The Dorfman Chapel Advertisement From Dream To Reality Esther Allweiss Ingber { Contributing Writer Ian Dorfman, co- owner of The Dorf- man Chapel, has always upheld his _ father's legacy of serving the com- munity with care, professionalism and dignity. Working in his father's Dorfman Drugs in Detroit, he realized that the funeral profession, not pharmacy, was his calling. Alan graduated in the top 10 percent of his class at Worsham College of Mortuary Science in Chicago in 1965. He won The Restorative Art Award for a skill that allows families a comforting last memory of their loved ones. Graduating in the top 5 percent at Wayne Mortuary School in 1992, Alan's son and partner, Jonathan, also earned a master's ies. The architecture is known for its beauty degree in marriage and family psychology at and symbolism, while the interior creates a warm, comforting environment with the WSU. A licensed psychologist, he specializes in grief therapy. Jonathan speaks and leads tours eye-appeal of fine works of art, magnificent of the chapel for children and has counseled stained glass, access to an outdoor garden, numerous grief support groups. Together their a bereavement library, a clergy room, family professional backgrounds allow The Dorf- room and separate Cohanim room. The beau- man Chapel to meet the needs of the Jewish tiful cherry wood pews, seating more than population. 600, easily accommodate extremely large ser- The story behind the new vices. The chapel also doubled funeral home began, when after its parking capacity in 2005. 30 years of experience, Alan All aspects of a funeral realized that the expanding Jew- service are provided at The Dor- ish community in Metro Detroit fman Chapel, from pre-arrange- and throughout Southeastern ments to aftercare, including Michigan needed a new Jew- ordering and placement of a ish funeral home in a western headstone. After the chapel's suburb. Jonathan consulted with funeral service, mourners have family friend and real estate the option of traveling in pro- Alan and Jon athan Dorfman developer Bill LaKritz about avail- cession or driving on their own to able property in the Farmington meet others at the cemetery. Hills area. Bill formed a group with his business The Dorfman Chapel provides shivah hosts partner, the late Sandy Weber; attorney Rich- with folding chairs, prayer books, coat racks, a ard Roth; and accountant Steve Epstein, who seven-day shivah candle and printed acknowl- became founding members of the project. edgment cards. The chapel provides shivah Their knowledge, dedication and assistance supplies locally for out-of-state burials. turned the dream into reality when The Dorf- The Dorfman Chapel has always been at man Chapel opened its doors in 2001. The the forefront of technology. Its user-friendly group's continual involvement and guidance website provides daily notifications of funer- keep The Dorfman Chapel moving forward in als, email condolences, reminders of yahrzeit its commitment to the community. dates and audio coverage of the funerals. Following the philosophy that The Dorfman Families, to protect mourners' privacy, have the option to create a password to access live- Chapel would function more as a service to the Jewish community than a business, even streaming of the funeral on the computer. The the selection and design of the building cater chapel records a version for those unable to to that ideal. Farmington Hills, the epicenter of view at the time of the service. Those without Detroit's Jewish community, also affords easy access to computers may receive mailed access to 1-275, 1-696 and the Jewish cemeter- yahrzeit reminders and may call the office any 16 BOOM Magazine • February 2015 time night or day for information or assistance. The Dorfman family reaches out to the community in various ways such as supplying magazines to senior centers and distribut- ing thousands of beautiful Jewish calendars every year. A special project, the Kavod Hamet Society, in partnership with B'nai Brith Great Lakes Region, donates and places monuments on unmarked Jewish graves at no charge to families. Its goal is that no Jewish decedent in Metro Detroit remain in an grave without a proper Jewish headstone . Families choose The Dorfman Chapel for the convenient location, state-of-the art facility, the most seating of any Jewish funeral home in the Metro area, and the most on-site paved, striped parking spaces of any Jewish funeral home in Michigan. Most importantly, families choose The Dorfman Chapel for the skilled, honest, compassionate and professional care provided by Alan and Jonathan Dorfman, both licensed funeral directors, and Jonathan, a licensed psychologist. Families appreciate the Dorfmans' 24-hour-a-day availability. All this has earned them the respect and trust of the Jewish community and their fellow profession- als. ■ THE DORFMAN CHAPEL 30440 W. 12 Mile Road Farmington Hills, MI 48334 (248) 406-6003 Toll free: (866) 406-6003 Fax: (248) 406-6005 www.thedorfmanchapel.com