arts & life film Hadas Yaron (left) and Luzer Twersky (right) in Felix and Meira Lonely Hearts Club Felix and Meira Michael Fox Special to the Jewish News looks at love across a Jewish divide. Felix and Meira screens Friday, July 17, through Sunday, July 19, at the Detroit Film Theatre in the Detroit Institute of Arts. (313) 833-4005; tickets.dia.org . ordlessly picking at her Shabbat dinner, the young Chasidic wife clearly wants to be somewhere else. It's a powerful image, because Judaism's all-encompassing combi- nation of family, community and ritual is typically a comfort and strength. But what if her life is a prison rather than a haven, and an obstacle to fulfillment rather than a conduit? That's the crux of French- Canadian director Maxime Giroux's slow-burning and deeply empathetic drama, Felix and Meira, which screens at the Detroit Film Theatre in the Detroit Institute of Arts Friday, July 17, through Sunday, July 19. The film traces the tentative friendship and romance between that frustrated Chasidic wife and mother (Israeli actress Hadas Yaron of Fill the Void) and a non-Jewish man (Martin Dubreuil) who's also at loose ends. "I didn't want to make a film that is critical of the [Chasidic] commu- nity," Giroux explains on the phone from Montreal. "What I want to say and show [is] sometimes you're born in a community where it's not the one for you. Some people are raised in a community with a reli- gion, and ifs good for them. And other people want more diversity, and their own path:' Intrigued by the mysterious, insular Jews he saw on the streets and in the shops near his apart- ment — an area known as "Little Jerusalem" in the early 1900s and today home to one of the largest ultra-Orthodox communities in the world — the non-Jewish film- maker set about researching the Chasidim with the idea of writing a screenplay. "Every movie I made is because I'm curious about a community or a people Giroux explains. "When you do a film, you learn about a subject. I was living in that neigh- borhood and knew nothing about that community, and I was curious about them. [I knew] it was going to be two years of my life learning about this subject, reading about them:' Felix and Meira starts out as a wintry portrait of two lonely people and never veers from the terrain of a character study. A pensive rather than a passionate film, it offers no judgment of the Chasidic world and scrupulously avoids casting villains. To the contrary, Meiris husband, Shulem (the foreboding yet poignant Luzer Twersky), is portrayed as unequipped to deal with his beloved wife's decidedly unorthodox behavior and, ulti- mately, deserving of compassion. "For me, ifs one of the most beautiful things — when you start to learn, you also start to learn there isn't black and white Giroux says. "That's why I make films, to understand my world more" The humanistic world view that permeates every frame of Felix and Meira offers no hint that the film- maker took a while to warm up to the Chasidim. "It's kind of natural for me, when I start to do a film, I have some prejudice or negative thoughts about the subject I'm going to explore," Giroux admits. "I thought this community was [full of] aus- tere people who don't want to talk to me and are really cold. The more I met people in the community, I saw that I was wrong:' Oddly enough, Giroux confides he originally conceived of Felix and Meira as a comedy until he came to understand the delicacy of his subject. "When we met people who left [the Chasidic community], when they were telling their story, it was a big thing for them',' he recalls. "They lost everything. So I told [co-writer Alexandre Laferriere], `We cannot do a comedy. The sub- ject of leaving the community, ifs too important to them:" The actor Luzer Twersky was one of those who lost everything. He grew up in the Satmar commu- nity of Brooklyn and, in his early 20s, divorced his wife and opted for a secular life. His parents promptly disowned him. In addition to his excellent work on camera, Twersky served as technical consultant on Felix and Meira, helping ensure that Yaron's performance as well as the clothes and interiors were accurate. In retrospect, Giroux's pivotal change to a more serious tone was clearly the right call. Indeed, you'd never know from his quiet, patient direction — where every gesture is freighted with meaning, and the removal of a wig is an act of heart- stopping intimacy — that light romance was his first choice. In addition to being chosen as the best Canadian feature at last fall's Toronto International Film Festival, Felix and Meira was cho- sen to close the New York Jewish Film Festival. "That was one of the most important screenings for me Giroux says. "That's when I really understood that everything was fine. There were a lot of ex-mem- bers of the community [who] came to me afterward and said how accurate the film was:' Perhaps Giroux is naturally enthusiastic, or maybe he is espe- cially effusive because he's promot- ing a film. One's natural skepticism aside, ifs doubtful he'd voice some- thing he didn't believe. "For me, Felix and Meira is more than just a film," he says. "For me, ifs one of the most beautiful adven- tures I've had in my life:' ❑ July 9 • 2015 39