to fill up our hearts and get out there Marjorie Fisher, who always had our backs and never tried to seize the lead.” and do something we can all be proud of — serve, listen, advocate, teach, It could have been the note you mentor, give. wrote. Let’s continue to do the work she As she put the note down, she said, loved so much — and that so many in “I will never be able to give enough our community dedicate their lives to to make up for how grateful I am for each and every day — so we can all these families who have allowed me be proud of each other and our com- into their lives.” munity. ‘TRUE MEANING OF GIVING’ Love, Marjorie taught us the true meaning The Fisher Family of giving. She felt all involved in this COLL CO LLEG G E FO FOR R C R E A TI TIV V E S T U DIE VE D I ES HONO HO NORS S THE HE M E M O R Y OF M AR ARJO JORI RIE E S. S . F IS ISHER AND AN D T H A N K S T H E M AX M . AN N D MA A RJ RJOR OR R IE S . F ISHER FOUNDATION FOR FO R IT ITS S P A R T NE N E RSHI NERS HIP P ON O N B R I G H TMOOR T M ARTS INITIATIVES 000000 THE PERLMAN MUSIC PROGRAM Toby and Itzhak Perlman and the students, faculty and staff of The Perlman Music Program celebrate the memory of Marjorie S. Fisher. Her kindness and generosity was life-changing for so many and she was committed to a bright future for classical music. 2108060 30 June 23 • 2016