I n January, a committee from Adat Shalom Sisterhood discussed possible speakers for the group s annual Donor Day. Some names that came up included actresses and fashion designers. One of our committee members made the comment that with so much negativity in the world, instead of pick- ing a speaker based on notoriety, we should find someone who promotes kindness, recalls Sue Lutz, co-chair of the May 10 event with Jennifer Freedland and Danielle Ruskin. The group decided on Laura Schroff, author of New York Times bestseller An Invisible Thread, the true story of Schroff s unexpected meeting and sub- sequent friendship with Maurice, an 11-year-old panhandler on the streets of New York. The committee decided on Schroff because of her passion for encouraging others to perform even small acts of kindness. Schroff s book is all about how a single action not only changed the life of a young boy, but also altered her future. The title, Schroff said in a phone inter- view, is based on a Chinese proverb that an invisible thread connects those who are destined to meet. At the time [we met], I needed more in my life and so did he, she said. I was so lucky to have met Maurice. He gave me someone to love. He turned out to be the son I always wanted, all because I just stopped for a moment. Initially, Schroff walked right past Maurice, barely registering his plea for money to buy food. But, something made her to stop. Schroff, a successful advertising executive at the time, wrote that she doesn t know why she turned around and offered to take this boy to lunch. It was a Monday; the first of 150 Mondays the two would eat together. With each meeting, their unexpected friendship continued to flourish. Twenty years later, Maurice a husband, father to seven and business owner gave a toast at Schroff s 50th birthday. He thanked her for that single act of kindness that changed the course of his life. Schroff said she is especially excited to speak at Adat Shalom because the Jewish community embraces her mes- sage because so many of her beliefs parallel core Jewish values. At Adat Shalom, she will talk about how even the seemingly smallest act of kindness can make a world of difference and how we all have the ability to throw a lifeline to someone in need. That s what happened with Farmington Hills resident Larry Oleinick. Several years ago, he had a day off from work and decided to spend it distributing snacks to homeless people in Detroit s Hart Plaza. This one-day visit spurred Oleinick to start Heart2Hart, a nonprofit organiza- tion where volunteers regularly bring food, clothing and hygiene products to those in need. Oleinick, who grew up volunteering, said Going to Hart Plaza is a different setting than doing something like vol- unteering at a soup kitchen. You are able to have real conversations with people. I saw the despair and thought why not help people on a regular basis. From these visits, Oleinick says he and his volunteers have a number of Maurice-type stories, including helping a homeless couple get housing and jobs, which helped them reconnect with their son after more than five years. Donor Day attendees will receive a resource guide that includes volunteer opportunities. Sometimes all we have to do is stop and pause, Schroff said. When you open up your eyes and your heart to your surroundings, you have no idea how your life can change. Her next book, An Invisible Thread: Angels on Earth, will be available in November. It is a compilation of invis- ible thread stories others have shared with her since An Invisible Thread was published. * To register for Donor Day, go to adatshalom. org/donor-day-2016 by April 30. Tickets are $54, including lunch. Boutiques will be open from 10 a.m.-3 p.m. Author Laura Schroff and Maurice today; they met when he was 11 and panhandling. 18 April 28 2016 Jennifer Lovy | Special to the Jewish News Invisible Thread Adat Shalom event brings author to celebrate small acts of kindness. metro metro Spring Into Freshness at Joes Youll Discover So different from going to the big supermarkets because Joes is truly a neighborhood market with experts who are obsessed with your satisfaction. Explore Joes Produce Gourmet Market J OE S P R O D U C E Gourmet Market 2087360