You'll Laugh You'll Cry Reb Moshe Waldoks The child of Holocaust While much attention is given to documenting the architecture of the destruction, Waldoks chooses to focus on Jewish life in light of the experience. He recently contributed one of 88 essays in the just-released God, Faith & Identity survivors discusses the future — with humor. from the Ashes: Reflections of Children and Grandchildren of Holocaust Survivors Contributing Writer (Jewish Lights Publishing), edited by Menachem Z. Rosensaft. umor and the Holocaust have "I want to recover some of the rich something in common to Reb cultural life that was lost, to recover that Moshe Waldoks. Neither is a vibrancy which I think we can really use," laughing matter. he says. Some was recovered Waldoks, rabbi at Temple through klezmer music, but Beth Zion in Boston and he hopes for a more "high- co-author of the longstand- brow" renaissance. "[Our ing favorite The Big Book parents and grandparents] of Jewish Humor, will be in had more of it than we have 25TH ANNIVERSARY Detroit on Sunday, April 26, today and they did it without WILLIAM NOVAK & MOSHE WALDOKS to speak to other descen- money" Waldoks says. iFOI NEW 1 1:4 A :1171 a SEE dants of Holocaust survi- Ordained and active in the vors. He says he discovered Jewish Renewal movement, r LOT; "=]' tAlr.Atr117" the power of comedy in his it is no surprise that Waldoks = MOM= family's Toledo, Ohio, living is looking to infuse that spirit room, and he's taken it seri- in today's Jewish life. "I'm not ously ever since. looking to recreate [what they had], but "In the late '50s and early '60s, I noticed resurrect it by being renewalist," he says. how much pleasure my parents got from "We need to talk about what will come the comedians on The Ed Sullivan Show:' after us" he says of the second and third he says. "I figured that there was some- generations of Holocaust survivors. "What thing there. role do we play in this generation and "My father was not a talker, but my transferring it to the next? What do we mother was" Waldoks says of hearing want to remember and transfer? What is about the Holocaust growing up. "There most important?" is no way I could get away from the con- One answer is the importance of family. sciousness of the Holocaust" "I found that [survivors] who remained Most of his mother's family was mur- functional [after the war] and wanted to dered at Auschwitz, and his father's family raise families had grown up with wonder- was in the path of the mobile killing units ful and rich family lives" he says. "I think that followed Nazi troops into Russia. it is important to tell about the resilience of "The overall response to the Holocaust is the survivors:' Charles Silow, director of CHAIM of a tremendous loss, a sort of a phantom limb, like something was amputated" he (Children of Holocaust-Survivors says. "You have choices as a child, whether Association in Michigan), which is hosting to cry or whether to laugh; I chose to Waldoks' talk, first heard him speak at the laugh. World Federation of Jewish Child Survivors "No matter what I do academically or of the Holocaust and Descendants spiritually, I always try to do it with humor. Conference in Boston in 2009. Once you get people to laugh, you open "He has an incredible gift" Slow says, their hearts and then you can put some- "He's very wise, very funny and very spiri- thing in it. tual. He's coming to talk about the future. "Humor is a very important kind of What is our role? Who will carry the torch release he adds, referencing his doctoral after we are gone, and what will be the studies in Jewish intellectual history from message?" Brandeis University. 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