Om ARCADIA spirituality >> Torah portion Home Care & Staffing -- Home Care at the Highest Standard • s And Them $1. " • A full service agency providing quality care for your loved ones. • Live-In or Hourly • No minimum hours • Complimentary Assessment • Ongoing Care Coordination • All employees are bonded & insured • 7 /. -111111(0=1 :*• ■ • ••• • . • Caregivers Assist With: Parshat Matot-Masei: Numbers 30:2-36:13; Jeremiah 2:4-28; 3:4. J ust a few weeks ago, we read a fascinating Torah portion called Balak, in which a great prophet praises Israel with the stirring words of Mah Tovu: "How beautiful are your tents, 0 Jacob ..." (Numbers 24:5) And so it might be dishearten- ing to read in this week's double Torah portion (Matot-Masei) how that same prophet, Balaam, was "put to the sword" as our people took vengeance on Midian (Numbers 31:8). In the space of a few short chapters, Balaam goes from doing God's will to being destroyed by God's people. But this is only the begin- ning as our tradition clearly had a difficult time with the character of Balaam. There is a conversation going on within our sacred texts, and the details can illuminate the minds of our ancient sages. For example, the Midrash insists that Balaam was a revered prophet (Numbers Rabbah 20) and one of only a very few people born unblemished (Avot d'Rabbi Nathan). On the other hand, his followers are distinguished by three morally corrupt qualities: an evil eye, a haughty bear- ing and an avaricious spirit (Talmud Sanhedrin 105a). Further, the rabbis assert that when he was killed, Balaam was subjected to all four legal means of execution — stoning, burning, decapi- tating and strangling — and that he had no place in the world-to-come (Talmud Sanhedrin 106b). Quite the fate! These writings reflect a deep ambivalence. It seems to me that our ancestors were not sure how to treat someone who is at once powerful and not one of us. It is a tribal mentality: How can this great prophet, serving as a mouthpiece for God, not be Jewish? We no longer live in an "us vs. them" society, and one of the great struggles in the Jewish world today is the com- peting notions of universalism vs. par- ticularism. In other words, should our focus as Jews be inward or outward? Do we support the Jewish community first or help those around us? Do we care more about our own fortunes than those of others? We have asked questions like these for many centuries, but never before have we been so deeply connected to the broader community. We came to these American shores in search of something better, a Golden Medina that would provide us with freedom and opportunity. And we found it. As a result, we are in a posi- tion to make our own community stronger specifically by strengthening others. When we show up to sup- port those in need, those who are oppressed, those who have suffered tragedy ... we become worthy of Balaam's blessing. And if we want to continue thriv- ing as a Jewish community, I believe the best way to do so is by constantly reminding ourselves that our deepest Jewish values are reflected in the way we respond to the brokenness that still exists in our world. ❑ Mark Miller is a rabbi at Temple Beth El in Bloomfield Township. •Medication Reminders •Safety Monitoring •Transportation Call Lynn Feinberg and Andy Roisman •Bathing & Dressing 'Kosher Prepared Meals 'Companionship (248) 594-4574 visit us online • arcadiahomecare.com MORE THAN 35,000 HOMES AND BUSINESSES SERVICED -likeNU Carpet Cleaning DIL 586-558-7337 PET CLEANING 1-888-61-SERVICE 111,7 " Nor BUSINESS SERVICES --Aminsem SERVING GREATER METRO DETROIT CLEANING SERVICES: • Windows & Screens • Carpets & Rugs • Upholstery & Mattresses • Hard Tile & Grout • Vinyl Tile & Wood Floors • Gutter Cleaning • Overhead Cleaning & Power Washing CLEANS GREASE & ERADICATES DUST MITES & E COLI WE WILL BEAT OUR BEST DEAL I Get Our Best Quote First — then mention Promo Code for an Additional 10% Off OR Free Scotchgard TM BESTDEAL 586-558-7337 • www.likenucleaning.com A+ Rating FAMILY OWNED - OVER 30 YEARS IN BUSINESS JN July 16 • 2015 27