"It's important to listen to a person's story and the reasons they want to die so we can give them reasons to live." — Anne Kramer life. This surprised some participants. "The training provides a model where the goal is to explore the topic of suicide, not run away from it," Blumstein said. "It's counterintui- tive, but if they talk, they can think it through and come to a more rational decision:' When Blumstein received the call from the potentially suicidal high schooler, it took about seven minutes for the teen to go downstairs, give his parents the razor blade he had been threatening to use and ask for their help. "Talking about it does not make it happen, but helps them redirect their thinking," said Anne Kramer, ASIST trainer and clinical social worker at the University of Michigan depres- sion center. "It's important to listen to a person's story and the reasons they want to die so we can give them rea- sons to live. Most people will choose to get help. Life will usually prevail if we can help them see other options:' Blumstein's interest in suicide pre- vention began a few years ago when he asked a group of more than 100 local Jewish high school students how many had experienced suicidal thoughts or knew someone else who had attempted or committed suicide. "Almost every hand in the room went up," said Blumstein, director of the Daniel B. Sobel Friendship House, a Friendship Circle of Michigan program that provides support and guidance to individuals and families struggling with addiction, isolation and other life crises. Miles Menuck of Birmingham thought the specific steps and guide- lines, some illustrated by charts and other visual aids, enhanced the value of the workshop. "They broke it down into pieces," said Menuck, 16. "They showed us how to recognize the signs that someone needs help and treat that as an 'invitation. The most important thing I picked up is that the reason someone wants to die can also be the reason they would want to live:' Kramer was impressed by the group members' intuitiveness and willingness to go back into their com- munities and use what they learned to help others who are struggling. "We want to teach people to ask for help and teach other people how to respond," she said. "Most people want to help but don't know how:' ❑ How You Can Help • Recognize an "invitation" from someone who needs help: depression, talk about suicide, behavioral changes. • Build a rapport; encourage the person to share his story and explore his reasons for wanting to commit suicide. • Ask the person directly if he is considering suicide; do not shy away from the word. • Help the person develop a "safe plan" that includes specific steps, such as reaching out to trusted adults in the community: family mem- bers, medical or mental health professionals, school personnel or reli- gious leaders. • Do not "guilt trip" the person about wanting to commit suicide. • Trust your instincts if someone appears to be at risk. • Call for emergency help if someone is in a dangerous situation. • National Suicide Prevention 24-hour Lifeline:1-800-273-TALK (8255) Source: ASIST (Applied Suicide Intervention Skills Training) St. Joe's Lung Cancer Program Offers the Latest Diagnostics, Treatment By Jack Weiner, resident and CEO St. Joseph Merc Oaklan Lung cancer is the most common cause of cancer death in men and women combined, but recent treatment breakthroughs provide ways to earlier diagnose and better treat the disease. St. Joseph Mercy Oakland's Lung Cancer Program offers the latest in diagnostics, treatment and clinical trials. Here's why you should seek out St. Joe's for lung cancer diagnosis and treatment. We offer: • A quicker path to diagnosis and treatment with twice monthly multidisciplinary Lung Tumor Board meetings attended by a team that includes nationally recognized experts in Radiation Oncology and Thoracic Surgery, along with specialists in Pulmonary Medicine, Medical Oncology, Pathology, Radiology and others. Working together, the team develops a personalized cancer treatment plan for each patient designed to deliver the best outcomes. • A lung cancer nurse navigator who facilitates care for each patient. 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This means patients can receive cutting-edge treatment while remaining right in our community. • Access to educational information in our Cancer Resource and Support Center, within the Alice Gustafson Center on the hospital campus. • A Cancer Center that offers an environment of patient comfort and dignity in both the physician office and the infusion center. For more information on St. Joe's Lung Cancer Program, call Patti Moore, Lung Nurse Navigator, at 248-858-3471. When you're looking for the latest, comprehensive and compassionate lung cancer care, come to St. Joseph Mercy Oakland, where our clinical outcomes speak for themselves. DiscoverRemarkable ADVERTISMENT 1853870 63